Another Small Step

[Guest Wendae]

After 46 years I've finially gotten my wife's grudging agreement to allow me to dress at home when I feel the need and not have to wait for her to go visit for the day. I was planning a trip next week and finances are getting too tight for me to go away to spend 3 days as Wendae. I pointed this out to her and said "wouldn't you feel better if I stayed home to be Wendae rather then going away?" She agreed that she would rather have me home and not out running around in drag. So now I can relax when the urge comes over me. Wow!!! That sounds like a full moon is required for me to morph into Wendae! Anyway it's a great relief and another small step towards full freedom of us going out as girl friends.

[JJ]

Congratulations Wendae! I know this has been a slow and difficult victory for you to achieve and I'm sure you will be much happier to finally be able to dress whenever you want

I'm happy for you.

John

[Guest kimberly c]

Hi Wendae, thats awesome news,I dress all the time at home its great. I have the full approval of my wife, just love being girlfriends.

Love Kim

[Sally]

Congratulations, even small steps get you where you are going eventually.

Love ya,

Sally

[Cyndee]

That's fantastic to read this post Wendae ! Wives can be mysterious in their rational. To feel comfortable in one's own home is certainly a blessing.

Best wishes,

Cindy Rae

[Guest Katie_in_AK]

Isn't it great when doors like these are unlocked for us?! My wife too is supportive now, and just helped me dress into some stuff we bought together for me. When I asked her to help me with a little bronzer make-up, she said "you're going to have to learn to do this yourself!" I giggled. We actually tried on a few things together and she's such a tom boy (doesn't even OWN a dress), I think she's coming around to having a girlfriend at home. The closet is now starting to look like there's a husband and wife living here and all the girlie stuff is mine! Ha ha! She even picked out a nice teddie for me to wear tonight. She said it looked "cute". While we were shopping together, I had to go get our son from daycare before 6pm, and left her in the shoe department looking for a pair of black size 11's that would go with "anything". She found the perfect pair of open-toes that compliment everything we bought! I love my wife!

[Guest Wendae]

Katie_in_AK . Yes it is! It's been a long time coming. I'm just about where I want to be with her. It's great having the closet full of clothes and shoes. A lingre drawer and a large selection of makeup. And now the freedom to dress at home.

[Guest Missy1900]

i like reading these posts hoping to get the nerve to come out to my wife. i will keep reading!!

[Guest Katie_in_AK]

Missy, that's the hardest thing I think, but when it's out it's out. 8 years ago when my wife was "told" she was not the same person as now. Since then she had worked with many sexually unique people and it was easier to finally write "the letter". I pray you are allowed one day to be your true WHOLE self.

[Guest melissacd65]

Katie_in_AK . Yes it is! It's been a long time coming. I'm just about where I want to be with her. It's great having the closet full of clothes and shoes. A lingre drawer and a large selection of makeup. And now the freedom to dress at home.

[Guest Wendae]

Missy1900 It was a slow process to get to where I am. Like people say ...baby steps! I had finially reached the end of my rope and it was affecting my health. Actually after all those years I was ready to run away.(Not to the circus). Finially told her I needed more freedom and made a few concessions, The rest is history and I am sitting here all femmed up and feeling good. Take it slow and hopefully you will get your wish.

[Guest Daniel Dee]

That's fantastic news Wendae, I am so happy for you, it is so good to be able to dress at home. Guess I am a bit lucky, though my wife does not want to see me she is Ok about me dressing when she is out, which is freqent, and going out dressed whether to my group or just shopping.She is very supportive though still uncomfortable. My great wish is that one day she may come round and we might be able to go out together just occasionally.I,m working on it.Hugs Daniel