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Guest Kaytlyn

Hey everyone,

I am on day two of HRT, estrogen patches and spiro (anti-andro). I am having some really wild hot flashes, anyone experience these also?

So I got my patches on Tuesday, I was at the Walmart Pharmacy and the pharmacist, in front of other customers says to me, "Why does a man need estrogen?" I said "it is personal", She said "Do I need to call your doctor to find out?" I was like "it is none of your business, it is a valid prescription and you have no right to question me as to why I have prescribed it". I couldn't believe the nerve, the beetch. SO she finally filled it after embarrassing me and gave me the week long patches. I really wanted to the every other day patches my Dr told me about. Anyone had both see good and bad about either?

So Tuesday night I took my spiro and showered and put on a patch. I drifted dreamily off to sleep, but when I awoke I was so disappointed that the Booby Fairy didn't show, ARRGH! Did I miss where I was to put the patch wrapper? LOL Seriously though I am having these intense hot flashes and not sure if this is the wonderful flow coming into my body or the last stand of the poison. The Spiro is already working on my body hair, I can tell the difference just in a day. I got my self all prettied up by shaving that infernal hair on legs, chest, backside, etc. Usually the hair is already stubble by the next morning and bothering me again, but as of today it is barely breaking the surface. I Love it!

I am so happy that my journey is at this point FINALLY!:thumbsup:

Hugs,

Kaytlyn

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Congratulations, Kaytlyn! :groupwavereversed:

That is really great news, but I am very angry about the behavior of your pharmacist. That was totally unprofessional. If it were me, i would be writing or e-mailing the pharmacy corporation to complain. If they wanted to ask you about it, there are ways to do that privately, and even then they would have had to cease their questions if you felt it was wrong.

Oh, well, there are stupid people in the world, and its best just to avoid them. Perhaps another pharmacy would be better.

The Womanhood Express is leaving the station, and your ticket is punched. Get on board and enjoy the ride.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Karen K

Kaytlyn,

I have not experienced any "hot flashes" but then, I have not been prescribe spiro and my estrogen (Premarin) is only ************ and progesterone ***********. Also I am 49y/o, because of that, I believe my endo is bringing me along slowly.

I am so pleased that you have made this step in your transition. Good things will happen, you just have to be a little patient.

Good luck and keep us posted on your progress.

Hugs,

Laura Jane

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Guest Megan_Lynn

ah I so remember the intense hot flashes when I first started hrt. Had them off and one the first few months of hrt. For me I usually had them around time for next patch to be used.As for breast growth I personally had the most from year 1-2 and at 2 1/2 years hrt am still getting some more growth. I feel bad for what you went through with that @#%&*#$ person while trying to get your scripts. But anywho enjoy your new hormone express..

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Guest JaniceW

Kaytlyn,

I agree wiht Carolyn, that pharmacist had no reason to ask the question that they did. As a healthcare professional I may feel a need to ask why you were prescribed the estrogen, but it would be to discern if there was anything I shoudl be checking on with regards to the medication causing you a problem and not prying into your private business. I would most certainly report that interchange to the company so they can do what they need to to insure any other patients frim being embarassed. Really, would that pharmacist have asked "Hey why are you getting anti-retrovirals?" to an HIV positive patient.

That pharmacist violated the HIPA act by publically saying anything at all to you other than, "That'll be $X."

Of course you could have really put them in their place by simply saying, "This prescription is NOT for a man!"

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Guest Jo-Ann

CONGRATES :groupwavereversed: on starting hrt for me was like the wait was over.I never experianced hot flashes doesnt sound to fun.Oh and for the pharmasist that was unprofesional to do that to question in front of you all she had to do is say "hold on one moment" and call the doctor give me the number and ill give her a piece of my mind lol

Jo-Ann

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Guest Kaytlyn

Kaytlyn,

I agree wiht Carolyn, that pharmacist had no reason to ask the question that they did. As a healthcare professional I may feel a need to ask why you were prescribed the estrogen, but it would be to discern if there was anything I shoudl be checking on with regards to the medication causing you a problem and not prying into your private business. She was really rude to me and I wasn't interested in any sort of exchange, I just wanted my proper fuel. I would most certainly report that interchange to the company so they can do what they need to to insure any other patients frim being embarassed. I think I will report her good point! Really, would that pharmacist have asked "Hey why are you getting anti-retrovirals?" to an HIV positive patient. really true enough!!

That pharmacist violated the HIPA act by publically saying anything at all to you other than, "That'll be $X."

Of course you could have really put them in their place by simply saying, "This prescription is NOT for a man!" I really should have but as an ex-construction worker I learned about prejudices and was feeling very intimidated with customers and the older pharmacist smirking and looking over at me also. I really should be proud of who I am but at times I feel very self conscious and vulnerable.

Thanks so much for your support,

Hugs

Kaytlyn

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Guest Kaytlyn

Kaytlyn,

I have not experienced any "hot flashes" but then, I have not been prescribe spiro and my estrogen (Premarin) is only ************ and progesterone ***********. Also I am 49y/o, because of that, I believe my endo is bringing me along slowly.

I am so pleased that you have made this step in your transition. Good things will happen, you just have to be a little patient.

Good luck and keep us posted on your progress.

Hugs,

Laura Jane

Laura Jane,

My doctor told me that she always prescribes Spironolactone as an Anti-androgen ?? In 6 weeks I have to get my blood work done and they are going to test the free testosterone she is an OB doctor that works on specific days for transsexuals. It was awesome to be called Ms. and to be acknowledged by a health care professional as a woman, completely validating. I am 44 y/o i guess different doctors follow different ways. thanks for your reply!

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kaytlyn

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Guest Shari

Congratulations, Kaytlyn.

When the boobage fairy visits, send her to my house!

The pharmacy was outrageous the way they behaved. At mine, the pharmacy assistant gave me a nice smile and said have a nice day. I can't say what I would do if faced with rudeness like you got....

Hugs,

Shari

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Guest paddy

Congratulations Kaytlyn,

But if I had a Phamacies like you had to put up with, I would be taking all my business elsewhere and I would be telling them.

Hugs Patricia :groupwavereversed:

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Guest sarah f

Congrats Kaytlyn on starting. :groupwavereversed: I am so happy for you. That first couple of weeks after starting is so wonderful.

I had a problem with my pharmacy too when starting. They questioned me too. After that first visit thought they were really good to me. Hopefully that will be the case for you too. If not then find another pharmacy or complain to their manager.

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Congrats Kaitlyn. The first day of taking hormones is very special. It's a day you will always remember. I am surprised the pharmacist didn't treat you more professionally. She obviously has little experience with transgender issues. I know my pharmacist asked me if I wanted to be called Jennifer, smiled, and told me "you are in for a wild ride".

Let the good times roll.

Jenny

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