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Post Op Mtf Transsexuals; How Did You Feel 4-5 Months Post Op?


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Guest Little_cherry

I'm asking because my boyfriend lives in another country, he knows about me that im transsexual. we weren't together for almost 1 year now anymore, and we were almost together 1 year before I told him, so its a very big surprise that now about 1 year after I told him he finally can accept it :) Im so happy that we are together again! He finally sees and understands that I am a girl, that I am still the same pretty girl as he saw me before and my personality didnt change either :)

well my question is; how did you feel 4-5 months post op? could you already have sex? (lol sorry for this quesiton)

thanks for your answers in advance :)

xx

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Guest Jenni_S

I certainly didn't dare, at 4 months. That's the barest of minimums, time-wise, to even think about it, according to the surgeon that did my work.

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Guest Sarah_W

For me I waited until I met a guy I really wanted to have sex with. I wasn't really in a hurry just to test it out. So, it was more like two years after SRS for me. I still don't like to rush into it.

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Guest Ann Onymous

cannot speak to heterosexual penetrative sex, but my partner and I were doing oral and digital easily within the first month...helluvalot more fun than dilation in the traditional mode (which I had little interest in given that I knew that depth was NOT a longterm interest or need for me).

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Guest kelise

I was able to (carefully) self gratification to orgasm at 3 weeks with a small vibe. Had lesbian oral and digital sex at 3 months. I would say at 4 months you should be ok as long as he's gentle.

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Guest Little_cherry

Thanks all, I will have the surgery in about 2 months!! wooooohoo =) I can't wait :) So I will be about 7 months post op at this time then which should be ok I think.

huggles cherry

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