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Guest Maria_B

So, this is not really a passing thread in the normal sense, its more about passing off in a more feminine way

Read: In a feminine way.

Maybe its just my bias as, well, being me, but I see myself as a dude.

End. Of. Story.

So I was hoping you'd be able to give me some tips to feminize my appearance (facial wise, as thats the only part I can do without magic :P)

I'll post a picture

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Hopefully that worked

Love, Maria (My Inner Astro Zombie)

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Maria your vivid feminine personality shines through your eyes and face-I have never seen even a hint of anything but an amazing girl in your pics. Maybe because it IS so strong in your eyes. As long as you give people a few visual clues in dress or hair or make-up they can't help but see female either as long as the voice is good. Voice is one real killer when it comes to presentation. But some people just exude their gender and you are one.

You could have a make over at a cosmetics counter in a department store if they do that there and I had an impression it was done almost everywhere. That would give you some ideas. Your brows look just a little thick in the center from what I can tell from the pic but it's hard to be sure. Keeping your brows thin and clean not only looks more feminine it also open up your eyes.

I'd say emphasize your eyes. They are beautiful and as I said they radiate your female soul.

And as feminine as your face looks to me now I can only imagine what HRT is going to do as you go along!

Hugs

Johnny

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Guest John Chiv

Maria,

Sorry can't do for two reasons. One I have always seen you and still do as a woman. Second, I have no clue about tips on feminizing appearances since I have been kicking and screaming at anything feminine since birth. Seriously, I threw temper tantrums and refused to wear girly clothes and I prevailed.

So why am I responding. To say hi and tell you I support you in whatever you wish to do towards this goal.

John

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Guest Donna Jean

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Seesh! Give it up, Hon.....you're a girl and you always will be ...

I guess that you're stuck that way!

Huggs

Dee Jay

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Guest BeckyTG

Sweet Maria,

A dude? You are most certainly a dudette! :D

You just exude femininity at it's best and most innocent. You are just sweet looking.

The only things I can think of are to arch the eyebrows and thin them a bit and use pretty ribbons or hair clips or some such pretty things in your beautiful hair.

A dude.... a dude?

Oh, get your eyes checked.

You're a pretty girl. Snap out of it.

Hugs,

Becky

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Guest BrandonIThink

Maria....I've seen a few pictures of you in posts you've made, and I still fail to see even a hint of male in your face. I can't imagine you as anything but a girl. And a pretty one at that ;)

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Guest Orva26
You just exude femininity at it's best and most innocent. You are just sweet looking.

This,

A dude.... a dude?

Oh, get your eyes checked

and this.

Seriously, that bias must be pretty heavy for you to see a dude. Relax that's not what you're conveying at all, besides you're too pretty to be worrying.

-Orva

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Guest Julie T

Maria

You are the most amazing 'boy' I had ever seen here on Laura's Playground because without the slightest bit of HRT you are a girl. Maria? You are a girl, you look like a girl. Maria, can I say it again? You have always looked like a girl from your first day here. Is you can't see it, I don't really know what to say? Maybe some 'boys' like you look like 'girls' in Australia and people see you as a boy, but in the USA where I live you look like a girl.

How can I tell a girl how to look more like a girl?

Julie

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Guest Drewbie

I see absolutely nothing male about your face. We are all our biggest critics. I'd say you should use some mascara or something to accentuate your eyes a little more. As a guy, I don't know all that much about makeup, but you should do something with your eyes because in my opinion they are your best feature.

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Guest MissSiul

I think you look beautfiul

very natural and young!you have a pretty smile

and like said before,you look like a very sweet

person^^

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