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Hello everyone!

I am new here (sorry to say I feel a bit sick, a little tired as well) but here goes.

My name is Ericka and I am 21 at the moment (22 end of this year).

I have recently opened up to EVERYONE (on Facebook too, have detached real name to name I want to go by) to me being transgender and have been trying to dress openly full-time for the Real Life bit (if it works). Some friends knew about it and I wasn't too ready to open up but now I am and this girl won't stop! :)

All the family and friends I know I have support me and I haven't had much of a difficulty with anyone (except my dad possibly, he said he doesn't condone it but he doesn't look down on me for it)

I had a job at one point but the work didn't have much heart into it and crushed me pretty quick. I am now looking for another job.

I live in California (of course) pretty much up in the trees. About 40 miles either way I believe to reach any sort of populated town.

I always have something going on in my head. It could be positive or negative some/most of the time as well it just depends on what goes through.

I have also wondered about checking in at jobs i have applied at in dress as the gender I am but have wondered how well it would work or even net me a job (since they've seen me as my born gender). I have had friends tell me to go as the gender I relate with and such but this is probably a topic for another post.

Hope to have some great conversations and get in touch with the community.

Take care all! :)

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Hello Ericka,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. Thank you for sharing your story with us. :)

MaryEllen

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Good to have you with us Erica! There are quite a few posts scattered about regarding TG and job issues. Look forward to seeing you around!

Best wishes

Michelle

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Guest Emily Ray

Welcome Laura's Erica! I am so happy you have found a good level of support with your family and friends. That is priceless in itself.

Looking forward to knowing you better.

Huggs

Emily

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Guest miss kindheart

Hi Ericka,

<<< hug >>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We have MTF meetings-Mon & Sat 9pm est, and you are welcome to attend.

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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Welcome to the Playground, Erika. Nice to have you with us.

There's lots of great information in the forums, and fantastic members to offer advice and share their thoughts with. So don't be shy and please do post your questions and comments. One of us (or 20 of us) will be along to answer.

I ask all our new members to please read the site terms and conditions, as we do strive to keep the site at a PG 13 level. A link is at the top of each page.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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