Came Out To My Parents

[Guest MissSiul]

This morning,I was thinking with myself "It's the end of the year already,and this was supposed to be the year were I would come out and start transitioning."

Thinking of that,I got the letter(my parents was looking for a remote control in my room and almost found it)put it on the table with a pink crocodile pin(the ones for food bags)so it would draw attention.I was not thinking at that point,I just did what I had too.

At school,I was anxious.Sometimes,I would think "I did it?I let the letter for them to read?am I dreaming?".

When I got in the car to go to lunch,my mother(who is a happy talkative person)was kinda sad and quiet,but still loving(asked about school,gave me a little massage on my hair,etc).

At the letter I wrote that my parents should wait until them both were at home,so she didn't said anything about(she is right next to me).I also said that I don't believe in God anymore in the letter,and now she asked if I pray before sleep in a very calm way.

I can't wait for tonight,maybe my parents will talk to me about it.

Bye

[Guest Fiarlia]

That's great that you came out to them, and while your mother may seem sad, keep in mind it's completely natural and normal. The good news is that she was able to respect what you said in the letter and waiting until your father is home too. If she had a real problem with it she'd likely have blown up and you'd most definitely know by now.

I hope it all goes well for you! Maybe if your parents have concerns or questions you could direct them here, specifically the parents forum - even if they don't wish to make an account simply reading and learning will probably help them tremendously.

Keep us updated, ok?

~Heather~

[Guest MissSiul]

Hi^^

Yes I do feel better,I thought that she would start asking if the letter was a prank or something.I believe they read it by the way my mother was and that she asked if I pray at night,but still I really liked that she didn't said anything.

The only problem is that they are not very goo in english,but I already gave two pages of information about transsexual people.I don't know were the letter is now,I do believe they read it^^

I'm going to translate more pages about transsexualism after we talk(as I hope tomorrow)

[Guest Julie T]

Miss Siul

It's going slow, but it seems to be moving? Please keep us updated.

Julie