Awkward/embarassing Question...

[Guest raydub]

No, it's not so much the humping but imagining you're on top actually penetrating a girl as you do it.

Story of my life...

[Guest Sergei]

Some do.

No, it's not so much the humping but imagining you're on top actually penetrating a girl as you do it.

Jay

Unless you're gay! For me the male way is just not penatrating yourself. It's like jerking off your mini penis. I consider that the male way.

[Guest Evan_J]

Yes, I made it through the original post without laughter HOWEVER I did not make it through all of the responses without any.....

Guys, I am such a naughty "looker" pre-T, I wonder what will happen with me. I walk around in sunglasses just so people can't see where the eyes drift. Girls are just....so....pretty. Me like.

Yeah...I think I might be the one that girls' mothers warn them about.

....only cuz I quit wearin sunglasses so much and since have been let known (the best friend let me know, a couple exes, even my mother said "quit it") that I am pervin 24/7 down shirts, up skirts, and over behinds and so it was funny that someone else has to wear em not to be clocked as a naughter ogler too.

But to add to the tally, nope Idon't utilize any biological parts either.

[Guest StrandedOutThere]

Yes, I made it through the original post without laughter HOWEVER I did not make it through all of the responses without any.....

....only cuz I quit wearin sunglasses so much and since have been let known (the best friend let me know, a couple exes, even my mother said "quit it") that I am pervin 24/7 down shirts, up skirts, and over behinds and so it was funny that someone else has to wear em not to be clocked as a naughter ogler too.

But to add to the tally, nope Idon't utilize any biological parts either.

Dude, I'm in Florida. If you saw what was walking around down here, you'd definitely see why I need the sunglasses. You'd be putting yours on too. There are a lot of attractive girls down here...A LOT. Now...most of them probably aren't worth talking to, but they all deserve a good, hearty look.

I pray for winter so they will their clothes back on...maybe then I'll be able to concentrate.

[Guest jantonio]

Dude, I'm in Florida. If you saw what was walking around down here, you'd definitely see why I need the sunglasses. You'd be putting yours on too. There are a lot of attractive girls down here...A LOT. Now...most of them probably aren't worth talking to, but they all deserve a good, hearty look.

I pray for winter so they will their clothes back on...maybe then I'll be able to concentrate.

Hehe, you guys crack me up.

Yeah, Florida is full of nice looking ladies walking around flaunting their feminine body.

Jose Antonio...

[Guest Seth]

I always be lookin' girls up and down. I mean, I'll walk down the mall, and do a full 360 just to look at a chick's bee-hind.

But as for me, I don't touch myself. I do the imagining-I'm-penetrating-a-girl thing.

[Guest Cal]

I'm a little confused by this...

bioguys don't usually self gratification by humping a pillow :/

so when you're saying the guy way, you just mean in such a way that you don't penetrate or really make direct contact with your hands to your sex organs?

I can't get off at ALL touching myself...since I was super little I'd hump pillows and stuff. I stopped a few years ago because it just seemed weird. :/

Er, just for the record, my post was edited: "bioguys don't usually self gratification by humping a pillow" was not what I originally said, I know how to conjugate verbs.

Anyway.

I didn't realize anyone else did it like I do. And I never really considered it'd be a trans thing really. That's comforting to know it's just just me being...weird.

[Guest raydub]

Glad we could put your mind at ease Cal.

And..we figured you could conjugate your verbs...we've all gotta deal with the censor.

Ray

[Bulldog1948]

Yep, the way guys do, and now with packys and such it's so much easier! Though in the past dildos worked also as an extension of myself. Even as a kid. I too tried the girly way but really could not make it work. I used to think I was just weird. At least my waste-of-money ugly-as-sin Lola-Jake got some action yesterday.

So, what's up with your waste of money LOla Jake. Man, those toys are expensive. I've checked their site out and have really been wondering if they were any good. Which one did you buy? Personally, I don't cae for their website, not an easy navigator in my book.

Her toys look somewhat realistic. But Tyrone out of England has a pretty neat penis. But, he's really expensive. Yeah, I know- why didn't God just give all of us the proper equipment and we wouldn't have to purchase the extras. LOL

[Guest Snow Angel]

Unless you're gay! For me the male way is just not penatrating yourself. It's like jerking off your mini penis. I consider that the male way.

ahahahaha, you certainly have a way with words. You're blunt as a brick! No tiptoeing around or being tact for Sergei. I'm blushing and laughing at the same time.

This is an interesting topic though. When I first discovered self gratifying, I did it by rubbing myself sideways or up and down with my underwear on. I would rub over the surface of the underwear. Or I would rub a pillow against myself. I was self gratifying myself long before I was physically mature enough to ejaculate. I didn't know what was happening, I just knew that it felt great.

Then in high school through some guys I learned what 'jerking off' meant, like the classic hand around the shaft motion. I was like "Do you guys really do it that way? Why? That's weird!"

[Flint]

So, what's up with your waste of money LOla Jake. Man, those toys are expensive. I've checked their site out and have really been wondering if they were any good. Which one did you buy? Personally, I don't cae for their website, not an easy navigator in my book.

Her toys look somewhat realistic. But Tyrone out of England has a pretty neat penis. But, he's really expensive. Yeah, I know- why didn't God just give all of us the proper equipment and we wouldn't have to purchase the extras. LOL

YEa...We have to pay for them.....bio men get them for free No fair *sits with arms crossed*

[Flint]

Oh also i'm so glad somoene else asked about wha it meant...as i thought i was maybe just a little dumb........... :rollseyes:

[Guest JayJaye]

So, what's up with your waste of money LOla Jake. Man, those toys are expensive. I've checked their site out and have really been wondering if they were any good. Which one did you buy? Personally, I don't cae for their website, not an easy navigator in my book.

Her toys look somewhat realistic. But Tyrone out of England has a pretty neat penis. But, he's really expensive. Yeah, I know- why didn't God just give all of us the proper equipment and we wouldn't have to purchase the extras. LOL

Scroll back a few pages. I posted an in-depth review. I got the Sam Plus. It's very rubbery and shiny and NOT realistic in the least. Vein are GREEN. So fake looking and feeling. ICK!!

Jay

[Guest Nicholas Aiden]

Unless you're gay! For me the male way is just not penatrating yourself. It's like jerking off your mini penis. I consider that the male way.

I consider that the male way too! Sometimes I hump, sometimes I jerk... I like to mix it up and keep the little guy guessing, LOL!

I have tried the penetration thing too, and sometimes its good. I imagine it as if I'm a "sexually advanced" guy who doesn't mind letting the girl tickle the prostate. I don't really like it if I do it, that seems silly. But girls... if they want to touch me.... chances are I WONT SAY NO! haha

[Guest My_Genesis]

Wow, didn't think it was this common...it kinda shows that being trans is biological, because if so many of us did this when we were so little, and obviously didn't really even know what we were doing (I used to think I was pretending to urinate like a guy ...which nevertheless still indicates my male identity since i was very little..)

But obviously if this were something we "chose" to do, we would not be doing our thing that way from such a very young age before we were even aware of exactly what we were doing...we can use that as a defense now against, umm, people who think we're just pure evil

[Guest My_Genesis]

YEa...We have to pay for them.....bio men get them for free No fair *sits with arms crossed*

It's VERY unfair..sometimes I get so angry at just men in general because of that, then I feel guilty because they didn't exactly do anything to urine me off..omg when I go to the beach it's horrendous how angry I get every time a guy goes buy in their swimming shorts, esp. when they have pecks, or are really muscular, or have a (hot) girlfriend with them, or a combination of all of the above...

Yeah, I know- why didn't God just give all of us the proper equipment and we wouldn't have to purchase the extras. LOL

LOL and they shouldn't even be extras!! They are essentials And as funny as that sounds, it's still very depressing and frustrating when you're thinking about it CONSTANTLY ..Then again, I think God did this to us for a reason, it teaches you a lot about life that most people don't really learn, or if they do, they learn way later, like when they're really old lol

[Flint]

Wouldn't it be good if like bio men, even though they are not like born with us but like given to us for free? *lives in dream fantasy land*

[Guest My_Genesis]

lol my undergrad research life is going to revolve around that..well idk how free it would be, depends how quickly everything can be "produced"..lol..but yeah it also sucks that we have to live in fantasy land to get what we want and they all get it in reality..

[Flint]

We should go on a march "We want a penis for free...we want a penis for free.."......... *looks shifty*

[Guest My_Genesis]

OMG dude we totally should!!

Maybe in the UK we'd get in less trouble for it ..America is not the free country it used to be

[Guest GoldenKirbichu]

Assuming I could actually orgasm from it, my self-gratification (take that, censor! I used your vague term before you could make me!) patterns would be more masculine in nature. I have usually stuck with external stimulation to my neophallus and surrounding regions, rather than penetration... In fact, my genital region has the tendency to burn (like acid) if I attempt genital penetration for too long. It was never a very satisfying endeavour... That said, I wouldn't be TOO opposed to penetration if it was done carefully. I would just be ambivalent about it.

I have been doing the masculine thrusting motions since I was very young. It was pretty much my default setting.

It does seem that self-gratification patterns tend to follow gender traits...

[Guest My_Genesis]

I have been doing the masculine thrusting motions since I was very young. It was pretty much my default setting.

It does seem that self-gratification patterns tend to follow gender traits...

Yeah same here...proves it's ingrained in us biologically from a very young age..

And it does seem that way, I noticed that as well, I'm glad I asked about it because I thought I was the only one..

[Guest sphere]

Hah! Yeah, I'm the same, I've never done it the "female" way either hahaha, even before I was aware of the word "transsexual." Comes naturally, yup.

[Guest Keane]

Y'know i've been skeptical about whether this is a phase or not for me for the past few months, well, not really skeptical, i do feel like this is who i am but i've had a lot of doubts, but reading this topic has made everything totally solid for me XD

[Guest My_Genesis]

It does really bug me though..especially in this..umm..specific situation..the whole phantom-limb thing..the best way I can describe it is it feel like having an internal penis