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anyone ever cd and have fully fem/male feelings actions, etc... when doing so?


Guest yuki

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i never put on makeup or go crazy lolz, but it seems every time I ever cd I seem to be a completly different person my voice goes semi-almost completly feminine, my feelings are easily sightable, I tend to be more towards the huggy touchy side of things, also I am way better at writing when I am in a female style of dressing, basically when I cd its like I've been female the whole time.

p.s i can't get a sound sleep unless im in feminine clothes =p

anyone else seen this kinda occurance when they cd at all?

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Guest kimberly c

Hi Yuki, I feel the same as you when I crossdress.My female side is totally in control, all my emotions are feminine.

I have crossdressed for many years and enjoy every minute as a female!

Love Kim

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Guest ChloëC

Hi yuki,

Yep, happens to me all the time (as Flo would say). In male mode I absolutely hate having hair brushing across my eyes. It drives me crazy and even seeing it on others, I notice it and am slightly tense by it. But getting dressed and putting on a long wig with bangs? Whoo hoo, I love the bangs as they cross over my eyes and eyelashes. It just feels very normal. That's only one thing, but interesting. I also walk different, holding my body different, and it just feels natural. Lots of other things, too. I just feel different.

Hugz

Chloë

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Guest joan eden

i undergo a transformation,that at times I feel a little breathless.The saddle of being a male has been taken away.I move, walk and talk differently.I sometimes feel like I'm a giddy teenaged girl.I think it's addictive.I smile a LOT more. More at peace.

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Guest Roberta-Belinda

Totally agree with all your comments. I don't wear makeup or a wig when I am in Roberta-Belinda mode but I feel so feminine. I feel like a glamorous and sexy middle aged Woman. Yuki I know what you mean about feeling like a giddy teenager. I spend a lot of time listening and singing along to music in quite a convincing tuneful singing voice. Most of the songs I select are old torch song standards sung from the perspective of a middle aged Woman. However, if I am listening to something like The Corrs I feel like like a girl of about 20. I have this one cd that I really love Martina McCutcheon who used to be in Eastenders all the songs are about going out on the town with the girls. Not something I have ever or will experience as a man but I really enjoy it.

Until I was about eight years ago I was still wearing mini skirts. I would still wear them now but my knees are not as attractive as they used to be at 54. Nowadays all my skirts and dressed are down to the knee. I love to get into the mindset of what an attractive middle aged Woman would feel like it when she dressed up for the evening.

For me and indeed most of us on here crossdressing is all about feeling feminine. Congrats for starting such a good thread Yuki.

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Guest RachelnPa

Yuki,

I also go through a change when I dress. I feel calmer and comfortable my female tendencies, the way I walk and act come out as well. I hardly wear make up or a wig sometimes I will wear some jewelry. I find sleep is much easier too when I am wearing a nightgown or my comfy PJ's.

Hugs,

Rachel

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Guest AliciaDB2014

My husband definitely acts differently when he is in his skirt, heels and his "female" shirts. His aura changes, he is more relaxed, more delicate about the way he moves, is much more soft about the way he touches me, and even his emotional state is different. Though he is still the same person, there is a noticeable change when he is dressed. I think it has more to do with being able to express who he is than anything else.

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Guest BobbiLee

This is a good topic and glad it was brought up. I feel "right" when I am dressed. I love the feel of having a dress on and sitting properly. It just seems like the stars are aligned when I have everything on.

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Guest Krystal_Nessa

This is a very interesting topic! I guess this is kind of like me when I crossdressed a few weeks ago in private. It feels like I have two identities stuck in me. Whenever Vanessa is let out and she expresses herself, she is full-on feminine! :)

Lots of love,

~Nessa <3 xo

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Guest *Charlotte P*

I find that when dressed, I am more productive, will clean the house and not even think twice, which i don't really do in male mode. I think clearer, more caring, more affectionate. I think it makes us better as people overall.

Charlotte

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Guest Eve Caillard

Nessa

How much I agree. I always feel like there's two identities in me. Dressing switches on the other part and it is so good to be that other 'me'. And she is, as you say, "full on". In 'male mode' I find this alter ego still lurks there and alters my perceptions through the day. Very perceptive comment!

Eve

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Guest AshleighP

Totally agree! Even my posture is better when I'm dressed. It's almost like the only time I care about how I look is when I'm dressed as Ashleigh. Also, the only times I like how I look in the mirror is when I'm dressed. It seems Ashleigh has a better self esteem than my alternate persona. ^_^

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Guest saffron

When I am Saffron I tend to be so much more feminine in every way. The way I sit, walk, my posture, everything. I don't want or try to look totally female but when I am wearing a dress and heels my masculine side disappears. I love every second of being the person I am when I am dressed

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Guest Wanda Michelle

Like everyone else, when I am dressed I feel and act very feminine. I am a woman. It's a wonderful feeling but all you girls know that.

Hugs to All,

Wanda

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Guest Eve Caillard

You probably feel the same, but the weird thing is...I don't put on any of this. I don't make it up or 'make pretend'. When I put aside my male life and choose to be Eve, all the feminine stuff just automatically surfaces. It is like a switch is flicked and a different person comes up from inside of me. I feel so calm and relaxed, so natural like it. I do not have to make a show of it, or 'pretend'. It is as real a part of me as breathing. A true alter ego that seems to be the real me. Today, I came home from work tired, fed up and disillusioned. I pulled on my favourite red dress for half an hour (already wearing hold up stockings as under-dressing) and pop! There my other life surfaced. So different, and so calming from my daily grind. I felt better within minutes. If I wear heels I walk tall and feel a new person. A good skirt makes me feel 'right'. A floaty dress makes me feel so relaxed.

Oh, it is hard to describe!

Do you feel the same? It seems like it from comments.

Eve

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Guest Roberta-Belinda

Eve I feel exactly the same as you. You and I are very much alike. As soon as I put a dress and tights on I become a different person. I feel so much more attractive and sexy when I am dressed as Belinda.

Love

Belinda

XXX

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Guest sweetcharlene41

I go through a TREMENDOUS CHANGE, i love dressing up so much, I feel as much like a women as a women does, I HOPE. I act feminine, I try to talk different, I even watch women's show's on TV, in stead of those cop show's I watch. Some times I wish I had the gut's and money to go all the way. I have to agree with Fiona, it's like having two different inside me, I JUST LOVE IT, AND lAURA'S pLAYGROUND LET'S ME GET ALL THESE FEELING OUT, THAT HAVE BEEN BOTTLED UP INSIDE ME ALL THESE Years, THANK YOU ALL, You all HAVE SAVED ME. god bless

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Guest nanniegurl

I go through a TREMENDOUS CHANGE, i love dressing up so much, I feel as much like a women as a women does, I HOPE. I act feminine, I try to talk different, I even watch women's show's on TV, in stead of those cop show's I watch. Some times I wish I had the gut's and money to go all the way. I have to agree with Fiona, it's like having two different inside me, I JUST LOVE IT, AND lAURA'S pLAYGROUND LET'S ME GET ALL THESE FEELING OUT, THAT HAVE BEEN BOTTLED UP INSIDE ME ALL THESE Years, THANK YOU ALL, You all HAVE SAVED ME. god bless

I totally agree! I didn't think a place like this existed! It's wonderful to come here and chat with people who you relate to. I live in Central fla. on east coast!

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Guest Janine cd

I agree that dressing up totally feminine makes me think and act like a real woman. The transformation becomes complete as soon as I do my makeup and put on my wig. Sitting in front of the mirror, I see a totally female person. I love every minute.

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