Stealth and Passing Help?

[Guest Andrew Parker]

I'm Drew, I'm 16 and am mostly stealth at my school. I am 4 months on T and post op. I pass pretty much 95% of the time, and when I don't it's when I hang out with girls and they assume I'm a girl as well.

I do have some pretty feminine mannerisms and I come off as gay most of the time.

I'm having some trouble being stealth simply because being trans has been a big part of my life for the past year or so. I'm sure I won't be stealth for long but I'm trying to stay stealth for at least a little while.

Here's my youtube so you can see what I look and act like.

Can I have some tips?

[Guest chngnwnd]

I am the parent of 2 teenage boys - so I have a lot of contact with cisgendered guys since I am a single parent. Your mannerisms are not completely masculine as you say - but you do carry yourself like an awkward teenage boy (in a good way) which is how I would expect you to carry yourself given your age.

hugs

Bobbi

[Guest Michaele]

Maybe It's my age, but personally I'd ditch the lip ring, boys your age in my area aren't into them.

Big Hugs

Shelley