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Sex in HRT transexuals married with Genetic Girls


Guest Vidia

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Hi there girls..,

I got a doubt.., perhaps you can help me clear my mind...

For those of you that are married to genetic girls.,

how is your sexual life between you and your couple?

are you still able to penetrate your wife?

or do you manage sex with toys, double sided dildos, etc..?

please help me..,

i want to start HRT and im married.., i have total support and enjoy from my wife.., but im afraid i can never make sex to her again, and she might think moving on in her life without me...

im 35 years, and she is 26

Vidia Veronica

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Guest Donna Jean

are you still able to penetrate your wife?

please help me..,

Vidia Veronica

That is a no answerable question, Hon.........

Most (the largest percentage of) trans girls can no longer function after an extended time on HRT.....

Some say that it didn't affect them at all.......

It's different for every person........

There are other ways to pleasure a partner than penetration, though.....

Donna Jean

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For those of you that are married to genetic girls.,

how is your sexual life between you and your couple?

are you still able to penetrate your wife?

or do you manage sex with toys, double sided dildos, etc..?

Sex life is pretty good still, and while I am fully functional (can maintain an erection easily and can ejaculate), I don't perform penetrative sex very often. Sex toys, however, have made it easier psychologically to still have that aspect of our sexual relationship (penetration) without having to make myself uncomfortable.

I know of a lot of people have difficulty with sexual function (erection, desire, etc), but I also know plenty of people that do not. It varies from person to person, really.

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Gah!

Sex =/= vaginal penetration

How do you think lesbians get around not having penises? There are TONS of sexual practices that do not involve penetration. Actually a decrease in 'male' functionality might vastly improve sex life because the phallic obsession may end. Look up non-penetrative sex, look up lesbian sex. You will never lose the ability to have sex with your wife you may just need to keep and open mind and expand what you conceptualize sex to be.

That being said it seems that a decent amount of people go on HrT and retain some semblance of functionality. HrT will leave you with a sperm count of zero eventually and eventually some people stop making any of the components of ejaculate so their penile orgasms are completely dry. HrT will cause testicular tissue and penile tissue to atrophy eventually you would lose functionality down there. I don't know the truth of it but I've heard from some people who can no longer get hard that having their penis (which is basically at this point a freakishly large clit) touched is still pleasurable despite it not getting hard.

Even if you go completely flaccid 24/7 you still can use toys.

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Guest NadineB

I am 32, my wife, (gg) are still very happily, but our sex life has changed a lot. Even though penetration is still possible, but I dont let it happen anymore. As for ejaculation, it isnt much, a drop at the most. As time has gone on I don't want her touching me down there, it just doesn't feel right. We do use toys and they are more amazing than ever, better than ever climaxing as a man. We have had to be creative and we have also realized we are not the traditional couple anymore, I have started experiencing a need she doesn't fulfill. Not sure where we go from here but for us, it's being honest and open at all times, and it's all about give and take.

Good luck

Luv Nadine

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Thankyou very much for your sincerity and honest answers...., i really appreciate your help...

i went yesterday to the clinic, for some blood test and analysis to show to the endo...,

im still deciding..., and thinkinkg about it...

i want a more small body.., thats my issue... (do you think it could be achieved with excersie and diet?)

cheers girls...

lots of love...

Vidia

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Guest Shauna B

I am 32, my wife, (gg) are still very happily, but our sex life has changed a lot. Even though penetration is still possible, but I dont let it happen anymore. As for ejaculation, it isnt much, a drop at the most. As time has gone on I don't want her touching me down there, it just doesn't feel right. We do use toys and they are more amazing than ever, better than ever climaxing as a man. We have had to be creative and we have also realized we are not the traditional couple anymore, I have started experiencing a need she doesn't fulfill. Not sure where we go from here but for us, it's being honest and open at all times, and it's all about give and take.

Good luck

Luv Nadine

Nadine,

If you don't mind my asking (and I apologize if you do), what is it that your wife cannot fulfill?

Shauna

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