Aaaaaaaaand out to everyone (more or less)

[Remus]

Finally came out to my PhD supervisor, the last main person who didn't know.

Still have family members around the country, but I rarely see them, once every two to five years (if that), and Facebook acquaintances I haven't spoken to since high school seven years ago. Also maybe my piano teacher, but haven't talked to her for years, she's fairly old and taught me from 1993 up to my final exam in 2006, but I'm scared she'd not take it well, and my employers, but they're just by email, there's no office or anything. And dancing class. So I lie, maybe a few people left.

I don't know how she'll take it, only sent the email off about an hour ago.

BUT, regardless of her reaction, all the main important people know now. Scary, but qué alivio.

[Paula ult]

Remus, do those people you have not told really need to know?, will you ever see them again?, i go by advise i was given early on in my transition by a friend that had finished hers, tell only those that need to know, there are plenty of people i know that i have not told, and unless i am going to see them there is no reason they need to know.

Being old does not mean she will not take it well, i wish you the best.

Paula