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Guest Kendra K

I'm interested in underdressing. For work I wear polos and khaki pants (sweaters in the winter). Won't panties and leggings show to someone who is walking behind you?

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Guest ~Phoebe~

I beleive most panties don't have panty lines they shouldn't show. However if you wear a darker color or print colored panty under a light color kahki pant, they might show ;)

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Guest Kendra K

I beleive most panties don't have panty lines they shouldn't show. However if you wear a darker color or print colored panty under a light color kahki pant, they might show ;)

Thanks Janet. And hello from another Minnesotan. :)

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Guest *Charlotte P*

Trust me on this, no one is going to notice panties under your normal pants, I've worn garter belts and stockings dozens of times under very light dress pants and no one but the wife ever noticed and that's because she was feeling my leg for the strap. Even wore garter hose and ruffle backed panties at my wedding.

People just don't notice that kind of stuff because they don't expect it, and if a person isn't expecting it, you can get away with tons of things that no one will think twice about. The human mind will quickly dismiss something it sees as slightly out of place, there are tons of mens briefs that have similar lines to any panties, but panties have a much thinner seam which makes them harder to see than tighty whiteys..so anyone looking at your rear won't think anything of it.

What you are experiencing is a common fear that goes away with time, just go for it and don't worry about anyone else, they won't notice anyway and it is none of their business anyway..

However if your concerned about panty lines, just wear a thong...problem solved

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Guest kimberly c

Hi, Kendra, no one will notice your panties, I have worn panties for years under my pants, no one has ever said

a thing. Panty lines are oh so feminine. Just be careful bending over lol.

Love Kim

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Guest Sarah1967

I'm interested in underdressing. For work I wear polos and khaki pants (sweaters in the winter). Won't panties and leggings show to someone who is walking behind you?

Hi Kendra K I wear Girls Jeans all the time an the jeans are tight an I wear thongs I have no pantie lines I wear Bikini's too an if their is a pantie line I don't care, I wear leggings under my jeans an not have any pantie lines with the leggings .. Now I wear a sports bra with a Girls tank top an a western shirt an Girls jeans either with a thong or boyshorts or bikini or leggings everywhere I go, Mens jeans an underwear is not for me anymore that's the way it is..
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Mens jeans an underwear is not for me anymore that's the way it is..

Me too, I like jeans that show off my figure, loose baggy guy jeans are just not my thing. I could never bring myself to wear men's underwear ever again, it's been many years now since i threw it all away and don't miss it, yuk....

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Guest Sarah1967

Hi Cindy, only Girls jeans for me also, mens underwear no way, just pretty panties everyday!

Love Kim

same here with me Girls tank tops Girls jeans panties, socks all the time, everywhere I go.
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Guest Eve Caillard

New to all of this, I wear pantyhose all the time (going out and buying some to wear in the cold was what 'unzipped' my cross-dressing!). When I can I wear 'suspender pantyhose' for practical reasons and the suspender part feels authentic but does not show through. But as I become a more confident cross-dresser now I'm looking for slinky underwear to wear under my regular clothes. I'm not bothered about bras - but satin camis and other stuff is perfect. Any ideas anyone for the right sort of slinky underwear?

You are all such a lovely inspiration and support to newcomers like me. Thank you!

Hugs

Eve

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