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Reagen

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So I have just come out to my wife. :thumbsup:

Throughout answering or trying to explained everything to her, she seems very interested in getting to know my female persona. I love that she wants to know everything but I'm not sure I'm very comfortable with it yet. I kind of know, but I'm not that good at explaining fashion or look. These are the thoughts and feelings that I have been suppressing for so long.

My wife is very fashionable and attractive, so I'm a little intimidated as well. She wants to be there to help and support me. I just feel that the more I divulge to her the more scared I get. I don't want things to move to fast and consequently freak her out and yada yada! I mean she says she is understanding and will support me every way she can. But she also says that she can't promise that she will stick around in the end. I guess that is understandable. I have been telling her that we shouldn't speak in absolute.

I can see the concern in her eyes and how she wants to help. She is also worried about how I will transition. She didn't want to be with an ugly male and I'm sure she doesn't want to be with and ugly girl for sure! I want to be attractive to her and I know my internal female persona is able to be when she can fully express herself. I know she is beautiful but how can I get started?

~R :banghead:

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