Man-hips

[Guest Nikolapii]

Ok so I've been crossdressing for a good year now, wearing nothing but guy clothes and trying to pass as much as I can, with pretty good results. Most people call me "sir" or at least try to avoid using specific pronouns, which is good enough for me since I'm pre-T and I can't really expect everyone to see my pretty face and think "manly man" lol.

Luckily my chest is very small, so that's really no problem, and I wear hoodies and collared shirts to make my neck seem thicker. My main problem is this: Tiny waist, wide hips, junk in the trunk. I have a horrid hourglass figure. :|

I was wondering if there was any way to disguise or make hips more narrow, and get rid of that girly-curve in my back. The only thing I could think of is trying to lose weight around there, so I've been riding my bike constantly, not very much results besides the fact that my thighs feel like rocks now.

Anything would help. I usually pass, but then everyone tells me from the back I look like a girl(I had one male friend say "your latin butt is too nice to be a dude's"), and the hips make me look so disproportionate and strange. Dx It sucks.

Thanks!

[Guest CharlieRose]

Maybe bigger pants? I'm assuming you're wearing guy's already, but maybe a bigger size, with a belt if it's too big in the waist?

Losing weight would probably help the same way T would, sort of. Getting rid of the fat instead of redistributing it. So that's a good idea; I would keep excersizing. (Is that spelled wrong? For some reason I can't spell that word today.)

[Guest Nikolapii]

Maybe bigger pants? I'm assuming you're wearing guy's already, but maybe a bigger size, with a belt if it's too big in the waist?

Losing weight would probably help the same way T would, sort of. Getting rid of the fat instead of redistributing it. So that's a good idea; I would keep excersizing. (Is that spelled wrong? For some reason I can't spell that word today.)

Yeah, maybe I should start doing that. I mostly wear straight leg jeans or the relaxed fit. It has a habit of clinging to my thighs and then getting loose around my shins, making it look more awkward. I'll probably do trial and error with different fits and styles, and maybe go up a jean size. My girlfriend doesn't want me to go too big though, because she says when I wear those baggy pants, it makes me look like I'm trying to get into that thug style and it doesn't suit me very well.

That's exactly what I was thinking when I started doing the exercise! Because it is pretty much the same thing...I think the main reason I'm not getting much results is my diet. I'll work on that too. Thanks for the tip. :]

(And yeah, it's "exercising." I always spelled it that way too until last year when my teacher barked at me about it lol.)

[Guest Drew]

maybe pull your pants a little lower on your hips (not too far down, obviously) so that the legs of your pants straighten out more and then pull a shirt or hoodie straight down to a little lower than where your pants sit. it can straighten out your figure a bit.

[Guest Taki]

maybe pull your pants a little lower on your hips (not too far down, obviously) so that the legs of your pants straighten out more and then pull a shirt or hoodie straight down to a little lower than where your pants sit. it can straighten out your figure a bit.

That actually works. My friend came from behind me when I did that and said "Dude! You really look like a guy that way!" That made my day and I've been doing that ever since.

[Guest praisedbeherhooves]

Ok so I've been crossdressing for a good year now, wearing nothing but guy clothes and trying to pass as much as I can, with pretty good results. Most people call me "sir" or at least try to avoid using specific pronouns, which is good enough for me since I'm pre-T and I can't really expect everyone to see my pretty face and think "manly man" lol.

Luckily my chest is very small, so that's really no problem, and I wear hoodies and collared shirts to make my neck seem thicker. My main problem is this: Tiny waist, wide hips, junk in the trunk. I have a horrid hourglass figure. :|

I was wondering if there was any way to disguise or make hips more narrow, and get rid of that girly-curve in my back. The only thing I could think of is trying to lose weight around there, so I've been riding my bike constantly, not very much results besides the fact that my thighs feel like rocks now.

Anything would help. I usually pass, but then everyone tells me from the back I look like a girl(I had one male friend say "your latin butt is too nice to be a dude's"), and the hips make me look so disproportionate and strange. Dx It sucks.

Thanks!

I have found that wearing an unbuttoned long sleeve dress shirt or an unbuttoned suit jacket can work wonders for hips. Dark colors generally help too. If you draw a lot of attention to more masculine areas it will help too. If you're flat enough to pass as male there with attention then you should wear a top that diverts attention from the bottom. For example, an unusual graphic t-shirt, a patterned vest, or a message shirt. There also are masculine accessories that are helpful such as unique ties and hats. A top hat will grab attention away from your hips but if you want something subtler a fedora would work too. A patterned beanie can be helpful too though. There are also compression shorts which will make your hips and butt flatter. Losing weight will definitely help. I'm going for a weight of 105, which was the weight at which my breasts completely disappeared, though at 115 my hips looked male.

[Guest janeylewis]

I agree with what everyone else has said, those things do work...also, i heard doing "sideways push-ups" (can`t think of their proper name :/ ) can help, not sure if that`s true though since i`m too lazy to try it out and just prefer to wear baggy jeans, lol...