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Guest ValerieM

I recently informed my wife that I am chronic crossdesser. She did not take it real well initially, but is trying to adjus and be supportivet. She asked me if there are any forums where she can read what other spouses are going through or have gone through during the adjustment period and where she can share her thoughts/questions/concerns.

Can anyone help? She found one, and although it sounded great on the surface, it really was just a forum of spouses bashing their crossdressing loved ones. She got some books, but they all tended to be more about tranvestites turning to transsexuals. She really wants support and help to understand, but has had toruble finding any help out there. If you know of something, we would be most grateful.

Love,

Valerie

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Valerie, has she tried the SO forum here? I can only speak of the TS perspective in that forum since those are the threads my wife and I tend to check out. However, Petra Jane pinned a helpful crossdressing intro for SO's. It's more than worth a try since this community is so safe. :) As far as books, half of this book is solely dedicated to various experiences of married crossdressers. We found it very educational.

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Valerie, has she tried the SO forum here? I can only speak of the TS perspective in that forum since those are the threads my wife and I tend to check out. However, Petra Jane pinned a helpful crossdressing intro for SO's. It's more than worth a try since this community is so safe. :) As far as books, half of this book is solely dedicated to various experiences of married crossdressers. We found it very educational.

Thanks we will check it out.

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