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I have $70 dollars to spend, and I am at a total loss. My money is simple a $70 because my parents watch my bank accounts like the untrusting parents they are and that is all I could squeeze out over time without alerting them. (They are firmly against it and my dad used to beat me when they found my stash of crossdressing clothes)

So I will have a good length of time to dress before I head back home (i'm in college) so I want to make the experience great. What I'm looking for...

1) A good sports bra. I have a slightly padded bra already, and have pretty big breast forms (36DD), but the forms don't look outrageous on me at all, I figure if I went on to a bigger size they would but I'm happy with them. However, in the simple bra I have, thay have a kind of sagging look at the sides, so i was hoping on recommendations on sports bras or what not to help give them a fuller look. Me being the watchful eye have seen a friend of mine with bigger boobs than my breast forms (on a smaller frame) have that sag look at times, but have that full round perky look when she wears more form fitting clothes. I'm jealous. :( I'm also assumming I'll have to wear the sports bra over the regular bra.

2) A simple fitted/tight t shirt(s). Something simple, just something that shows off the shapes.... apparantly it's ridiculously hard to find these for 36DD's, though I do know they exist.... said girls wears them all the time and I wonder what dark magic she uses to make her breasts seem so full through them.

3) Nightgown/pajamas. I sleep on my back so sleeping with the forms doesn't worry me. But If I were to look down and see those pinkish/nude colored forms (cleavage) it would ruin it for me, because I am African American and the difference in skin tone is just saddenning..

4) Girls Jeans? I have never tucked, but I see women on here talk up how girls jeans are amazing to wear, and I want to give it a try...but having an arrow shooting out the front of course ruins it.

I've been looking on ebay for forever since the prices are cheapest there, but it takes so long to find anything and most of the time it doesn't fit or comes from China and takes over a month to arrive...

All suggestions are welcome. I'm looking for a college girl look, not much of a dress(y) person...

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Guest *Charlotte P*

Sports bra's I have a lot of experience with are the UnderArmor and Champion, they both offer great support and make large breasts stand at attention. I can say that the Champion 360 max support will be all the support you should need unless you have a strange obsession with jumping up and down as hard as you can.. The underarmor I have provides decent support for daily household activities and yoga or other low impact exercise, when doing something more movement oriented, I wear a simple yoga bra under the UA sports bra, that provides outstanding support as my breast are just one cup size down from yours.

Ebay is your friend but as I have been hunting the 360 Max myself lately, it's not a cheap bra even on ebay, the underarmor is more reasonable.

Shirts are a different story, yes they are making more and more clothes for small women with really large breasts, and they are in all of the younger, trendy stores, so finding them on ebay shouldn't be too hard either, one issue that can arise is that if you are taller than the average girl, the shirts may be a bit short on you, I have this problem all the time..

For nighttime, you can't beat a Fredrick's of Hollywood babydoll, I have about half of their collection and they are wonderful, easy to sleep in, but if your going to wear your forms, wear them in a bra unless you get one of the underwire ones, and those usually show off too much of the form to start with so the bra helps alleviate that problem..

Looking for my first pair of girls jeans right now, so can't help you too much there..

Good luck..

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