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Hello, you may call me Lani...

I am new to the idea of "opening up" to people. For most of my life I have hidden myself from society in numerous ways, mentally & physically... Running away & putting on a fake "mask" is basically my life right now, it has always been like that ever since I could remaber...

I joined this site cause I now know I cant live like this forever...

I am going to slowly try to befriend & "open up" with people, starting exactly this minute...

......

I was "born" in a house full of people that are against everything LGBT related. I still live with them, I plan to move out of their house officially when I'm 18 years of age... I love my blood-family a ton but I don't want to live with people that don't agree with who I am...

The only thing I ask of anyone is to not put me in a "box" or anything like that... I'm LANI, that's me... Im a human-being with feelings & thoughts just like anyone else!!

I am a netruel-minded person so if you disagree with me or vice versa then that's totally alright, don't be afraid to voice your thoughts on ANY matter with me...

That's all for now, have a lovely day everyone...

:) :) :)

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Guest Krisina

Hi Lani

Thanks for the intro. And welcome to Laura's :)

Have a look at our rules and regs. There are some restrictions until after the first five posts.

Make yourself at home and have some cookiesmand juice or milk.

Krisina

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Guest angels wings

Hey welcome Lani . Nice to meet u . Here at Laura's u surely won't be boxed in u will be respected for who u are . It's easy those who show respect get respect. The playground is a great place to open up ur horizons.slowly like I have and everyone else here you will open up . We're all traveling I'm not in ur shoes but I do have a heart . I'm a partner of a wonderful person who will be starting treatment so I'm traveling the same road the road to new beginnings . . I'm glad u found Laura's I hope u find it as soothing and wonderful as I do . WELCOME :)

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Hi, Lani!

I'm Svenna..

Welcome to the Playground. Take your time, look around, tell us more when you are ready.

Rest assured, there are a LOT of people here that will try to understand you without judging you!

:) Svenna

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Welcome Lani,

This is a great place to start loosening the straps holding the mask on. Many here began their journey into self acceptance the same way :)

Sincerely

Michelle

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Guest miss kindheart

Hi Lani,

<<< hug >>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

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Guest Guest_SL

Hi Lani,

Rest assured no one will assume anything about you on this site. You are what you are here. A unique place to be and a great place to "Unmask" when and how you choose. I didn't get milk and cookies but I'm trying to diet so that's a good thing.

.....but I do love milk and cookies. You're with friends. As many as you like.

Sara Lee

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Welcome to the Playground, Lani. Its lovely to meet you, and I look forward to reading more posts from you.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Hey Lani ^^ Thank you for saying hello to me in my topic! I hope you have fun here.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post(s) :) it's nice knowing that someone is thinking of me...

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Hello, you may call me Lani...

I am new to the idea of "opening up" to people. For most of my life I have hidden myself from society in numerous ways, mentally & physically... Running away & putting on a fake "mask" is basically my life right now, it has always been like that ever since I could remaber...

I joined this site cause I now know I cant live like this forever...

I am going to slowly try to befriend & "open up" with people, starting exactly this minute...

......

I was "born" in a house full of people that are against everything LGBT related. I still live with them, I plan to move out of their house officially when I'm 18 years of age... I love my blood-family a ton but I don't want to live with people that don't agree with who I am...

The only thing I ask of anyone is to not put me in a "box" or anything like that... I'm LANI, that's me... Im a human-being with feelings & thoughts just like anyone else!!

I am a netruel-minded person so if you disagree with me or vice versa then that's totally alright, don't be afraid to voice your thoughts on ANY matter with me...

That's all for now, have a lovely day everyone...

:) :) :)

Hahaha, it's going to bug me until I correct myself on this post......

.. A "human being" ..

......

"human being" is a pretty BIG "box"...

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Hi Lani

Thanks for the intro. And welcome to Laura's :)

Have a look at our rules and regs. There are some restrictions until after the first five posts.

Make yourself at home and have some cookiesmand juice or milk.

Krisina

I LOVE COOKIES & MILK!!

:) :) :)

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Hey welcome Lani . Nice to meet u . Here at Laura's u surely won't be boxed in u will be respected for who u are . It's easy those who show respect get respect. The playground is a great place to open up ur horizons.slowly like I have and everyone else here you will open up . We're all traveling I'm not in ur shoes but I do have a heart . I'm a partner of a wonderful person who will be starting treatment so I'm traveling the same road the road to new beginnings . . I'm glad u found Laura's I hope u find it as soothing and wonderful as I do . WELCOME :)

Nice too meet you too! :D

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Hi, Lani!

I'm Svenna..

Welcome to the Playground. Take your time, look around, tell us more when you are ready.

Rest assured, there are a LOT of people here that will try to understand you without judging you!

:) Svenna

:) Will do! :)

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Welcome Lani,

This is a great place to start loosening the straps holding the mask on. Many here began their journey into self acceptance the same way :)

Sincerely

Michelle

A mask is NO GOOD ha I'm sick of all the hiding...

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Hi Lani,

<<< hug >>>

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.

The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.

Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.

One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)

We all look forward to seeing you.

:wub: vanna

Thank you for the invite!!

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Hi Lani,

Rest assured no one will assume anything about you on this site. You are what you are here. A unique place to be and a great place to "Unmask" when and how you choose. I didn't get milk and cookies but I'm trying to diet so that's a good thing.

.....but I do love milk and cookies. You're with friends. As many as you like.

Sara Lee

:) AWW... :)

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