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Hello My name is Candy K*** and yes it is my legal name now,

First I appologise to the monitors and all the hard work they do. I found this site about a month ago and not knowing what it was all about, I changed my age to VERY old. I had been to other sites and some were porn and some were adult baby sites, not what I was looking for. This site felt differant so I just posted a few words and then left.

I felt something warm when I first posted, so I tried to write again. I started to write about my hubby and how we lived, but then got cold feet. I told a story that was close , but no cigar, as I was still nervous about posting my personel life for everyone to see. I now feel so confortable here. I am always anxous to get back to this site. So again I appologise and would like to write my life from the beginning with all I went through, and then later when I married my soul mate, how she handled it.

I was told that if it was long that I should have a monitor show me a longer site. I am NOT smart when it comes to computors and could use a push as to how to get to the larger Biography area.

Thank you, Candy K***

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HI Candy,

I love your name! A suggestion I make to everyone, however is that we shouldn't use our legal names here. I even did it once myself, but the issue is that Google may find your name here a decade from now and you may not want people to know your origins by then. So... if you'd like to change it here, send a suggestion for a "Laura's" Name to Mary Ellen.

As far as the larger biograpy, you're already here! Most folks put up a shorter hello in the Introductions forum, but the Biography Subforum is a place to say more than a hello.

I hope I've answered your questions. Please let us know if you need more help.

Love, Megan

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Welcome back, Candy. I'm glad you've found Laura's to be helpful and friendly. We try our best to be so.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Guest Misaka

Maybe im reading too much into this but it seems like you dont really want to write this bio, or are nervous about doing it, given how much you have danced around writing it. Dont feel forced to pour out your soul onto a forum if you arnt comfortable doing so. Especially given that as far as i am aware, even though the members herr are, on the whole, decent people it can be viewed by anyone and everyone who puts your name into google and looks hard enough.

Food for thought.

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Good to hear from you again Candy :)

Angel :)

Good to hear from you again Candy :)

Hello Angel,

As you can see every time I try the "quote" button I get another persons message. So I am not able to respond to a specific person. Like you!! Is there any way this can be corrected?

It was very good to hear from you!!

Angel :)

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Guest Mia J

Candy, I am not sure what you think the quote button does.

When you click it in a reply it places the reply into a reply screen marked as a quote. It is there for everyone to see just like the other posts in a topic.

The other thing you did above is to respond to the post while you were still in Angels quote.

To not do that just move your curser below the quote on a new blank line.

Move it to below the "[\quote}]" marker.

Mia

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I want to thank all of you. I am not fond of computers and some of you have helped me with that. ty

My name is a bit of a challange. Beth picked it out for me and I did NOT put my last name on any site, not even this one. Beth just thought that Candy Kane sounded nice. However if there is any danger than I will change it. I like my name and there are a lot of Candy Kane's out there, just try to get your name on yahoo it is almost impossible. My question is with no last name and a million Candy's am I breaking the rules if so I will change it.

I also want to Thank Miss Kindheart, what a perfect name for a woman. thank you Carolyn Marie, Angel, and Megan. I also want to thank Misaka for giving me good advice. However I have lived as a woman for 20 years and I blend perfectly.

So THANK YOU one and all. Now to work. Candy

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Hello Mia J.,

I seem to get into a mess every time I get on a computer. I was going to start my Bio but with all the wonderful Comments I could not get to the page I needed.

Thank you for the help and your patience. Hugs Candy

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Guest angels wings

Hello Candy :) this is how I do it .

Candy : Then write what you want to say to that member

Carolyn :Again write the name and then comment :)

I just write the persons name I'm responding to and then keep writting . On my device I too find it hard to quote but there are ways around it :)

Angel :)

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