Neighbors

[Guest Joshua-Christopher]

last year I cam out to a good friend of mine who lives down the street from me. I knew she was a christian and very christian at that so it was very nerve wrecking. After i told her she said" You were born a girl god made you a girl." I was really upset by this comment because I trusted her enough to tell her my secret and she was going all religion on me. She then went on to tell her mother. Her mother saw me a few days later and said "If you want to talk about the truth and talk about how much of a girl you really are you can come over and I will talk to you about it." At that point I was overly offended. I think it is wrong that they are telling me who I am and who I am not. The mother thinks I'm crazy and the girl thinks I'm a devil, there exact words. My question is in the bible it says not to judge but thats what alot of Christians (NOT EVERY CHRISTIAN) tend to do. They tend to judge people for being any different then them. so isn't it a bigger sin to judge me and others then for me to be myself?

P.S. I am no longer friends with this girl

[Guest ~Brenda~]

Judging people is never the right thing to do.

One cannot deny who they really are.

Being transgendered is not a choice.

How much easier life would be not being trangendered. I didn't ask for this and I know that you did not either.

A true friend helps you in every way.

A true friend does not judge you.

Love.

Brenda

[Guest angels wings]

It's there lack of knowledge that makes them be like this . I'm glad you are no longer friends you need people who are going to support you . I find that with any condition people will judge you because they have no knowledge or understanding in how hard it is for that person . I worked with young adults who had a variety of differnt disabilities when we went out to the community not all but some where very judgemental . I used to just smile at them and say I hope your day is as bright as our . Have a gd day that would make them think if you saw the look on there face . Priceless

Angel

[Candykane]

Jayson Michael,

I have found that people are like fruit, some ar sour and some are sweet. So throw out the rotten ones and enjoy the Good.

Hugs Candy Kane