Your Opinion Needed

[Guest loba2000]

I am 18 yrs old , i have been bullied,teased and been let down by few people. I have big dreams (probably to become famous) because that wud make all those looser shutup..

But what bothers me is that if someone is a transsexual (no matter how beautiful one is) people still dont respect us

If i transition, people will look down to me and all those people who have hurted me will win and i will lose

i haven't transitioned yet...

Why cant they regret?? why me

[Guest]

I am sorry that you're being treated so badly!

It may not be possible to "win". I hope that you can just be the best person you are, and your good qualities will be the win that you desire. And those who would treat you badly - it's their loss not to know you!

Many people would want us to feel like second-class citizens. It's beyond my understanding! But, it isn't that way everywhere. Is there a way that you get away from where you are?

Take care, be careful!

Love, Megan

[Charlize]

It is unfortunate that some people can't accept us and seem to feel good when they hurt us. Pray for them. They need all the help they can get. If you can then forget them and live your life as you wish. But as Megan says please be safe.

Hugs,

Charlie

[VickySGV]

None of us are in this because we asked for it.

Concentrating on revenge on people who have made our lives miserable is probably the best way to really make ourselves truly miserable far beyond what others have done to us though. Keep from looking at what you want to do as a way of getting even with people, but instead, as a way to become yourself with pride and self honor and even the fun and warmth in life you have.

[Guest shani d]

hey sista

i know that feeling i had that in another matter

but thus you being bullyed and theyr not doesnt mean they win

look at it this way

look at them and see what bad things they do and what good things you do

[Guest KatyLizzy]

Don't let those people get you down because honestly, they are not worth your time. There are people who respect us, and to put it simply I just call them good people. Don't let bad in the world spoil the good or ya might miss something awesome. (i know how original but...) Keep ya head up, you win every time you don't let them beat you!

[Guest -Naomi-]

Life comes at us from all kinds of directions but letting the people around us control our happiness isn't something anyone should do. We should be doing things for us that make us happy. If you have big dreams have them for yourself. Don't let the people who think less of you get you down. People who are ignorant, shallow minded, or just stupid for a lack of better term don't deserve the satisfaction of even being acknowledged. I have been picked on by some and let down by others but as you move on in life those people don't even exist as part of your life anymore if you exclude them from it. I made piece with if someone has wronged me they never deserved to have me be a person that passed through their life and if they wrong all the people they know their going to get whats coming to them eventually. Hope you can find the strength to make your decisions that you feel are right for you.