Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

I'm Just Gonna Create My Own Weightloss Thread


Guest Twist

Recommended Posts

Guest Cody_T

Hey people,

So I'm 5'8'' and I weigh... 190... wait, 188 pounds. That's right. Down two from last week :D

but anyway, I've always been somewhat overweight and had my parents on me to do something about it since the second I hit puberty and lost my skinniness, but I never had the motivation to fix a body I a. was detached from and b. didn't want to look girlier. But, since I kind of accepted all this stuff I realized that I don't want to spend my life out of shape and overweight, and I heard scary stories about going on T and gaining weight but never losing it. (if this is false, please don't tell me so. I need all the motivation I can get). Therefore, I am newly motivated to lose weight for my own sense of mind and not anyone else. Not to mention, if I'm skinny, the sweatshirts I now own will cover any curves I may develop.

So, my weight loss plan:

Lose two pounds a week (cause that's the healthy amount), until I meet my weight loss goal of 145 pounds. Which allows for a week losing one pound, or a week losing three pounds. Whichever occurs first.

How to do so:

Eat about 1,400 calories a day

Not to mention:

I'm newly vegetarian, because I felt like it might be fun, and also because it seemed like a good way to take control of my diet and be cognizant of what I'm eating. I'm considering becoming vegan in the future for the same reasons, which might be bad reasons, but I don't care because I like them.

So, the strict plan:

No meat (duhh)

No liquid calories, although if I really need it, a Propel with like 5 calories is okay

Get those 100 packs of white cheddar popcorn so I can teach myself not to binge on it (2,000 calories worth of white cheddar popcorn in one night is *not* a good thing)

Fiber One cereal with every meal (if you don't get it, I won't get into it)

Other than that, I can eat whatever I want, although I'm aiming at lessening my dairy intake so that the switch over to being vegan in the future won't be so hard.

Not to mention: as I get these current restrictions down, I'll be moving on to more restrictions and/or foods that I should eat more of. So if anyone has any good suggestions, please let me know.

And for anyone else seeking to lose weight, check out the best invention in the world, www.thedailyplate.com I'm sure there are plenty of sites like that, but the whole idea of it is great, and it really helps to see what you're eating.

So yeah... that's about it. Feel free to share your own stories or give tips or insist that animals are meant for eating (cause I'm right there with you). And good luck to anyone else who's working on their own weightloss. :D

Link to comment
Guest Sergei

Sounds like a good plan to me. Since I went on T I've put on two stone, and I was quite over weight anyway. I just never seem to get have the time or motivation to commit myself to a diet plan, so good for you. x :)

Link to comment
Guest Kelly Ann

I quit smoking 7 weeks ago now (cigars) and didn't want to go through what quitting cigarettes did to me...<ARGH> 152-156 lbs to 210 lbs in 5 weeks. Whats working for me is eating earlier, more often and smaller portions and stopping the snacks/sugar completely, no food after 8p.m. and smaller portions all around (this is THE biggie). Don't know about the weight yet as I'm afraid to weigh myself but I can tell I've lost whats just as important to me...inches. Previously I went from a 31" waist to a <<gulp>> 38-40" and felt like the Doughboy. My 34's are fitting a little looser now and so is my belt (whew)...now if I can just get over the chemical withdrawals (THIS is horrible for me)from the anti-smoking drug I'll be a happy lady. Best of luck to us all on this, Kelly Ann

P.S. If I can outrun and/or overpower it I'll eat it...oh oh I can't believe I said that...errrr yes I can :rolleyes:

Link to comment
Guest Linus Thomas

Hey Cody, I'm vegan so if you have any questions, just ask.

Because of my job I tend to not move a lot and gain a lot weight. I eat like I did when I did my long distance bicycling touring but barely move (thanks online teaching and traveling). At 5'1" and 210 I need to lose weight. One thing I'd highly suggest: stay away from processed foods as much as you can. I suspect (personal introspection) that has been my biggest downfall. That's pretty nice site. The ability to see how much and what you eat is a big thing. Don't forget to add weight training and cardio to your plan. Your muscles will burn more when they are used more.

Link to comment
Guest Elizabeth K

Cody

Start any legitamate tread you want sweet - you read the rules and know the limits. No apology needed. ;)

Hey - we can post our personal weight loss here too - wow :rolleyes:

I started October 1st - 226 pounds

Goal - 198 which I met Christmas day

Today - 196 = 30 pounds gone - yeaaaaaaaaa :lol::lol::lol:

New goal 182-186 range

I now have a waist for the first time

[CAUTION: I am 6'2" so - I could safely lose ten pounds a month - so you people be careful of losing too fast]

I was 140 pounds in High School

I was 180 pounds in College

I was 188 pounds at age 30

I was 236 at my peak - about two years ago

Because of my height I need a thinner frame to help me pass as a woman. My real goal is to get about 10 pounds below 186 and then gain it back with HRT distribution in the chest, hips and thighs - and its working already - yeaaaaaa.

This topic is great. Can I keep posting? :P

Link to comment
Guest Cody_T
P.S. If I can outrun and/or overpower it I'll eat it...oh oh I can't believe I said that...errrr yes I can :rolleyes:

lol that is awesome :D

Hey Cody, I'm vegan so if you have any questions, just ask.

Because of my job I tend to not move a lot and gain a lot weight. I eat like I did when I did my long distance bicycling touring but barely move (thanks online teaching and traveling). At 5'1" and 210 I need to lose weight. One thing I'd highly suggest: stay away from processed foods as much as you can. I suspect (personal introspection) that has been my biggest downfall. That's pretty nice site. The ability to see how much and what you eat is a big thing. Don't forget to add weight training and cardio to your plan. Your muscles will burn more when they are used more.

Thanks :). I'm right with you on the exercise thing... I ran a marathon in eighth grade, and I haven't seemed to adjust to not needing the carbs anymore. Also, I have to admit, I've heard the term and I've even told people to avoid them, but I'm not entirely sure what processed foods are...

I started October 1st - 226 pounds

Goal - 198 which I met Christmas day

Today - 196 = 30 pounds gone - yeaaaaaaaaa :lol::lol::lol:

New goal 182-186 range

I now have a waist for the first time

wow, congrats! Good job, and good luck on your next goal :)

This topic is great. Can I keep posting? :P

Please do :) The more the better

And my random observation of the day:

It is very very very hard to go to a salad bar when it is next to a pizza bar. Actually, it might be physically impossible.

Link to comment
Guest Linus Thomas
Thanks :). I'm right with you on the exercise thing... I ran a marathon in eighth grade, and I haven't seemed to adjust to not needing the carbs anymore. Also, I have to admit, I've heard the term and I've even told people to avoid them, but I'm not entirely sure what processed foods are...

Technically, anything man-made and bought in a store. So, pasta is processed as are creamers, junk food, prepared food in boxes, etc. Any time you can go into the store, buy fresh veggies and fruit and make a meal from that, it's not processed (whether cooked or raw). I make my own vegan mayo (actually better than regular mayo, IMO, and only takes about 10 min to make). Although that is a slightly processed item, not as much as other items. Also, ensure that you put in a regular mix of beans and nuts into your diet as those will add more protein and if you're interested in bodybuilding, I am an admin on a vegan bodybuilding website/forum so I can link you with that.

Link to comment
Technically, anything man-made and bought in a store. So, pasta is processed as are creamers, junk food, prepared food in boxes, etc. Any time you can go into the store, buy fresh veggies and fruit and make a meal from that, it's not processed (whether cooked or raw). I make my own vegan mayo (actually better than regular mayo, IMO, and only takes about 10 min to make). Although that is a slightly processed item, not as much as other items. Also, ensure that you put in a regular mix of beans and nuts into your diet as those will add more protein and if you're interested in bodybuilding, I am an admin on a vegan bodybuilding website/forum so I can link you with that.

oh okay, that makes sense. I eat too much processed food, but I've been trying to cut down. And the link to that website would be great, thanks.

Link to comment

185 :D

although I kind of ate too much today since we had guests. The good news though is that eating around two thousand calories in a day feels like eating four thousand used to. That has to be progress... hopefully I won't lose it.

So far I've had more trouble avoiding foods I shouldn't be eating than not eating at all. Like, if I really really want pizza I end up eating it, but then I can avoid any snacks until dinner easy. It would probably be healthier to eat healthy food all the time, but that's kind of harder

Link to comment
  • 1 month later...
Guest Cody_T

177

totally lost it over finals... seriously, it's like christmas, easter, thanksgiving, halloween, and severe depression combined, with a pound of cherries on top. The AP tests are gonna get me too.

And I've noticed that I have more curves than I ever thought I did before... like, it goes in where my ribs end and then curves out until my pants... and I really hate it...

It was always there, but it seems a lot more pronounced now... could that be from losing weight?

And on good news, I now fit into some of my brother's old pants :P

Link to comment
Guest Irielle

Cody - congratulations on your goal and you'll reach it!

Don't forget to get protein in your diet. Your body needs protein and if you're not going to eat meat you'll need protein from other sources. Fish is one if you're not giving that up. Beans are another but be prepared for side effects. I don't eat much meat but sometimes chicken and I love fish.

At the supermarket, shop the perimieter and avoid the aisles. If you'll notice, the outside walls of the supermarket are where the good stuff is, fruit and vegetables, meat, dairy, all the less processed stuff. That's because the shelf life of those things is much less and the turnover is faster. The outside walls are easier to get to and it's less disruptive when they are restocking so that's where they put the more perishable things.

The aisles in the middle of the store have the processed stuff. Some of that stuff was there before World War II I think.

The closer something is to the way it is out in the wild real world the less processed it is.

Be sure to exercise, both aerobic and weight training. Aerobics to burn fat and weight training to put on muscle. Muscle burns more calories than fat so adding muscles increases your weight loss.

Also remember that your weight is important but so is your body fat percentage. You could be at your desired weight but if your bodyfat percentage is 30% then you ain't healthy. Use a full length mirror. If you weigh more than you wanted but your body looks good in the mirror I wouldn't worry.

:)

Link to comment
Guest Zack L

I approve of this thread! Wish I could diet...maybe if I exercise a whole lot I can lose something. Been hovering at about 145 for a while, and I would love to get back down to 130 or 125.

Times like this make me wish I had no eating disorder and wasn't diabetic. Makes the losing weight thing really hard. =P

Great job Cody, you've made good progress!

Link to comment
  • 2 weeks later...
Guest Cody_T

176

Irielle-

The shopping thing is definitely a great idea, thank you. I tend to wander througout the middle aisles, and I should stop because I'm just as likely to crave fruits/vegetables as goldfish and chocolate... but of course, it's the bad ones that I see while shopping :P

Also remember that your weight is important but so is your body fat percentage. You could be at your desired weight but if your bodyfat percentage is 30% then you ain't healthy. Use a full length mirror. If you weigh more than you wanted but your body looks good in the mirror I wouldn't worry.

I know in actuality this is great advice... but the idea of me thinking my body looks good in a mirror still strikes me as funny ;)

Oh and I've actually been eating protein like crazy. Seriously, a basic day of food for me is edamame, apple, soy tenders, tofu, tempeh, and maybe some ice cream or white cheddar popcorn if I really had to. So everything in there has protein in it. Of course, then I had to go on this stupid retreat and subsisted on potato chips, red vines, and famous amos chocolate chip cookies. Oops :D Word of advice to others on diets? Avoid retreats like the plague. Ruuuuunnn!!!!!

Did you know that there are about 30 calories to a red vine? :huh: And it's physically impossible to eat fewer than say... five at a time. And there are quite a few chances to eat those five in a day... So yeah, due to that whole retreat fiasco, one pound in two weeks is just dandy. Cause I was a little worried it was gonna go the other way :P

Link to comment
  • 2 weeks later...
Guest Cody_T

179 :unsure:

I'm being such a pig lately... I'd say it's partially cause of things with my mom... and partly cause food tastes good :P. I'm going on a cruise for next week, so I'll get back on the bandwagon after that. Here's to staying under 180! haha

Link to comment
Guest StrandedOutThere
179 :unsure:

I'm being such a pig lately... I'd say it's partially cause of things with my mom... and partly cause food tastes good :P. I'm going on a cruise for next week, so I'll get back on the bandwagon after that. Here's to staying under 180! haha

Have fun on the cruise! You should definitely not worry about dieting on vacation!

I'm heading out to the gym now. *sigh*

Link to comment
Guest The Jishmiester

Wow that's really cool. I hope you reach your goals.

I could do with losing a good 40 lbs or so :unsure: . Recently I started running with my best friend who also wants to lose about 30 lbs or so. So we both are running together and doing stretches and trying to eat less and more healthy.

Link to comment

Yes, muscles make huge difference.. I heard too much soy protein can be feminizing that's why I try not to eat to much of it.

Whey and egg protein are great. I mix whey, egg protein and casein. Also hemp protein is good to add (because of high fiber). I use BCAA too. (branched chain amino acids). The more muscles, more fat burning occurs and + lots of cardio. And, before cardio--taking some Glutamine powder prevents body from breaking down the muscle, and makes it more likely to turn onto fat.

Good fats are really important (and prevent binges)... Buying a bottle of flax seed/borage oil (not capsules, but raw oil) or fish oil and having a table spoon a day is really good, plus using only grape seed oil or olive oil in cooking/salads. CLA fats (congugated linoleic acid) are really healthy fats that help burning fat. Animal fats are bad... but some needed I think cause they are important for good Testosterone levels. (no fried foods of course, no fractionated or partially-hydrogenated (which is transfat), or palm oil in ingredients). Coconut oil's good replacement for animal fat and tastes great.

When I want to lose more weight I go on regimen of protein mixed with low-sugar juice with ground flax seed added.

And lots of fish and green leaves like arugula or cabbage.

Basically, if you want to avoid processed food, it's a good idea to spend extra money and shop only at local health food store/farmer's market or something like that.

Link to comment
  • 2 weeks later...
Guest Cody_T

175

Just went to the doctor who told me that, so it's official. I went on a cruise and lost weight... that's gotta be a victory. Although I'm lucky cause I got super sick about halfway and couldn't eat enough to gain weight the last few days. And then I went to the gym with my dad today. That does nothing for the weight, but I'm sore and sweaty so I need to let people know :P. I have to get strong quick, w/out T... fun.

xanyx... thanks, I'm definitely going to make use of that information

Link to comment
  • 4 weeks later...
  • 2 weeks later...
Guest Cody_T

177

So I gave myself a break for AP tests... it seems like I spend more time deciding when not to follow my diet than actually dieting =P

Some things... I started working out with my dad again, this time in a much more regular manner and really pushing it with the weights. We do a certain workout that he likes and I know that it builds shoulders, pecs, biceps etc, based on his previous experience, as I have no idea how to find out if my pecs exist. Good news first, it seems like my shoulders are getting broader and I fill out my shirts a lot better. It's nowhere near perfect, but I've just noticed them fitting better in the shoulder area. Also, I've lost about 10 pounds and absolutely nothing from the chesticular area. I know that's not a lot of weight, but I was kind of hoping it'd do something. Although I guess I should be glad that I'm losing weight in the areas I'm hoping to actually keep, at least. And then I put on my binder today and found that my chest is less compressible. I don't mean by the binder because that was never perfect, but that I can't add manual compression to the same level. Before I could make a big difference, now it's like a centimeter. I hadn't bound since before we started working out again, so I'm wondering if having pecs could impact that?

Oh, and if you're looking for a good healthy snack, frozen peas are amazing. Get the early harvest kind since the others taste like dirt, and then just pour some frozen peas in a baggie and eat them. Since they're cold they take longer to eat (for me at least), they give you water, and the method of eating is similar to chips, popcorn, and other unhealthy foods.

If you're dieting too, let me know how your goal is going :)

Link to comment
Guest StrandedOutThere

My chesticles wouldn't flatten no matter what I did. I think it has more to do with the density of the tissue than what's underneath it. Apparently I had "very prominent pectoral muscles" according to my surgeon. They were buried under mounds of flesh. Dr. Garramone also commented that my breast tissue was really, really dense...like the most dense he'd seen. Since he is a plastic surgeon, that probably means something coming from him. When I asked about tissue density he said that part of it is that young people have denser tissue. Hormone levels also matter. Density changes across the dreaded cycle. Dense chesticle = less squish

I keep gaining weight. I was up 3 pounds when I was at the doctor's on Tuesday. This was odd because my pants sure have been sagging. Oh well... I eat healthy and work out 4 times a week. I'm also on T, so I am still gaining muscle too.

That's awesome that you are weight training with your dad. Stay with it! Are you planning on getting chest surgery at some point? If so, definitely keep up with the pec exercises. I worked out for a year before I had surgery and it really paid off.

Link to comment
Guest 1charlotte1

I swim! It keeps me thin! Is easy on my joints, and gives me lean muscle! (I don't want to brag, but I recently found out I fit into a size 0 jeans! OMG! I was stoked!!) I do wish I wasn't so straight tho, I want curves!!!! Ahhh! Anysuggestions for curves? Other than hormones?

m>_<m peace, Charlotte

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   4 Members, 0 Anonymous, 134 Guests (See full list)

    • MaryEllen
    • Ashley0616
    • awkward-yet-sweet
    • Eds
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.7k
    • Total Posts
      768.5k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,030
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Togepi
    Newest Member
    Togepi
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. BraxtonLee
      BraxtonLee
      (26 years old)
    2. Bryanna
      Bryanna
      (45 years old)
    3. Jayde1
      Jayde1
    4. Mireya
      Mireya
      (66 years old)
    5. Shellianne_Kay83
      Shellianne_Kay83
      (41 years old)
  • Posts

    • Ashley0616
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      @Willow things went pretty well on Monday. I have been working on the project all week long. I've been hanging out with my husband a lot, since he said that nobody would mind because I'm working on company stuff. My work is going slowly, but it is going. Rather better than I had hoped.   I ended up waking up late this morning. After 18 months of only working on house chores, not really used to doing anything else. Actually a little bit tired
    • Ivy
      Getting back to this… I've seen objections to Critical Race Theory, but simply "critical theory" is a new one on me.  I think we need to be "critical" about a lot of things, or at least examine why we believe what we do about them.  If they stand up under scrutiny, great.  If not perhaps we need to look at something else.   Not all socialists are Soviet Russian Communists. I have read very little Marx myself.  That kind of writing bores me quickly.  But I think there are legitimate concerns about unfettered capitalism.  There are countries that seem to do well on a mixture of capitalism and socialism.  But I am no Tankie.   The Red Scare kinda morphed into the Lavender Scare, and now we have this Transgender Scare.   The thing is, most people are scared to get to know any of the people they are scared of. I'm not scared of evangelical christians.  But I am a little scared of what they seem ready to do to me, because they are scared of me. I am not a scary person - don't want to be.  I'm just an old trans woman trying to mind my own business, and get with what's left of my life. And the 2025 project seems to be designed to make that difficult.
    • FinnyFinsterHH
      Holdin out - lumineers Talkin bout bri - MEgaGoneFree Just like Fire - Pink   genuinly getting major gender envy from lumineers voice
    • Ivy
    • FinnyFinsterHH
      My mom has been more accepting of me being trans lately and even promised i could get a binder if i pay with my own money. The preferred name is still an issue. So far my mom, close friends and brother know i identify as trans but no one else does. I recently told mr grandparents about my partner and explaines the perferred name as a nickname they prefer to have. Luckily everyone who knows is accepting but i feel like i still have so much progress to make. Started getting more uncomfortbale being reffered to as my deadname and she/her in public. My therapist is getting me a trans pin for my birthday next time I see her. I have hop but sometimes I feel like the goal is so far. HRT and top surgery are things i know i want but there has been warnings given to me about the problems that come with it from the ones that have accepted me and I trust most. Mainly from the adults in my life that know, also been getting nervous many people dont see me as a man but i also go to an all girl school. being consistenly reffered to as women has started to get to me and have had urge on several occasions to write perferred name on paper. i dont think pereffered name can go into school system due to being catholic school and for graduation diploma we have to contact the person in charge and ask. I just need some advice on what to do, I am thank ful for the advice everyone had given me, made me feel better about future and hope that I can transition but also worry about familial ties and affect. due to most f them being born in the 80's and 90's and not taking it well originally mostly based on my moms reaction. I love my family alot but how they might react is scaring me. my mom still donesnt want them to know. I know they love me but when I eventually come out and medically trasition in several years hopefully, what will happen? there are little kids in the family and I already dont see them a lot, how would their parents react? what would they say to the kids? I know my aunt would not take it well due to political belief and warnings from cousins. 
    • Ivy
      Maybe.  But they'd probably resent being required to do it.   IDK.  You have to show ID to register already.  And you have to be registered to vote.
    • MaeBe
      Hah! Woke up the Red Scare!   I’ve never read Marx. I tend to believe in the inherent goodness in people. I let their words and deeds change that. Insisting people are immoral/less than/should not exist, stripping them (or keeping them from) human rights, is an a most basic example of true evil. What evils do LGBTQ+ people present simply existing? How does the Right justify their crusade against us? What justifies the manufactured fear and loathing they spout every day about us?
    • KymmieL
      Congrats on the new addition @Ivy I have the opposite I have 4 grandson and a granddaughter. 3 of whom are visiting this weekend. I am feeling better. I think the biggest thing is that I got some much needed sleep.   Well gotta go and speed sometime with the grandsons.   Kymmie
    • Davie
      I saw this concert in which it is said that the famous phrase of Jon Landau "I saw the future of rock and roll and his name is Bruce Springsteen" comes from that night. By the way Bruce opened for Bonnie Raitt that night and she was the better performer . . . just sayin'.  
    • KathyLauren
      Astronomy and astrophotography.  I have done a few public presentations on the subject and could most likely wing it for an hour without putting you to sleep.   On the other hand if you need a sleeping pill, I could also talk for an hour about flying and you'd be out cold. 
    • atlantis63
      ask me this years ago, and I would have said walt disney. fantastic mind, and so creative   since then I've developed quite a  love for the tudors. My choice is henry the 8th
    • Heather Shay
    • April Marie
      Please consider joining us, even if it's just for a few minutes to see what the meetings are like. I've learned so much, had so much fun and gained confidence in myself just by being a part of this amazing group of people. It's a low key, no pressure, non-judgmental chance to just be among people who are supportive, understanding and affirming of each other.    I'm travelling out of state and still planning on dropping in for awhile.    Come see what it's like!! 
    • April Marie
      Thank you, Susan!! It was such an amazing experience for me. I can't remember if I even talked about it on a Zoom meeting.   Here is the link to the post I made about it. And, again, thank you for helping to give me the courage to do it.    
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...