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Guest Danielle-WI

Hi Everyone,

I am MTF who is in my 20's. I have known that something was wrong with me since my earliest memories. I have tried to live out my life as a 'normal male', but have failed. I was married for 2 years before I got divorced. I am happy that I have found Lauras-Playground.

Danielle

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Well we are glad to say 'Hi' right back to you!

You have found a great place - we come and read and chat and just get to be ourselves.

We also offer support, comfort, advice and a sympathetic ear.

Come on in and sit by the fire, there's a nice comfy chair over there that no one is using right now. :)

Have some hot coco and I baked some cookies, take as many as you like - virtual foods have no calories! :D

I'll look around for some mini marshmallows, Donna Jean doesn't always straighten the cart after she greets someone. :lol:

You'll be meeting her and a lot of other great people very shortly - it's early and some of us are on our way to church.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Danielle...

It's wonderful to meet you! I think you'll enjoy your stay here and find everyone friendly and helpful. Sorry about the goodie cart...(Sally can be such a neat-nik sometimes)..I'll try to keep it up better :P

Remember, hon, you're not locked into any format...you can go to any forum you desire and read anything..there's lots of things that apply to everyone..lots of wisdom to go around!

Sit back and live and learn with us...we're all doing it....together!

PS...I love your name!

XXOO

Donna Jean

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Hi Danielle welcome to Laura's. Let me welcome you to the food cart and the hot beverage cafe. First thing I would like to point out is that there is nothing "wrong" with you. As Sally says you are just fine, you are Gender Gifted a true blessing to us all. So you have found a comftorable place to take off your shoes and converse with your new brothers and sisters, exhale and start typing.

Sorry about your divorce if you would like to talk about that please do,,,,,,,,,,,,Once again welcome to the forum,,,,,,,,,Mia.

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Guest Danielle-WI
Hi Danielle welcome to Laura's. Let me welcome you to the food cart and the hot beverage cafe. First thing I would like to point out is that there is nothing "wrong" with you. As Sally says you are just fine, you are Gender Gifted a true blessing to us all. So you have found a comftorable place to take off your shoes and converse with your new brothers and sisters, exhale and start typing.

Sorry about your divorce if you would like to talk about that please do,,,,,,,,,,,,Once again welcome to the forum,,,,,,,,,Mia.

Mia 1,

Thank you for your warm welcome. It would be good to talk about my divorce sometime. It really is good to know that I have one big family that I can call my own, because once I 'out' myself to my family, I really don't know if I will be accepted by them, accepted for who I really am. :(

I have already started to use the chat room :D .

Danielle

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Danielle,

I am going through a divorce right now myself and I would love to talk to you about it! Maybe we can comfort each other because I don't understand the whole process!

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Naomi Stardust

Mia beat me to it

There's nothing "wrong" with you

also what's this "normal" I keep hearing about (and saying myself sometimes)

it helps to realize that there is no normal

there just is

sorry about the divorce

looking forward to hearing more form you

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Guest Elizabeth K

Yeaa - you found us! WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME

You may have just come home. :P

Yep - me too - confessed to my middle wife - zap - she was gone! My current sweety-pie? She seems to be staying.

Its a diffucult thing to be transsexual. But we all know what you know (well mostly) and are like you are (well sorta) There are also a bunch here FTM, androgynous, cross dressers, intersex an so on. Diversity abounds, Look around and post all about what you see. Ask questions. And Laura's is especially good to visit when you get down or have an impossible problem

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME :lol::lol::lol:

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Guest Danielle-WI
Danielle,

I am going through a divorce right now myself and I would love to talk to you about it! Maybe we can comfort each other because I don't understand the whole process!

Love ya,

Sally

Sally,

I will talk to you about your divorce. I will only share what I know with it though.

Danielle

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Thanks Danielle,

I'm going to be away for a little while - when I get back I'll send you a PM full of questions - Thank you so much!

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Kelly Ann

Hi Danielle...Normal? I was reminded of it just today on TV...it's a city in Il...a couple got married in the Taco Bell there 011109 and refreshments were straight off the menu...no kidding REALLY :blink: additionally the city next door is as close to Normal as it gets <<ouch>> I need a new writer argh...welcome to Laura's...I'm late as usual for the line-up...the Unusual Suspects are all here already...they are really a fun bunch and very sensitive as well. It's been a veeeery long time for my divorce but it darn near crushed me. One thing I might offer is to maintain the 'high ground'...own the adult half if things start going bad...hopefully it won't but I've never heard of an uncontested divorce. By doing that after the initial flurry of gabbage things became far more civil than they would have been doubtless. Hope that helps a little sweetie...I have some extra snicker doodles I'll share...I tend to wander off and need a little sweetness. Huginahug, Kelly Ann

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Guest Danielle-WI
Thanks Danielle,

I'm going to be away for a little while - when I get back I'll send you a PM full of questions - Thank you so much!

Love ya,

Sally

Sally,

Your Welcome

Danielle

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Guest DeniseNM

Welcome to our little slice of crazy heaven Danielle (sorry it is late). I see you have already been greeted by some of the greats here and found out that they truly are wonderful and understanding people here. Glad to have you in our wonderful insane little family here (watch out for Liz, Sally and Kelly Ann they can get a little hyper at times :P .... love you ladies).

As was said "it isn't easy being trans" but sure can be fun (and Kermit only had to worry about being green ... lol :lol: ).

Denise

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