Sex!

[~Nova~]

For me, it was the reason I had GRS. I spent my entire life fantaziing about being the woman in the relationship. Always.

So, I met a guy and we fooled around a little and then he said he wanted to be "alone" I was so excited and ready. My doc had given me the go ahead, and I counted the seconds until he was in my arms.

Being this is a G rated site I won't go into the details, but I will tell you it ended with me bleeding everywhere. It had nothing to do with sex, it was all my fault. I reached down and must have cut myself or pulled an old stitch. The blood was everywhere. I happened to be on top and the blood soaked him.

He jumped out of bed, got dressed, kissed me and ran out of the house faster than a bullet.

I have no idea how criminals clean blood. It took me hours to clean up and as soon as Lucy got home she asked me who bled all over the house? I thought I did a good job. Except my bed, it was covered.

That was last week and I havent heard from him since... Aint life grand

[Charlize]

Nova, I feel for you. I'm happy he kissed you as he left. Maybe someday you will laugh about it. Regardless it was a one time. Many young girls have trouble at first.

Hugs

Charlie

[~Nova~]

I cried for hours. I was so upset I ruined everything. He did call me, but I was so upset I hung up on him.

Everytime I think about it, I get hopeful... I know it will happen again. Their certainly is no shortage of guys asking me out.

[Guest AngelaA88]

I'm tearing up just reading that. That's probably like some nightmare of mine come true. I hope things at least heal up & get better for you quickly!

[Guest Lacey Lynne]

I cried for hours. I was so upset I ruined everything. He did call me, but I was so upset I hung up on him.

Everytime I think about it, I get hopeful... I know it will happen again. Their certainly is no shortage of guys asking me out.

Nova:

You'll get miffed at me, I'm sure; however, I must comment. Megan will tell you I'm trying to help you, okay?

Did you get your doctor's clearance for that ... firmly and convincingly?

Did you follow the doctor's postoperative instructions to the letter?

Did you dilate and maintain your tissues prophylactically as directed?

The doctor knows what he's doing and tells everybody to do these things so that they heal properly and in a timely way. At this juncture, I do highly recommend that you see Dr. R as soon as possible, tell him exactly what happened, let him examine you, repair tissues, if necessary, and then follow his instructions exactly as directed.

Yeah, I'm preaching. No harm intended. Help definitely intended. Okay, I'm not postoperative; however, I've been on the frontlines of medicine for a long time, have typed many, many, many postsurgical reports and can tell you from 1.5 decades' experience that a patient must comply with postoperative directives, care and followup visits. See your doctor, get fixed up, do EXACTLY WHAT HE SAYS and heal up!

Now, I seem to remember several of us old-timers telling you way before you ever had your surgery that you'd HAVE NO PROBLEM attracting people and getting dates! You're a stunner, baby! You're a nice person, girl! You've got it goin' on! See? It's all good!

Me? Heck, I can't beg, buy, borrow or steal a date (gals or guys); however, I suppose I'm a repugnant character, but not really. No worries. Anyway, this post is about YOU!

Nova:

Get to the doctor.

Get fixed up.

Get engaged in the horizontal bop!

Girl, you're awesome! Heck, I know a postoperative who is asexual and doesn't even care about these things! Glad she is! The rest of us? Simmering, baby ... boiling, baby ... ready, baby! Nova, honey, it'll all be okay. Chalk this up to experience. Great times await you!

Rock On Lascivious Lynne

[~Nova~]

I'm tearing up just reading that. That's probably like some nightmare of mine come true. I hope things at least heal up & get better for you quickly!

I had no pain and the bleeding stopped pretty quick. The worst part was we were just getting started. :-(

[VickySGV]

I just got back on after my #2 of 3 per day dilation sessions and read this one!! OH MY WORD!!

I hope you find out what really happened and have gotten some assurance that it was literally a once in a lifetime thing for both you sake and your BF's.