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Guest Womanly Girl

Hi gals,

How many of you girls practice under dressing - the art of wearing feminine underwear underneath your male clothes-? I love it and should definitely do it more often! I mean, who would ever know that you're wearing the same underwear as any "other' women around? The one thing I really wanna do is go out wearing padded bras..which are most likely noticeable under a simple light colored t-shirt for example. And besides all that...I just adore, absolutely LOOOOVEE BRAS! Just as much as any girl does!

have a nice day ladies... *-*

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Guest Kendra K

I've done it a few times. I've worn panties to work and then chickened out and changed out when I got there, figuring someone would notice. I did wear panties one whole day once and as far as I know no one noticed.

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Guest Angel Heart

Before I came out and started living full time, I did do that yes ^_^ I wore panties and an unpadded bra under my male clothes. I even wore undecorated girl jeans.. no one noticed :P except my sister... who brought it to my mother... then my family just thought i was gay lol.

I figured, since the trend in guys' pants is so feminine, i could get away with wearing girl jeans :) and i did.

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i spent a good bit of time before i came out in various articles of women's clothing both under and over. As a bald man no one ever noticed. I was scared of being found out when i was young but that wore off. You are not alone dear. Enjoy it. Now i don't even think about not wearing what has become my clothes. To cross dress i have to go male and that doesn't appeal at all.

Hugs,

Charlie

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Guest sophia.gentry58

I wear some of the most feminine and sensually designed panties my money can buy. I go to work everyday with panties on underneath my business suits. I like wearing some panties that actually show the panty liner in them. For some reason, it is such a turn on to me to know that someone might notice I'm showing panty lines. I also love to wear a lot of lace, which when wearing thin pants can easily be noticed by the inquisitive. I'm still a little shy about wearing a bra to work. Who knows, some day I just may get the courage to do it.

Sophia

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Guest Guest_

Since I found LP I have become more confident in who Iam. I have been wearing panties to work daily since that time. Seeing how it is colder this time of year I will also wear a bra, but when the temperture starts to go up and i dont wear a coat anymore I will only wear panties. Amber L.

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It was great for me when i found out i could wear panty hose undrer my pants in the winter instead of long underwear. Made me feel great.

Hugs,

Charlie

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Guest leopron

Oi menina feminina! Hi womanly girl!

Minha esposa é de Brasil, ela vem de Minas Gerais, Belo Horizante, eu sou curioso quanto a que estado que você é de? Translation below.

My wife is from Brazil, she come from Minas Gerais, Belo Horizante, I am curious as to what state you are from?

Up until recently that is all I ever used to do, and I had worn many things under my male clothes, from corsets, baby dolls, chemise, to full slips, whatever you could name as feminine underwear then I have won it under my male clothes. The hard part I found when I used to actually do physical labor was keeping my pants high and my shirt low enough to not be revealed, this went on for some 45 years, until I got up the courage to join a support group. I do still under dress very often, as my wife doesn't want to see me dressed, although she does support me, and at times gives me fashion tips, I just do not do it during work anymore. The place I work now is not very trans friendly, and I do not want to find out what they would do if they were to find out. nowadays there are too many things to lose if I were to lose my job.

It is nice to see a Brasileira here on LP it really makes me feel more at home, please do not take it the wrong way everyone here is great, it was very pleasant to see the Brazilian flag, as we have them all over my house.

Huggs

:wub:

Leopron

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Guest Carrie Marie

Hi,

I've worn a thong a BFF gave me under my male jeans quite often and I love the feeling. Since finding these forums I felt a surge of confidence and finally ordered a couple of G-strings, thigh-highs, and a padded bra from Kohls for myself. They came yesterday and I wore one of the G-strings Saturday night while out with a band I'm in. I'm looking forward to trying the thigh-highs and bra too but have to wait until the morning when I'll have the house to myself :) I can see wearing the thigh-highs under jeans or pants. The bra is going to be my private indoor enjoyment for now.

I'll definitely be wearing this lovely underwear regularly. I've worn the thong to the gym sometimes under a pair of long but soft workout shorts. I really like the idea that the waist band might be visible. Like Sophia I just find that exciting.

Carrie M.

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Actually, because I haven't worked up the nerve to try going out dressed to the nines, I make up for it by wearing a pair of panties underneath.

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Guest PauletteX

I underdress with panties occasionally. As a part of my of everyday life, I have been buying womens clothes that are too mainstream to arouse any suspicions. I can wear these at home, in front of family, and not cause any problems! Today, I am home alone, so have added my bra, panties and necklace to my womens pants and sweatshirt. Wearing something feminine daily is important to me, and while my wife knows about my crossdressing, occasionally she becomes upset about it, so I try not to push it.

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Guest Emma Leigh

I never wear male underwear ever...except and only very occasionally even then ..on visits to the Doctor....I even have panties I wear specifically for work...I also wear thick tights and a chemise or slip in winter...I used to wear a padded bra under my thick clothes during the winter months at my last job...but I would,nt now cos it might be too noticeable..during the summer months I tend to wear french knickers under my male clothes at work.

For those that are worried or self concious that if they did the same they may get noticed..I have found that no one will notice and no one will care..its like shaving your arms and/or legs....no one is bothered and if they do notice..which I doubt...they never say anything

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Guest Carrie Marie

I've now worn G-strings for the last nine days. I don't think I'll ever go back to boxer shorts. They felt like wearing two pairs of pants in comparison! This just feels right. I guess that's what it's all about, in a nutshell.

Carrie M

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Guest Janet

I have ditched nearly all of my man briefs and have gone to ladies underwear.

I occasionally go out dressed in my bra and my breastforms usually with a bulky

jacket or pull over. Makes it easy to shop and try on womans clothes.

Occasionally will go out dress enfemme and even though I am 6'2 i blend in

and no one looks and me . Janet

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Guest Guest_

Hey Janet: I didnt see a threaad in introductions so I thought I would say hi, and welcome. You and I have alot in common when it comes to shopping. The way we go about that is. Love Amber L.

I have ditched nearly all of my man briefs and have gone to ladies underwear.

I occasionally go out dressed in my bra and my breastforms usually with a bulky

jacket or pull over. Makes it easy to shop and try on womans clothes.

Occasionally will go out dress enfemme and even though I am 6'2 i blend in

and no one looks and me . Janet

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Guest Claire_H

Hi

I have only worn male underware for 4 hours since mid December (1st day back at work after christmas and it felt so wrong I changed at lunchtime).At the end of Jan I got rid of all my male underware, it needed replacing and it didn't seem worth getting any more.

Love

Claire

XXXX

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Guest sophia.gentry58

Emma honey you are so right when you say that no one will notice and if they do, no one says a thing, especially where I work. I now, along with shave my arms, arch my eye brows and I don't get so much as a raised eye brow from them. Even when I go to military drill, no one says a thing. The only people who do say something to me is my wife and grown children.

Sophia

I never wear male underwear ever...except and only very occasionally even then ..on visits to the Doctor....I even have panties I wear specifically for work...I also wear thick tights and a chemise or slip in winter...I used to wear a padded bra under my thick clothes during the winter months at my last job...but I would,nt now cos it might be too noticeable..during the summer months I tend to wear french knickers under my male clothes at work.

For those that are worried or self concious that if they did the same they may get noticed..I have found that no one will notice and no one will care..its like shaving your arms and/or legs....no one is bothered and if they do notice..which I doubt...they never say anything

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Guest Eve Caillard

Hi and welcome Womanly Girl!

Once I got the courage to do it, I started under-dressing at work and home. Now I always wear hold-up stockings or tights, a satin camisole, usually a pretty necklace and I have many to choose from, and sometimes some panties (though I find men's underpants more comfortable on a long day). I wear knee-high ladies boots under my jeans at home, and now wear mid-calf 'slouch' boots at work that look like formal black shoes under my work trousers! At home I also always wear a bangle or bracelet. After a few questions from the kids, at first, no-one even thinks about it now. Not even when I change to different designs. My favourite is an old and quite large silver snake bangle that clasps with two snake heads. And I have many more.

So I am nearly always under-dressed and I love it. I feel it is normal. If I go without under-dressing I cannot wait until I am back to my usual camisole and stockings, etc. I do not wear a bra because it would show up too much and I have to be careful at work, though I have one for my 'man-boobs' which is a 42AAA!

The only time I stop is in the warmer months, because the extra layers are too much.

Eve

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Guest gg_br_alex

never did it before. too chicken crap to do it. besides, for ME, it has no fun if i can't see it. Plus, im a big fan of BRAS, and there is no way it can be concealed under man's clothes.

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Guest MaudeB

Hello,

This is a part of my life that I explore slowly but surely. I wear mostly pantyhoses under my jeans and pants. I also started wearing bras non-padded that have thin straps and today I'm going for the bodydress I got from Triumph ! And pantyhoses...

I bought the body because I find it sexy and also bought a cami from the same collection. They are "shape slimmers" but that doesn't appear much on my thin body, 5,11" and only 160 lbs... I lost 45 pounds in the last three months due to a pretty difficult situation I have to go through. This for the best though as 160 lbs is my "well beeing" weight, getting this from my personnal doctor... I even stopped having diabetes ! That's conforting to know !

So, I'm curious at how I'll feel today since I have a meeting with my conselor who's a woman and knows about my dressing. I have this burning desire to ask her how, as a woman, she sees CD'ing, specially lingerie which is all I do. I won't go as far as to put the question in the open but it's something that is taking more and more space in my mind as I progress in this renewed pleasure that is crossdressing for me.

Well worth the trouble I got from the situation. Free again !

Maude

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Guest MaudeB

Hi,

I did it ! I went ALL day with the bodydress, pantyhoses silky and a bra non-padded une der the body to complete the kit ! I even went to the length of wearing a not so covering t-shirt to prove to myself that even if some shows, it would be OK.

I felt elated and pretty happy about myself. I crossed a barrior that I had in my mind and, for all that shieniess, it went COMPLETLY unoticed...

The combined straps of the body and the bra showed somewhat and nobody said a word about it...

That's good and pretty conforting. Now I know that I can fully underdress up to my desire and go with it....

A new adventure begins and the credit card will suffer :D

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Guest Sarah1967

I go out everyday dressed with either a bikini or a thong an sometime leggings under my girl jeans an I will wear a strapless bra with a tank top an a loose shirt so it is no big deal an no one has ever noticed.

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Guest MaudeB

Well, I may have been too "in your face" somehow today.. I had an appointment to the dentist for a tooth extraction and she's a young women of about 33 years of age. I know for a fact that she, too, likes lingerie because, about all the times I went to see her, and I had to quite frequently in the last months, she always had upper garments that had a certain level of transparancy and being who I am, I couldn't keep from noticing that she had good tastes, from my point of view, in bras !

Today, I went with the previously mentionned kit, bodydress, panties and bra underneath a comfortable but somewhat tight t-shirt (I had to be comfortable, I have a fear of dentist shots for anesthesia). Now, the bras I buy have all underwires and I didn't think ahead of time that I would lie flat on my back on her chair for 40 minutes... What had to happened, happened. When the assistant went away during the procedure, the dentist, commented nicely AND warmly, that: 1- the underwires showned because of my tight t-crap and lying flat and 2- that my right strap was down my shoulder...

Boy, if I didn't knew xxxxxx, I would have asked the dentist if there would be a shot that would make forget that I woke-up this morning ! Damn, was I shy ! But it went well with xxxxxxxx and she mentionned that underwires might not be the best idea for wearing with a somewhat tight t-shirt !

What I get from the experience is that it's very OK to go underdress and it makes me quite happy. But thinking ahead is something that CAN'T be replaced of ignored !

In the end, a good experience and the tooth is out and for the life of me, I have NO pain afterwards ! A good day !

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Guest Guest_

Maude: Isnt it wonderful to know that there are people out there that can understand who we are, and who will offer advice to help us. Your dentist is "A" Number 1 in my book. Also it is so exciting to think about the future, and all the exciting times ahead. Enjoy your journey and live for the moment. Love Amber L.

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