A new member (Me)

[Guest mmoomaa]

Heyy, I'm new to this site so lets just get started I guess (Honestly I'm nervous...)

Well my chosen name is undecided so far, mainly cause I'm not out, to anyone, I've only hinted things to few people and they seem indifferent/okay with it considering it's not really unexpected from me to be MTF/?.

I consider myself MTF so far but I'm not too sure what I am. I know I might not want SRS but I would love breast augmentation... I don't know what you'd call that, I consider myself MTF even if I may or may not get SRS.

I'm pre-everything, my hair is short but I'm growing it out.

I'm very self-concious about my weight, but it's alright! I'm taking very safe dietary pills and trying to eat right... (I don't look overweight or anything it's just something that drags me down...)

My favorite color is yellow!!

I love Lana Del Rey and Kim Petras!

Indie and Pop are my favorite types of music.

I have lots of friends but I only trust like two people mainly, I have trust issues and I'm VERY emotional and caring, I think.

I like horror movies and romantic comedies, just because... I don't know I like feeling scared and I like seeing dumb things ...

Well that's me. I'm nothing special, I'm just excited to be here, so heyy everyone, you all look nice, although I've never been so shy to come to a forum like this.

[Carolyn Marie]

Well that's me. I'm nothing special,

Well, on that point, you're wrong, hon. You are special, because you're here, and you're willing to learn, and we are all unique in this world. That makes us each very special.

Welcome to the Playground, hon. It sounds like you can learn a lot here, so please feel free to ask any questions and post any comments. No need to feel nervous or shy. We were all just where you were not so very long ago. One has to start somewhere.

Please look around the forums and post in any threads that interest you, or start your own. After five posts you'll have access to all the site features, including the Private Message (PM) system and member profiles. I do ask all our new members to please read the site Terms and Conditions, as they help us keep the site safe.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

[Guest mmoomaa]

Aw thanks! And I'm sure I will learn a lot, I'm pretty excited to be apart of this forum and I'll try to keep the rules in mind whenever I post or do something on the forum (:

[Guest Sarah Faith]

Welcome to Laura's playground hon!

It's alright to not have all the answers right away, and you've come to a good place to try to learn more. Like Carolyn said feel free to ask questions there are many here who have been through similar experiences.

Looking forward to hearing more from ya.

Hugs,

Sarah

[Guest sophia.gentry58]

Welcome! If you were looking for a place to call home, then you have found it in Laura's Playground. We are at different levels of progression, but we are all here for one another and we are here for you. Enjoy your stay hon!

Sophia

[Charlize]

Hi and welcome dear. I've grown a lot since i first wrote a post here. Take your time, look around and read. If and as you discover your path you will find others on similar journeys. Even if they are headed the opposite direction their experiences are not so different.

Please don't feel pressured to go beyond your comfort zone. There is no good or bad path only your own. Sometimes a GT helps some of us find that path if we start to think about transition.

Welcome again and enjoy your journey,

Hugs,

Charlie

[JenniferB]

Welcome to Laura's

There is a boat load of hidden treasure in these forums. I'm sure you will find topics, and answers, that will help you find yourself. Many of us have been where you sit in the transitioning process. Having SRS does not mean you aren't transsexual. Many trans people don't choose this route.

When you are ready, I would recommend seeing a therapist who specializes in gender issues, or gender therapist (GT). This person will help you navigate to the point in the gender spectrum where you belong.

{{{Hugs}}}

Jenny

[Guest LizMarie]

Welcome to the Playground!

As Jennifer notes, having SRS isn't "required" to be trans. Heck, transitioning isn't required to be trans! It's just one option among many to deal with your gender dysphoria.

In fact, before you actually choose to do something about your gender dysphoria, it's almost always a good idea to find and work with a gender therapist. A good therapist will help you find out about the real your, who you are, what your longer term needs are, and how to formulate a plan to meet those needs. Whether those needs include transitioning and SRS is part of the self-discovery process. Laura's has people who approach their GID in many different ways so feel free to ask questions!

Good luck!

[Guest Miss_Kitty367]

I spent 30 years repressing this aspect of my life. I feel like trans is what I am. I don't feel male, at the same time I don't know what it is to be a genetic female either though I relate to female more. My gender is trans or MTF trans to be more specific, and what a great place to be, to have experiences that show us aspects of both worlds!

Hugs!

[Guest]

Welcome to LP mmoomaa.

Thank you for your introduction.

There is a lot of information and a lot of friendly people here.

I wish you peace and success on your journey.

Huggs,

Joann

[Guest miss kindheart]

Hi Mmoomaa,
<<< hug >>>
Welcome to Laura's Playground.
Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.
The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.
Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.
One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules.
We all look forward to seeing you.
vanna