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Hello everyone. I'm Joss, i'm 26, and it has been about a month since I came to terms with my feelings towards my gender. I'm a girl, anyways, I've felt like one since I was in my mid to late teens. Since then, it has been an emotional roller coaster of self discovery and understanding. There had been signs, and I always knew I was different, but I always just passed it off that I was awkward, or weird, or probably had some deep psychological problem hidden away. Then one day I had a moment of clarity and suddenly my life changed. I've been less angry, more personable, and more motivated since then. How I feel towards my body has even helped me do the unthinkable and quit smoking! So far I have told my mother, who I had told times before that I (cliché I know) "Felt like a woman trapped in a man's body" and that I had issues with a male-issued body, and she has been supportive, maybe a little confused (and who can blame her), but supportive. I have also come out to my boss, a woman who is a very good friend, and she as well is supportive, although I have not made any major changes to my appearance as of yet, so how much her support will help when it comes to work related gender rules will be seen. Other than that I don't really have anybody to talk to about this, and at my income, I don't think I can begin to afford a GT, so I took to the internet a few nights ago, and after a little googling, came across LP. I read a few of the threads (this is the first forum I've ever joined btw) and knew I had found a safe place to open up. So, I guess what I want to say, is hello ladies (and gentleman), its nice to meet you all, and I look forward to sharing my personal events with you all.

Hugs and love

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Guest Maria_B

Hello Joss!

Welcome to the playground, just quickly, we ask all members read the T and C found on the bottom right of every page.

Its wonderful to hear you've had support so far from people. Support is always a huge benefit and help.

Looking forward to seeing more posts from you!

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Welcome Joss to Laura's Playground, this is great site to explore yourself.

Congrats on quiting smoking.

Hope you enjoy your time here, post away as the mood strikes ya, after 5 posts you may use private messaging with other members.

Hugs

Cynthia -

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Guest Bellexia

Welcome sug, I hope it goes well for you, there is a list of therapists on the main part of this forum, there are also online ones and many will do a sliding scale thing to help out :) Congrats on stopping smoking, still in that endless process myself. You will find a lot of understanding people here. <3

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  • Root Admin

Hello Joss,

Welcome to Laura's Playground. :)

MaryEllen

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Welcome to LP Joss.

Thank you for your introduction and congratulations on quitting smoking. :welldone:

Your story rings true for a lot of us here.

There is a lot of information and a lot of friendly people here.

I wish you peace and prosperity on your journey.

Huggs, :wub:

Joann

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Guest Carla_Davis

Hello everyone. I'm Joss, i'm 26, and it has been about a month since I came to terms with my feelings towards my gender. I'm a girl, anyways, I've felt like one since I was in my mid to late teens. Since then, it has been an emotional roller coaster of self discovery and understanding. There had been signs, and I always knew I was different, but I always just passed it off that I was awkward, or weird, or probably had some deep psychological problem hidden away. Then one day I had a moment of clarity and suddenly my life changed. I've been less angry, more personable, and more motivated since then. How I feel towards my body has even helped me do the unthinkable and quit smoking! So far I have told my mother, who I had told times before that I (cliché I know) "Felt like a woman trapped in a man's body" and that I had issues with a male-issued body, and she has been supportive, maybe a little confused (and who can blame her), but supportive. I have also come out to my boss, a woman who is a very good friend, and she as well is supportive, although I have not made any major changes to my appearance as of yet, so how much her support will help when it comes to work related gender rules will be seen. Other than that I don't really have anybody to talk to about this, and at my income, I don't think I can begin to afford a GT, so I took to the internet a few nights ago, and after a little googling, came across LP. I read a few of the threads (this is the first forum I've ever joined btw) and knew I had found a safe place to open up. So, I guess what I want to say, is hello ladies (and gentleman), its nice to meet you all, and I look forward to sharing my personal events with you all.

Hugs and love

Hi Joss,

Welcome to Laura's Playground.

Hopefully, you will be able to find answers to any questions you may have.

You will meet many other members that had feelings the same as yours.

The members & Staff here are very friendly and helpful.

Don't hesitate to ask any questions you may have. We Don't Bite. :)

As for your GRS, I have been on HRT for approx. 5 years and only have a small income and am unable to afford GRS at the present time.

I couldn't be Happier!

Instead of being concerned about GRS, instead concentrate on Being HAPPY and enjoy your transition.

Gender is what is between your ears, NOT what is between your legs. Take one day at a time and enjoy everyday to the fullest as the REAL you.

Hugs,

Carla

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Guest miss kindheart

Hi Joss,
<<< hug >>>
Welcome to Laura's Playground.
Please feel free to come over and chat sometime.
The Chat room does require another registration that is separate from from your forums one.
Please read the chat room rules before coming in, and expect a short interview with one of the chat room moderators.
One of the things that they will ask you is if you read the rules. :)
We all look forward to seeing you.
:wub: vanna

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Hi Joss and welcome to Laura's. When we accept who we are, it makes a big difference as you will attest to.

:D

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Guest LizMarie

Welcome to Laura's, Joss! You are off to a very positive start in terms of coming out. I hope it continues for you!

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Guest Sarah Faith

Welcome to Laura's Playground Joss,

Coming out once and for all is a huge relief and like you I was able to make a lot of good changes like losing weight. You just have to take it one step at a time and you'll get there. This is definitely a safe place to learn and share, and I'm looking forward to seeing more from you. :)

Hugs,

Sarah

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Guest MichellePetite

Hi Joss,

Welcome to this safe haven.

I am heartened by what seems to an increase in new comers reporting that their family and loved ones are being more supportive than resistant to the 'mold breaking' event.

A big cheer for your success in packing in smoking..... it was the hardest thing I have ever done .... beating my nicotine addiction! so have much empathy in that department. :thumbsup::goodjob:

LnK

Michelle

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Hello Joss

Welcome to the playground. As so many have mentioned, we are a friendly and supportive community. Many of us on Laura's struggle everyday with the same issues. So please don't let the issues overwhem you. In time, you'll find ways to either go over, under, or around problems and reach a solution. Finances will always be an issue until our condition is covered by insurance companies and recognized that our care is not a frivolas issue.

So welcome to Laura's Playground Joss. I look forward to sharing many communications with you in the coming months. Kathryn

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Guest Carla_Davis

Hello everyone. I'm Joss, i'm 26, and it has been about a month since I came to terms with my feelings towards my gender. I'm a girl, anyways, I've felt like one since I was in my mid to late teens. Since then, it has been an emotional roller coaster of self discovery and understanding. There had been signs, and I always knew I was different, but I always just passed it off that I was awkward, or weird, or probably had some deep psychological problem hidden away. Then one day I had a moment of clarity and suddenly my life changed. I've been less angry, more personable, and more motivated since then. How I feel towards my body has even helped me do the unthinkable and quit smoking! So far I have told my mother, who I had told times before that I (cliché I know) "Felt like a woman trapped in a man's body" and that I had issues with a male-issued body, and she has been supportive, maybe a little confused (and who can blame her), but supportive. I have also come out to my boss, a woman who is a very good friend, and she as well is supportive, although I have not made any major changes to my appearance as of yet, so how much her support will help when it comes to work related gender rules will be seen. Other than that I don't really have anybody to talk to about this, and at my income, I don't think I can begin to afford a GT, so I took to the internet a few nights ago, and after a little googling, came across LP. I read a few of the threads (this is the first forum I've ever joined btw) and knew I had found a safe place to open up. So, I guess what I want to say, is hello ladies (and gentleman), its nice to meet you all, and I look forward to sharing my personal events with you all.

Hugs and love

Hi Joss,

I just wanted to UPDATE some information I gave you earlier.

I had suffered Major Depression for over 40 years because I was suffering GID, now GD because no one including doctors would listen to me.

Once I "Came-Out & Started Transitioning, including HRT" ALL my Depression went away.

I couldn't be HAPPIER today even without GRS. I AM completely comfortable with who I am TODAY.

I DO plan on GRS in the future but I am not letting that get me down.

I would also like to direct your attention to MY Introduction and hopefully it will be an Inspiration for you.

http://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=56381&hl=

Hugs

Carla

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