Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

not sure if this has been asked yet.


Recommended Posts

Guest Chance

so i am a female to male transgender. 22 years of age.

i want to join the army or navy.

but, catch is i haven't any surgeries. chest isn't noticable. i probably don't even need chest surgery. although i do take hormones and pass very well other than height. i have a feeling this isn't acceptable.

i live in seattle washington.

i want to join for my own personal reasons.

Link to comment
Guest ~Brenda~

Serving in the military is one of the greatest honors someone can do in my view.

I wish you all success in your quest.

Love

Brenda

Link to comment
Guest Bellexia

They won't take you. I wish I still had the email. However I was told that any transgender do not pass some psych test.

Link to comment
Guest Kaylee234

Well, you don't have to tell them that you're transgender. I served for 20 years and retired last march. I know several others who served too. We have always been in the military, it's just that we can't come out of the closet there yet.

Being on T might make it tricky. I'm not sure if they do hormone tests or not.

~ Kay

Link to comment
Guest sophia.gentry58

I agree with Kaylee, you don't have to tell them you are trans. Since they did away with the "don't ask, don't tell" law and thus no questions being asked of anyone about homosexuality, it's doubtful that they would turn around and ask whether you are transgender. I also am not aware whether your blood work which you will have will measure your T-levels. That being said, here's the bottom line up front, at the end of the day, worse case scenario is that they don't let you in. I say get to the nearest recruiter and get yourself signed up and start your wonderful journey and career as a military personnel. (((hugs)))

Sophia

Link to comment

Well I suppose you don't have to tell them if you enlist in female, though if you are on T and you pass entirely as male that may seem odd.

If the intent is to enroll as male, I don't know how you could get away with not telling them especially since it would be pretty obvious in a physical.

Link to comment
Guest Mickey G

Once you sign the line at enlistment you become Uncle Sam's property. I know this sounds crude, but it is the truth and you do what they tell you when they tell you, no questions asked. Since you are physically female bodied you should enlist as such because you will be physically inspected as a "female". You don't have the "equipment" that is typically inspected as a male. You most likely will not be able to continue injecting hormones. Uncle Sam would not support your transition in any manner. DADT or not, you aren't going to be allowed to tamper with government property. If you can meet all of the Militaries criteria to become a service member then enlist. But, if you could not endure the physical and psychological challenges you'll be up against, and I mean the psychological ones within you, then take a different path to service. Consider, perhaps, a Civil Service job where you will not be held to so many stringent requirements.

I agree whole heartedly that service to our country is of the highest honor and I am proud that I have followed in my families tradition of service.

Best of luck to you in your quest.

Mickey

Link to comment
  • 1 month later...
Guest Cynthia Of Creation

Heres the current situation,

If your command or whoever decides that you bring discredit upon their branch under article 134 and 133 of the UCMJ,

You can be brought up on criminal charges as far as the navy goes. and than be kicked out for less than honerable reasons.

WIll this happen maybe not but if you end up in a corrupt command, it could.

The military navy included is not ideal, Air Force opnions, I've seen at least would say is the better branch, Or Coast Guard.

But don't mess with the others unless you have too. The Pay is not necesarilly as good as they say the benefits, if they are

what your looking for can be good. But the control others will have over your life is not worth it i would say,

Example in the navy if someone dosnt like the way your dressed they can deny from leaving the ship. Which could mean what.

Best luck what ever you decide but the military including navy have poor atitudes and think, oh we repealed DADT or we changed,

we arnt as horrible as before but, the stats dont lie, DADT was only a tip of a iceburg of Oh my goodness.

Best Of Luck, if you do, mentioning your transgender could prevent you from joining MEPS and boot camp are considered

the weed out phase.

Link to comment
Guest Cynthia Of Creation

The military tends not to be full of enlightened, intelligent, caring people.

Just sayin..

There are good people,

But the few that are that do, or the many, Majority dont want to challange the navy or other branch, or are scared of reprisal or something.

While others just are broken over time. as in Some who are like (hey thats wrong), a year or two later there attitude is, (Its sucks but what can you do about it

the navy is to big to fight . (QUOTE))

military dosnt reward or empower really either Enlightened, Intelligent, or Caring People.

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   3 Members, 0 Anonymous, 264 Guests (See full list)

    • VickySGV
    • Vidanjali
    • Thea
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.8k
    • Total Posts
      770.2k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,095
    • Most Online
      8,356

    MossycupMolly
    Newest Member
    MossycupMolly
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Carli05
      Carli05
    2. CharlotteD89
      CharlotteD89
      (35 years old)
    3. JamieL
      JamieL
    4. Jenny
      Jenny
      (71 years old)
    5. Katek
      Katek
  • Posts

    • LittleSam
      Hi Giz, welcome. There's so many different ways to be trans and you're so welcome here. I wish you luck in achieving your goal of being more androgynous. There's forums in here that might suit you and your goals. I look forward to hearing more from you. I go by he/they pronouns at the mo.
    • Lydia_R
      Hello @JenniferB!  Was kind of in the same boat with this.  I spent massive amounts of energy over several decades to try to control my drinking and drug use.  Because I'm highly disciplined, I was ultimately successful.  I felt I could have gone on with controlled drinking for the rest of my life without problems, but it got to the point where I realized that it wasn't worth all the energy I was putting into it.  At that point I found surrender.  I got a sponsor, attended almost daily meetings for a year, worked the steps to the best of my ability, tried my best to socialize with people even though I am an introvert, I made a mess for myself at the meetings and felt a little rejected.  And then I continued on doing a little service work.   After a few months away from it, I'm in a good spot.  I accidentally ate one of my roommates edibles a couple months ago.  I have only smoked a half ounce of weed in the last 20 years.  After it kicked in, I realized that it was a marijuana high.  Then I noticed something miraculous.  I just told myself that there is nothing I can do about it and then got on with the business of the evening like I normally would.  It was like the high just ended right then and there.   Controlled drinking like I was doing was just very risky behavior and not worth the effort for me.  In any case, I'm very happy that I spent my life fighting it all instead of just giving into it.  I think that whatever you put into something, you eventually get back out.   Meetings are cool.  People generally get equal time to share.  Seeing people who are struggling reminds me of the way I was and why I want to remain sober.  And by being there, I have the potential of helping someone else.  The stuff I don't identify with I just do my best to not let bother me.  And if it gets bad there, I don't have to go back.  I can find another meeting or even just read the literature.  The literature helped me a lot.
    • Ladypcnj
      Happiness to me is when I reached a turning point in my life, that I stop worrying what others think about me, and start living my life. 
    • Carolyn Marie
      Very, very true.  The number of murders committed by strangers in 2022 was only about 10 percent, per the FBI.   Carolyn Marie
    • Carolyn Marie
      Courageous film maker, and amazing subjects.  That is an incredible journey to make in so many ways.  Thanks for sharing the link, @Davie.   Carolyn Marie
    • Mmindy
      Good afternoon everyone,   I often wondered why @April Marie and @Willowgot up so early in spite of being retired. Now that I have my own puppy as a house pet I get it. We haven't had dogs since before my oldest granddaughter was born 22 years ago this September. I've always had working hunting dogs, and it was important they became acclimated to the current weather conditions. While the kennels had large outdoor runways, they also had pet passes into the somewhat temperature controlled garage. Yes, they were allowed in the house but only for short periods of time. Fast forward to present time, and I'm potty training a puppy as well as crate training. The first night Parker Von Schwinegruber, slept from 10:30 until 05:30. Last night we went to bed and 10:30 and he started making noise at 05:00. Since I don't want to test his ability to hold his business, we got up and went outside. He took care of business and we went back to sleep. This time he had a dental chew bar and I filled his water bowl. We cat napped until 08:00 and then got up for the day taking him immediately outside. He took care of business, and we played fetch and tug of war with his now favorite puffball. We came in and I put him back in the crate positioned so he could see me cook breakfast. Did he NO HE WENT TO SLEEP! We ate breakfast, did the dishes, and finished off the pot of coffee I brewed at 08:00. Once he woke up we stared at one another for about 20 minutes, because he seemed content to be in the crate. I got up and we worked on some obedience training as well as getting into and out of the crate with permission. We don't want him to crash the gate or any doors we will be going through.   Hugs,   Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋  
    • VickySGV
      I have not heard about it here in California, but then again we have events of various sorts going on very often, and not just in the June Pride Month.  We have Trans Fashion Week going on at a hotel complex over in West Los Angeles for the next three nights featuring shows by Trans fashion designers and modeled by Trans and NB people on the runways there.  I missed a chance for some free tickets and while I know and love many of the participants I do not want to pay for the tickets which will be in the $50 to $75 range, and which at those prices are nearly sold out.  (Not to mention $25 valet parking each night at the venue complex.).  There will be actual high end fashion buyers there though and it is an area where we are gaining some good footing.  I also admit that NONE of the fashions are going to be anything at all that would fit my basic personal style but look fine if not crazy on my much younger Trans siblings who will model them. (Ok everyone else keep on @Mirrabooka's topic.)
    • Ivy
      TBH, Never heard of it.
    • Mmindy
      Welcome to TransPulseForums @gizgizgizzie    I hope you find this place as helpful as I do. I’m also in a slow transition living in the androgynous world. I’m out to my grown children and my extended family with mixed support from them. Some have cut me out of their lives and others want me to be their flamboyant family member.    Best wishes, stay positive and motivated    Mindy🌈🐛🏳️‍⚧️🦋
    • Davie
      To escape Gaza is already an achievement. And then to be trans?’: the women defying national and gender boundaries. https://www.theguardian.com/film/article/2024/may/16/yolande-zauberman-documentary-the-belle-from-gaza-cannes-film-festival
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      Accidents happen.  So do heat-of-the-moment murders, without premeditation or trans-related hate.  It will take a trial to really figure it out.     One thing we can see from this is that it is people in our circles of acquaintances, friends, and partners who are the ones who usually hurt us.  Not someone random. We have to be careful who we trust.
    • ClaireBloom
      You look so cute in that pic Ashley!  
    • Birdie
      A bit of bra humour...
    • Mirrabooka
      Friday May 17th is IDAHOBIT (International Day Against HOmophobia, BIphobia and Transphobia).   Do you acknowledge or celebrate it? Do you do anything special for it, like taking part in any organized events or activities?   I'm not an activist and I prefer to fly under the radar, but I am slowly becoming aware of important dates. I have been aware of the date of IDAHOBIT for a few weeks now, but other important 'rainbow' dates have not been etched into my brain yet.    I will wear my favorite pride t-shirt as a token acknowledgement of the day, but it probably won't be seen; cool weather here will mean that it will be hidden under a sweater.    
    • Mirrabooka
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...