Ever get hit on while dressed?

[Guest WFane]

The other night I went out to buy cigarettes. I was dressed pretty average; black everything, loose maxi skirt, sandles, v neck t shirt, hair in a bun... i had't shaved in a week cuz my hot water is being fixed.

Anywho, I ask for the cigarettes, and the guy cards me. My license is male. I'm not used to being carded.

Then he starts talking to me becausr my license is out of state. He wanted to learn all about my old state, how long I'd been living here, what I did for work etc. I wanted to leave because I'm not into guys... but he had my reciept.

So I say in a nervous female voice "um... I gotta go... um... smoke these." And i was about to leave without my reciept because i was just so caught off guard and uncomfortable.

He hands me my reciept with his phone number on it and says to call him if I need someone to show me around town. I just kinda "kthxbye *wave*" and skittered out of the store as fast as I could.

So yeah... my first time being hit on... by a "fan."

[VickySGV]

Oh the fun of admirers!!

I used to go to a nightclub where the admirers darn near were falling over each other. I think one night it was nearly and equal number of Trans* girls and admirers. At the point I was in my CD mode, and still in the TS closet, there was no doubt I was a CDing male, and that was how they liked it. When a guy comes up to an obvious low level CD, and starts popping Tic Tac's and making kissing faces at you, its quite a sight. Having one put his arm on your back and start snapping you bra strap is also a riot. My problem was that the ones who wanted me, wanted the whole thing over in 20 minutes so they could go score again, and a couple of them I might actually have been attracted to if they had taken the time. Oh well.

Yes, I have had the experience of being hit on.

[Charlize]

Being hit on gives one a feeling of how an attractive woman feels all the time. Guys can be a pain but it's fun at the same time. Now that i'm a bit older i wear my wedding ring all the time. It helps to show it off and a quick comment seems to suffice. It is flattering and i used to get my share of free drinks. Now i'm just happy to have guys help me with a heavy load. A smile and thanks seems enough.

Enjoy this new aspect of being female or perhaps in that case you were being hit on by an admirer.

Hugs,

Charlie

[Guest DianeATL]

I was both shocked and flattered when it happened to me last weekend. The self image in my head says it is wrong for someone to be attracted to me so it just threw me for a loop.

Look for another thread I started on fending off unwanted advances. The girls gave some great feedback there that I will use.

[Guest WFane]

Found it! Sorry about that. I generally stay out of forums i'm not related to... mostly so I dont start self diagnosing lol.

But yeah, good stuff in your thread. I dont bar hop, but it is good to know how to tell someone you're not interested.

[mara13]

Actually, the Halloween party when I was 16, and was winning a bet made by my sisters friend, I was hit on about 4 times! By people who knew Mark, but not Mara!

[Guest Kontessa]

Just yesterday I was at the park with my friend, who is also a transwoman, and three guys around our age (and kind of cute) walked by and said in unison, "good afternoon ladies...have a nice day." and my friend replied, "We will." A little while later, we heard a wolf whistle from one of them and we both giggled. I thought I blushed all over and was giddy for the rest of our walk. When we got back to our car there was a note on the windshield from one of them - a secret admirer - saying, "It was nice meeting you ladies! Next time bring another friend and we will supply the food and drinks. We're usually here Thursday afternoon. Signed Mark (I think he the one with the whistle)." We decided right then and there that we shall return. The only problem was who should we invite to come along with us. Oh well....decisions - decision!

Many hugs and best wishes to all!!!

Kontessa