Dressing As Roberta-Belinda Three Times A Week.

[Guest Roberta-Belinda]

In the last couple of months I have been home alone three nights a week at weekends. This has given me opportunity to be Roberta-Belinda for the longest period since I started dressing as a twelve year old.

I have never felt so good about my feminine side in my life. I feel just great. It doesn't matter what I do when I am dressed I feel so comfortable. One of the things I love doing is playing cd's by female singers and singing along in a feminine voice that I have perfected over the years. I am equally happy just loungeing around in bedroom watching tv. All my tension just ebbs away. I am a lucky girl and I am just happy that I have the gift of my feminine side which has been with me since I was a small child.

The night is young yet so I can enjoy being a girl until the wee small hours before putting my clothes back in the wardrobe until tomorrow.

Love and Hugs

Roberta

[Charlize]

I remember how great that felt. You have expressed my feelings when i got the chance to dress for any time. Enjoy the night!

Hugs,

Charlie

[Guest ~Brenda~]

It is wonderful isn't it

Love

Brenda

[Guest DianeATL]

Isn't it amazing how the simple act of being yourself is so relaxing. Hard to believe the calm that can envelope you.

So happy you are getting more "me" time.

[Guest Guest_]

Roberta. I totally agree with every ones posts. Enjoy that feminine side and who you want to be. Hugs Amber L.

[Guest Georgia]

No doubt Belinda, that's the most wonderful feeling you can have from our life, just like when I understand that one of my paintings tells to an observer exactly what I feel deep inside me....

Love, Georgia

[Guest Eve Caillard]

I know how you feel. Dressing and being able to push away the masculine millstone around my neck is the most comforting and relaxing moment in my life. The sense of liberation and relief is amazing. It is like casting a concrete, grey skin away and emerging.

I am SO pleased you can enjoy three evenings dressing, Long may it last! The nearest I can get to this is I underdress most of the time, and that gives me some sense of being able to indulge my femininity whilst still passing as male. When I started doing it I felt rather embarrassed and weird, but now I under-dress as I like, and indulging my femininity drives everything. I no longer care a fig what others might think partly because I accept I am some kind of 'hybrid' and I'll be the way I want to be. However, keeping the necklaces, bangles and jewellery down both in family and at work can be a bit of a problem! I do adore all that stuff! But our children (teens) have become used to me wearing necklaces and bracelets.

But I AM envious you can dress three nights a week! Brilliant! Enjoy!

Hugs,

Eve

[Guest]

Why does i have a calming effect? I notice I don't bounce my leg when i dress up.

what is under dressing?

[Guest Eve Caillard]

Under-dressing? When I go to work, in the cooler months, I wear hold-up stockings, a camisole and knickers under my male clothes. That's under-dressing. I even manage a pair of calf-high ladies leather boots, too! I also under-dress when with the family at home.

Calmness? Lexi - you cross dress, surely you feel better for it?

Eve

[Guest]

Isn't it strange how dressing up curbs your anxiety?

I often find myself saying "I can't wait to get out of these boy clothes and slip into something sexy".

Does anyone know why dressing up in drag calms you down?