Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

Gov. Christie Vetoes NJ Birth Certificate Legislation


Carolyn Marie

Recommended Posts

  • Admin

He is one of the best politicians money can buy!! But is has to come in through the right hand window of the car!!

I have read other news where he is under some ethics and campaign financing investigation as well. What an american hero.

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

I hate him. What a rat. I'm a jersey girl and it makes it worse.

Hugs,

Charlie

Link to comment
Guest CassieX

Ugh! What a dumb donkey! The regulations for doing this are already a federal process through the state department so his whole argument in the article makes no sense. Considering all the things that you have to do to re-establish your identity after changing your name and amending your gender I hardly think that criminals will be flocking to do it.

Cassie

Link to comment
Guest Jenni_S

The regulations for doing this are already a federal process through the state department so his whole argument in the article makes no sense.

No, those are passports. Birth certificates are issued by the state where the birth happened.

Link to comment
Guest CassieX

Umm, okies. I guess I'd better send mine back then :rolleyes:

But seriously, the state department does issue them but only if you were born overseas. They wrote the regulations for this that many states are ever so slowly starting to adopt. This is a case where Federal government set the gold standard.

Link to comment
Guest Jenni_S

But seriously, the state department does issue them but only if you were born overseas. They wrote the regulations for this that many states are ever so slowly starting to adopt.

Yes, if you're born out of the country. Since this is about state-issued birth certificates, I assumed we were talking about those. As you said, it's up to the state what their own regulations are. They may adopt these state department rules, or their own, it's up to the state and their process.

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

I must admit being extremely disappointed in the legislature as well as the Gov. Part of the problem may be that there has been no protest from the GLBT community. The marriage issue found universal support but this issue, affecting only the trans community, isn't noticed. As much as i scream i'm sure it won't be heard.

Hugs,

Charlie

Link to comment

NJ does alter birth certificates with SRS already.

What is the point of even having gender marker on birth certificate anyway if it doesn't represent a person's anatomy anyway, maybe it should just be dropped completely?

Of all documents, I find the BC to be irrelevant these days. Get other ID changed. NJ does recognize one based on what they put on their state ID.

Link to comment

I watched a CNN special on the waiting room TV monitor at EEOC.This dirty dealer and all his crooked politics. He is trying to live down BridgeGate and fixing elections, then cried out what a good christian he is. It was a total tap dance. The most disturbing thing is we wants to be the next GOP presidential candidate. Now that's really sick and dangerous. If I could paint his motorcade vehicle It would be lettered "Spirit of George Wallace." George was only looking out for the welfare of his people too. All so sad.

Link to comment

So, Drea, is your argument that you are only "woman enough" if you have GCS?

If that's not what you are saying, then what are you saying?

I am saying they can just do away with it. And that of all documents that one could change or not, fortunately the birth certificate is by far the least important.

Really would a F on a birth certificate enable someone in a ladies locker room expose their male genitalia cause it really is just a "big clit"? I am pretty sure an F on any id isn't going to solve that.

There is a point where anatomy does become relevant.

I personally am not losing any sleep over a birth certificate.

Link to comment
Guest KimberlyF

Is the BC required often in NJ? We can use a passport here anywhere the BC is used. I don't know where my BC is and I get yearly fed/state gov clearances.

Link to comment
Guest CassieX

Well, considering that your birth certificate is a primary proof of citizenship and a primary requirement for many other more commonly used legal documents (such as a passport), then yes, it is.

http://travel.state.gov/content/passports/english/news/new-u-s--passport-requirement0.html

As the above link states, it's also a primary documentary requirement to get a passport. If you have to go the secondary route, it gets more complicated.

When I put in the paperwork to get my new birth certificate from the state department, I was told by the vital records office there that I should wait until I received it before applying for a new passport, as although the rules have changed, it goes a lot smoother if you wait. I took their advice. :)

Is the BC required often in NJ? We can use a passport here anywhere the BC is used. I don't know where my BC is and I get yearly fed/state gov clearances.

I would think that at some point in your life the fed/state government verified who you were so it is in the Joint Personnel Adjudication System (JPAS). I know when I changed my name/gender marker it was simply a matter of informing the relevant people at work to update the system.

So, Drea, is your argument that you are only "woman enough" if you have GCS?

If that's not what you are saying, then what are you saying?


I am saying they can just do away with it. And that of all documents that one could change or not, fortunately the birth certificate is by far the least important.

Really would a F on a birth certificate enable someone in a ladies locker room expose their male genitalia cause it really is just a "big clit"? I am pretty sure an F on any id isn't going to solve that.

There is a point where anatomy does become relevant.

I personally am not losing any sleep over a birth certificate.

I would have to disagree and say that having your appropriate gender on your birth certificate is of vital importance. Without it I could have not have changed a lot of my records and receive medically appropriate care from my providers. It also helped me integrate back into society as Cassie without having to constantly prove who I was if my documentation/ID's did not match. That being said, I would not inappropriately expose myself in a public space/changing room. One would think common sense would prevail in these matters just as it does for people who have other medical conditions or special needs.

Cassie

Link to comment
  • Forum Moderator

Believe it or not all of our other id's do revolve around the birth certificate. I am amazed by the ladies room argument that men will " change gender" to enter the ladies room and cause problems if surgery is required. Perhaps that may happen but i would think it rare at best (or is it worse). There are always some bad actors in the world but that is no reason to punish others who cannot afford or have surgery for medical reasons.

I'm certainly not posting this to start any arguments. i am merely a bit annoyed that the Gov. of my state……..((removed by word filter)

Hugs,

Charlie

Link to comment

Do peoples somehow believe getting gender marker on the birth certificate somehow erases the past? Cause that is what it really seems like to me.

Especially in this day and age when so much is so readily available via computer and that isn't even counting the grey market data.

Well, considering that your birth certificate is a primary proof of citizenship and a primary requirement for many other more commonly used legal documents (such as a passport), then yes, it is.

http://travel.state.gov/content/passports/english/news/new-u-s--passport-requirement0.html

As the above link states, it's also a primary documentary requirement to get a passport. If you have to go the secondary route, it gets more complicated.

When I put in the paperwork to get my new birth certificate from the state department, I was told by the vital records office there that I should wait

Nothing there prevents use of birth certificate. Sure it makes it easier for them, less work to process. It is quite typical however for birth certificate names to not match current names and thus they supply the modifying document such as name change paper, marriage certificate, etc.

Oh and don't forget question 9 on passport application "List all other names you have used" so if you have changed first name, middle, you still have to list it so the unless someone's full name is completely gender neutral it isn't like one is going to escape outing oneself.

I see it as a tiny mole hill, that in the bigger scope of things is pretty insignificant. Not the mountain it is made out to be.

I wonder how much this becomes just a matter of validation as it isn't something that most of the longer time transitioned folks I know particularly worry about.

Link to comment
Guest CassieX

Do peoples somehow believe getting gender marker on the birth certificate somehow erases the past? Cause that is what it really seems like to me.

Especially in this day and age when so much is so readily available via computer and that isn't even counting the grey market data.

Not at all, but getting a birth certificate to say your correct name and gender certainly makes as I previously stated it easier to get appropriate medical care and other legal processes accomplished.

Oh and don't forget question 9 on passport application "List all other names you have used" so if you have changed first name, middle, you still have to list it so the unless someone's full name is completely gender neutral it isn't like one is going to escape outing oneself.

I see it as a tiny mole hill, that in the bigger scope of things is pretty insignificant. Not the mountain it is made out to be.

I wonder how much this becomes just a matter of validation as it isn't something that most of the longer time transitioned folks I know particularly worry about.

The state department made it very easy for transgender applicants to get a passport, they have specific instructions regarding the process so its more of a case of getting things done easier.

I don't really understand the whole 'outing yourself concept'. I'm more concerned about getting things done the correct way and want to be able to get paperwork done just as easily as everybody else without having to explain myself constantly. Personally, I'm proud of who I am and could not care less if people know about my past. I served 20 years in the Navy and have many great memories and friends from that time so why would I want to erase that part of my life? So it follows that I really don't get the validation part of your comment either.

Cassie

Link to comment
Guest April Kristie

There is a good chance this beatch will run for president, let's hope this mentality does not get there or we could have new issues to deal with.

Link to comment

Thank you Cassie for taking the time to comment and helping illustrate.

I'm more concerned about getting things done the correct way and want to be able to get paperwork done just as easily as everybody else without having to explain myself constantly.

There is a perception that there is a "correct way" when in fact all ways are correct and it is quite common to have additional documents providing the traceability from a birth certificate that doesn't match current information.

I also don't get this having to explain oneself constantly. I haven't had to use my birth certificate for anything since before the turn of the century. And I didn't even have a photo driver's license till 2005 (I kind of hate to see that go actually *sigh*).

It is true I am not undergoing a gender role transition and it is quite understandable during that period one has to deal with document changes and it all makes it seem like a constant thing. So it is know of mix nox that. Getting a marker changed on one document isn't going to make the transitional changes go away. You trade one step in one place by adding the step in another.

Personally, I'm proud of who I am and could not care less if people know about my past. I served 20 years in the Navy and have many great memories and friends from that time so why would I want to erase that part of my life? So it follows that I really don't get the validation part of your comment either.

The validation part isn't related to the erasing the past at all, and obviously you aren't that sort of person. The statement about validation is based there being an emotional attachment to getting it done, seeing the coorect marker on the document and that the emotional attachment is the real motivator rather than the real practical value.

If I were to look at it strictly in a cost/benefit fashion, I just can't see any benefit to offset the cost and hassle.

Link to comment
Guest CassieX

There is a perception that there is a "correct way" when in fact all ways are correct and it is quite common to have additional documents providing the traceability from a birth certificate that doesn't match current information.

I also don't get this having to explain oneself constantly. I haven't had to use my birth certificate for anything since before the turn of the century. And I didn't even have a photo driver's license till 2005 (I kind of hate to see that go actually *sigh*).

This is something that I actually agree with you on Drea :D , there is most definitely more than one way to do things since regulations differ widely from state to state. My "correct way" would not necessarily work for the next person but some of the paper trail I followed it would. Getting my birth certificate fixed was nice from an emotional perspective, sort of the cherry on the top of the cake but it was more of a useful tool to enable me to get everything else done. For example, the Department of Defense will not correct the gender in your records for pay/healthcare without an amended/fixed birth certificate. So for myself and other veterans it is a very important piece of paper.

/Hugs,

Cassie

Link to comment

My "correct way" would not necessarily work for the next person but some of the paper trail I followed it would. Getting my birth certificate fixed was nice from an emotional perspective, sort of the cherry on the top of the cake but it was more of a useful tool to enable me to get everything else done. For example, the Department of Defense will not correct the gender in your records for pay/healthcare without an amended/fixed birth certificate. So for myself and other veterans it is a very important piece of paper.

I have no issues with any of that. Most of the peeps I know going to the VA haven't had amended birth certificates and seem to do okay, but I am not versed with the ins and outs there.

The reason I brought up what I did really is to try and put a perspective on it all. To highlight arguments that don't make sense and try to get down what is so often at the root which is along of the lines of "it would be nice" or personal comfort or whatever.

And to highlight the world isn't ending, that there is no need to angst over such things (and angst is another common driving factor. That these things don't have to impact one negatively that its a pebble that hardly causes a ripple in the surface of the river which has some much bigger rocks.

Link to comment

Just to add an additional piece of perspective, I was born in Ohio, so I can never get my birth certificate to reflect the female brain I was born with--despite the fact that my anatomy is now in alignment with it. I really wish I could get it changed and I think it is wrong that I cannot. But the only thing I've come across so far where I'd need it is to get my passport. And I am registered with the VA as well, even though my DD214 (military discharge papers) cannot be changed, and they registered as female with no difficulties. In fact, when the VA doc at my first visit asked why I was taking such high doses of hormones, I told her I was nearing the end of my transition and would soon be lowering them. She replied that it still seemed awful high for menopause. Then I told her it was not that that kind of transition and actually had to say the 'TS' word. But the bottom line is that even while I am totally on board with protesting it as an injustice that I still cannot change my birth certificate even after all I've been through, I have to admit that the actual impact on my life has been much less than many other issues, such as the lack of medical providers who are just as familiar with how to treat a post-op TS as as they are a woman who has had a complete hysterectomy.

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   2 Members, 0 Anonymous, 70 Guests (See full list)

    • Petra Jane
    • MaybeRob
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.7k
    • Total Posts
      769.2k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,051
    • Most Online
      8,356

    Luna29
    Newest Member
    Luna29
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. ciara
      ciara
    2. Jamieleann
      Jamieleann
      (62 years old)
    3. Lukey19252
      Lukey19252
      (22 years old)
    4. Maye
      Maye
      (66 years old)
    5. Spirefreedom
      Spirefreedom
      (21 years old)
  • Posts

    • Susan R
      Everything that @MaybeRob said above is spot on with me too. The changes are much more subtle the older you start. I started HRT at 56 and of the feminine physical changes I experienced from HRT, 80% of all my changes happened by my 3 year mark. The other 20% of the changes are continuing still.   The feminine results I still see change happening in include: reduced and thinning arm, leg, and body hair, body fat redistribution to my hips and butt. There may be still some minor facial fat redistribution but at this point it’s getting harder to tell. The facial fat redistribution started after year 1. Also, I’m still on Progesterone which was added into my HRT regimen after year 1. I believe that is responsible for increasing the size and darkening the color of my nipples to a much more feminine look. I was happy about those changes because my BA procedure alone did nothing to improve that aspect of my breasts. I will be getting off Progesterone at the end of this year now that it has done its job. I will be 6 years on HRT this September. I’m guessing I may have a year or two left before all the expected changes will have occurred.   Hope that helps a little, Susan R🌷
    • Susan R
      Trans Group Zoom Meeting Tomorrow!!   It’s almost time for another Zoom Meet-up and I’m sure it’ll be another entertaining time to get together with others from our community. As usual, these meeting can last up to 4 hours or longer. Come when you can and leave whenever you want. The start times are listed below.   If you need a Zoom Link, Message me as soon as possible as I will be gone early all day tomorrow (Sat.). I will PM you a link here before I leave for the day tomorrow. See you all next week.   Have Fun! Susan R🌷   From Zoom Host AllieJ: We had 15 at our last zoom of April, with great discussions as usual. When there are this many people attending, we have to be a little stricter with keeping our talking time short and watching for hands up so everybody can contribute. Best is to use the electronic ‘Raise Hand’ so it is more visible.    Trans Group Zoom Meeting Times: May 4, 2024 6:00 PM Pacific Time May 4, 2024 8:00 PM Central Time May 5, 2024 11:00 AM Australia/Melbourne
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      Wow, Birdie, I hope you get better soon.  At least the nurses figured out that you're not their standard patient.  Hopefully they treat you right.     I wish my husband would replace our stoves.  Of course we use propane, being way out of town, but they're old.  They are supposed to use a battery igniter, but one hasn't worked in years.  There's actually a hole sawed in the bottom plate of the oven where I stick a match.  And the other one had some sort of valve problem, and couldn't get the parts.  I was hoping for a new stove, but I got to watch in awe and dismay as my husband made a "something" with a piece cut from a roll of bulk automotive gasket material.  It works, no leaks.  But I swear we don't replace anything here until it is absolutely dead.  With my luck, that will be another 20 years on those stoves.      I don't complain much, but I wish I had some nicer kitchen things.  Nobody understands that if I'm serving dinner for 36 people, cooking on sheetmetal plates or using stuff from a 1980s junkyard is a bit....suboptimal.  When I mention it, I get lengthy apocalyptic tales of the deprived life in Argentina or Mexico or "In Soviet Union, stove cooks you..."  Thanks, GF.  Or maybe I'm just too spoiled?
    • KayC
      I do the best I can to 'Pass' and I think I have become better at feminizing my appearance ... But, I have also come to realize that no matter how much I feel I pass, it's more up to the individual I interact with than with my efforts and appearance. If they are self-aware humans they will see me as I truly am ... and then I will receive a compliment, or a 'Ma'am', or just a friendly smile.  That's all I really need.
    • MaybeRob
      In my case, at almost 9 months, most changes have been very subtle. I was 60 when I started, and overweight. Also, I am not very observant when it comes to changes. In the last 3 months I have been on T blockers and breast growth have definitely started having suffered irregular "ouchies", but at the same time I have been slowly losing fat, so Bust measurements have not changed. What has changed in the density, I can feel a difference. Face wise the skin feels softer, and my lashes seem to be more visible. Head hair regrowth is a maybe- maybe not situation.  I do have to select men's clothing carefully to camouflage the change in breast shape. I guess I'm still at the not passable as a female stage especially with no makeup. I'm also over 6 foot and well over 100kgs which I guess is problematic to start with!   Hope this helps somewhat   Kate .
    • EasyE
      I started feminizing HRT about 6-7 weeks ago. I began with what I called the beginner's patch. I immediately found myself wanting to level up to the next dose and did that this week (yay!). So far, I am enjoying the ride.   I've read everything I can find on this topic. For the HRT vets on here, what is reasonable to expect in terms of physical changes for someone starting in their 50s? I know "your mileage may vary." I guess I am curious if I stay on my current trajectory for six months, a year, multiple years, how pronounced will the physical changes be? Will I reach a point where it is totally obvious or will I land in a "middle zone" somewhere in which I could pass either way?   Thanks! Like I said I am enjoying the ride so far and always curious to know others' experiences. Not sure anyone else in my life will be excited about these moves I am making, but I have been over that in many places on here already so need to rehash... Love and blessings to all!   Easy
    • April Marie
      Sending prayers and love!
    • Birdie
      Being admitted into the hospital after a long ER visit. I started passing lots of blood and they are keeping me for observation.    Nurse came in to see about a condom catheter, that of course doesn't work on me. 🤣   She said, "I guess we will use incontinence supplies on you."  
    • Ivy
      Yeah.  I think this is what it is about.  Since they are not transgender, nobody else could possibly be either.  I'm not sure that a cisgender person can understand being transgender.  But that hardly means that a transgender person's experience is not real - just because it is not theirs. Why is a transgendered person's experience not valid, while a cisgendered person's is?  Why should it be the cisgendered person that decides? Nobody is forcing a cis person to transition.  What I do for myself is my own business.
    • Abigail Genevieve
      @maebe   It sounds exciting.  I hope all goes well.   Abby
    • Adrianna Danielle
      Decided to head for Lowes after work early and bought a new stove.Was in stock and put it back of my truck.Luckily a neighbor of mine whom does appliance repair did come to remove the connection and convert the stove to natural gas in the new one.Was set up for propane.Happy with it and the scrap metal guy came to pick up my old one.He was happy to get it,said he needed one more to make it a load in his trailer full of junk appliances
    • Maddee
    • Abigail Genevieve
      I've been thinking it is a matter of belief.  They simply do not believe someone can validly be transgender and should not be allowed to practice their beliefs, but should be forced to practice their belief, that is, that there is no such thing as transgender and it is all mental illness/sin/hormonal imbalance. 
    • KatieSC
      I am really kind of sick of everybody who is not transgender deciding on what we need and do not need in the way of procedures. They act like all of this is play acting, and we can just apply cosmetics to our entire body. It might be refreshing if someone asked us directly what services we need in order to transition. I could say more as I am frustrated, but I do not want to violate the TOS.
    • Emily Chen
      Thanks a lot for letting me know! Unfortunately, I'm not available during this time period. Have a great meeting!

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...