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Guest Amy_rosalina

Hi, I'm amy(not my real name) and I'm a 17 year old crossdresser. I have been a crossdresser pretty much as long as I can remember but I never got to do anything cause my mom is totally disgusted by that kind of stuff. I finally have been able to find out who I really am after my folks got divorced and I lived with my dad. I finally got the courage to tell him who I really was he actually was ok with it! It was one of the most amazing feelings in the world to know that you had someone to accept you for who you are. I don't have a lot of interesting activities besides the stereotypical norm of video games, anime and friends. I will be going to college next year to study sociology which I cannot wait for do. I'm even aware that the school is doing studies on masculinity and femininity portrayal in media and I'm hoping I can study that. It would be a match made in heaven. That's another thing I am deeply spiritual christian despite the fact that my church is one of those backwards places that would hate me if they found out my secret. I know for a fact that I am male and I am perfectly content being male for the rest of my life but that doesn't mean I can't resist dressing up in the cutest clothes possible!

~Amy

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Guest Donna Jean

Hello, Amy........

Welcome to the playground! Let me swing this cart around and offer you some hot coco and a handfull of cookies...Sally's double chocolate chip!

It is nice that your dad has accepted you and is good with your CDing.........

Isn't it nice to be accepted? And to be in school this year...well you sound excited to be there! That's good!

Make yourself warm by the fire and we'll have a few of the others come and say Hi!...

It's nice to have you here!

XXOO

Donna Jean

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Guest Irielle

Hi Amy, welcome! Wow, it sounds like you already know a lot about yourself and have plans for your future. It's great that your dad is cool with your crossdressing.

Let me be one of the first to welcome you here. There are lots of great peoples here and I know the cookie tray will be coming along anytime. :)

Iri

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So what would you do about the church. You said you are a deeply spiritual person and you need a spiritual home.

When you start school next year yo will be able to find a Church that is accepting of all of you, not just what this pastor considers "Christian"

So there is a lot to look forward, Sociology, new spiritual home, and the love of your gender gifted outlook on life.

Be good and enjoy the forum and be true to yourself and your instincts.......Mia Congratulations on having a gread DAD.

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Hi Amy,

Welcome to the forims, I see that Donna Jean found the Cookies that I left, I had a rehearsal tonight, playing a concert Saturday so I decided to go to rehearsal, besides I love playing the trumpet - note the avatar.

Have a great time and we are all here to support each other, welcome to the family.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Sydney_W

Hey Amy,

Glad to hear that things are looking up for you. Hopefully you can find a more accepting church at school, and it sounds like you could bring an interesting perspective to sociology if you pursue it. Your dad sounds awesome, that's a great first step. Although I should say that self-acceptance is the first step, but you seem to have that already figured out. B)

Good luck and keep looking forward!

W

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