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Could I be intersex or am I just male?


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Ok idk how this really works...

I looked up klinefelter's syndrome. I have many of the symptoms along with some personality traits.

no muscle gain same as prepubescent basically.

Small frame

Low energy

I have A cups like seriously I got fitted at Victoria's secrets. I'm 32/34A cup.

I have a narrow waist

I have a femme face full lips small nose high cheekbones light hazel eyes I look a lot like my mom.

People perceive me as female if I don't talk.

Masculine qualities...

I'm 6 ft tall almost skinny

Broad shoulders 37.4"

Narrow hips

Heavy voice it's much heavier than most guys I know actually.

Long legs

I have a well developed 9 in penis and testicles they're sorta like odd because they're kind of small in comparison to my penis.

I may have gotten a girl pregnant.

I'm not on HRT yet at all.

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Jody from what you have mentioned i would not think you are intersexed. The attributes you describe do not sound like the attributes of anything but a male body. However the person to examine you would be your MD. I would discuss it there and get an exam.

Saying that does not mean you do not possess female traits. I was biologically male, fathered children but felt i was wrong somehow. As the years past i came to grip with the fact that despite my body i was female. Please understand that while many of us share similar feelings there are as many ways to handle them as there are people here. I would suggest that you go to a Gender Therapist(GT). Mine helped a great deal in helping me understand and accept my life and my gender.

Hugs,

Charlie

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Oh is klinefelter's syndrome an intersex condition because I named all th symptoms that come with it... Besides body shape I don't have wide hips or broad shoulders... Btw I don't have facial hair or a happy trail.

And I wasn't asking if I was because I feel like a female. I'm actually not sure what I am. People just seem to always think I'm a girl and I've found it odd that I have A cups I'm still in puberty but I'm skinny 114 lbs and almost 6 ft have obvious female breasts. I get far more attention from guys who think I'm a girl rather than girls. I like girls so this isn't something I welcome so much even though I like guys too just not by a lot.

Walking by people always refer to me as a she unless I talk. I just don't get why this is the case. I'm not even in drag. I try to dress masculine and I just am deemed butch or a lesbian which is ok since I mostly feel like I'd be comfortable as a lesbian...

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Oh is klinefelter's syndrome an intersex condition because I named all th symptoms that come with it... Besides body shape I don't have wide hips or narrow shoulders... Btw I don't have facial hair or a happy trail.

And I wasn't asking if I was because I feel like a female. I'm actually not sure what I am. People just seem to always think I'm a girl and I've found it odd that I have A cups I'm still in puberty but I'm skinny 114 lbs and almost 6 ft have obvious female breasts. I get far more attention from guys who think I'm a girl rather than girls. I like girls so this isn't something I welcome so much even though I like guys too just not by a lot.

Walking by people always refer to me as a she unless I talk. I just don't get why this is the case. I'm not even in drag. I try to dress masculine and I just am deemed butch or a lesbian which is ok since I mostly feel like I'd be comfortable as a lesbian...

Narrow shoulders sorry typo.

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There are some possibilities OTHER than Klinefelter's Syndrome that can result in the physical elements you describe. These conditions involve how your body processes androgens aka testosterone and may be in several configurations that will affect how you look and how you function sexually, and/or are sterile or a few variations even there. You do have questions that need to be medically evaluated though to get the true answer. Until you are identified by a court ordered paternity test for child support based on DNA, don't make that a big issue in figuring your life out for now. "Could have" and "darn well did" are not the same.

All of that said, yes, you still could be TG as just a garden variety Trans* person, for whom therapy is the best option. Since you are under 18, get to any therapist and leave the older generation out of this unless you are sure they will be supportive, but your plate is full enough of needs that while GT would be recommended, it is not the first issue in line.

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What exact syndromes are those?

And uh no she had an abortion so I'll never know for sure but we were in a relationship so it was supposedly allegedly mine. That's why I said I may have. She had other issues so its quite possible she could have been with a guy who got her in that condition idk.

I've gone to a dr. In the past months he said that my boobs will go away and that Some things take longer to develop like my muscular growth. But since then my other boob has grown in and they've both gotten much bigger.

Yeah I know but there's a problem with getting one I'm trying to figure that out now actually.

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