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I just received something. My first real woman clothes... (I have a pydjama that I usually wear with forms when I can) and it fits! Yay!. It was a real childhood dream to wear a full lenght skirt (chiffon in my case). I'm so excited, the little girl in me is overjoyed. It's so confortable it's crazy. I can't wait to put it on this evening and maybe join a picture :)

This skirt is like a powerfull medecine for my soul, really. When I tried it my wife was there and I was super excited, she never saw me like this, I don't think. I really felt like a girl 100% from the feelings to the look. I forgot 10 minutes that I have the face I have and all that.

Accepting and living my female identity is a blessing really... it was about time

I just had to share it! :)

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Congrats! I know the feeling. I never want to change out of my girl clothes and usually the only thing that forces me is bedtime or someone who doesn't know is coming over out. It's a great feeling, one I hope you get more and more often.

God bless

Ashley

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I know the feeling. What fun! With more to come.

hugs,

Charlize

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Charlize, you are making me dream! lol

If there is more to come like that i'm in :)

the crazy thing is that there's many childhood dreams unrealized who are sooooo simple. If I go far enough with transition there's so much of them to realize. It's kind of great that way. It will offset the hard moments a little.

I feel like an over optimistic child :) lol, that's precisely what I am today : An over optimistic little girl

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I'm so happy for you! And even though I'm on the FTM side of the fence, I totally get it. When I dress the way my real inner self feels, it is magic. My confidence just soars, and my boy-self gets to be truly alive.

Enjoy it! And may you have many more such moments to come. :)

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Congrats on the girl clothes! It is a wonderful feeling, I know. I am wearing a nice skirt and top right now. :)

Hugs,

Stephanie the Viking Girl

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