Women

[Guest leo]

i dont know if anyone else feels like this

but lately i cant be good friends with women

everytime im with one, even if they are only slightly attractive i can only think of one thing

and im becoming aroused very quickly and easierly when im around them which is embarrassing

for me it makes me feel imature and not in control, maybe its a teenage think i duno

views, comments?

also for the past week, i keep dreaming about getting a women pregnant!

[Sally]

Well, Leo,

That is pretty much a teenage thing that some men never grow out of!

The dream is a dream for a transman like transwomen dreaming of becoming pregnant.

In the case of almost all single men that would be classified as a nightmare!

Love ya,

Sally

[Guest Elizabeth K]

Welcome to the world of men. It's generally all men think about - 20-30 times a day maybe in a serious way, about a 100 in a casual way. After a while it gets so you just work around it. Its how mother nature propogates the specis, I think. Women want relationships, men want to get to it.

This was one of the things I was GLAD to leave behind! It is so much easier to live out a day without obsessing everytime a woman passes by.

Elizabeth

[Guest Irielle]

Leo, you sound like a normal hormonal boy to me

Somewhere I remember reading that the average man has a sexual thought of some kind every 15 - 20 seconds or so, something like that.

For me that's kind of a low number, because I'm bisexual so I have twice the thoughts! sometimes I get confused :lol:

[Guest bronx]

Leo-

You're just being a normal guy. When you are around girls try and think of other stuff. that's what i do. I think of food or what i watched on tv. Sometimes I can't if she looks really good, but be a gentelman at all times.

[Guest Little Sara]

Leo-

You're just being a normal guy. When you are around girls try and think of other stuff. that's what i do. I think of food or what i watched on tv. Sometimes I can't if she looks really good, but be a gentelman at all times.

Then I never was hormonally normal as male, cause that never happened. My libido was so low I qualified as asexual. I thought I was for a while (I dunno, a decade?) too. Didn't think estrogen would start things up, but it did.

One wonders where that high level of testosterone went if it gave me no libido, no muscular development, no bone development, no height increase, no body hair (chest, back), very little facial hair...where did it go?

I was middle-range for an adult male, not like I was lacking the stuff.

[Guest OneOutOfnOne]

Welcome to the world of men. It's generally all men think about - 20-30 times a day maybe in a serious way, about a 100 in a casual way. After a while it gets so you just work around it. Its how mother nature propogates the specis, I think. Women want relationships, men want to get to it.

This assumption about males always bothered me. Can anything really be generalized so broadly as this?

[Guest Sergei]

Be prepared for it to gets worse when you go on T! For me it's guys not girls, but it gets very distracting at times. It's just part of being male. lol

[Guest leo]

oh thats just great sergei! ..... not

[Guest Little Sara]

This assumption about males always bothered me. Can anything really be generalized so broadly as this?

I don't think so. I looked normal for a male, absent my absence of pubertal development. As far as I know, I got two functioning testes. Was raised as a boy. And nope, no chasing after every guy or girl that comes near me, even in fantasy.

[Guest My_Genesis]

i dont know if anyone else feels like this

but lately i cant be good friends with women

everytime im with one, even if they are only slightly attractive i can only think of one thing

and im becoming aroused very quickly and easierly when im around them which is embarrassing

for me it makes me feel imature and not in control, maybe its a teenage think i duno

views, comments?

also for the past week, i keep dreaming about getting a women pregnant!

I'm having the same problem. I feel like I deal with it like 10 times as much as bio guys do lol. My theory is that since we're missing crucial parts we're also missing crucial...sensations?..best word I can think of and that makes it even more frustrating for us, and makes us think about it a lot more than bioguys do. this is just going by personal experience, obviously...but things will happen, like I'll be hanging out with a guy or two and a girl and start going into this internal mental world of sex...lol...and the other guy(s) will just keep talking and hanging out like it's not even on their minds. Sometimes I just don't get it!

Are you taking T? Because I'm not and this is one of the reasons I want to get my natural T levels tested. There will be times when I'm not thinking about sex or anything like that at all, then I'll watch something on TV and be like "I can't watch TV anymore, there are way too many hot girls on TV...no matter what I'm watching..they're everywhere!" And it'll take like a day for me to stop thinking about it once it starts.

The getting a woman pregnant...I never had that dream lol. Actually, I think because I really only dream about things in my SUBconscious - things that I'm trying not to think about - and I think about sex so much, that's the reason I don't have very many sexual dreams. Some are indirectly related to people I'm attracted to and stuff...but never actual sex dreams..or getting women pregnant lol. I think it's probably something you actually wish you were capable of doing, like any other guy is. That would be my guess.

[Guest Sergei]

oh thats just great sergei! ..... not

Sorry mate, but it was quite a shock for me when I went on T. I had a high sex drive even before it, and then it went through the roof!! Just trying to prepare you. lol x

[Guest leo]

MG no im not on T yet but glad someone feels the way i do,

cant even be in the same room as a girl these days without thinking about having sex with her

[Guest My_Genesis]

This assumption about males always bothered me. Can anything really be generalized so broadly as this?

Well it's true for me lol. But I think it really depends on the age group or even the specific types of people you're referring to. The guys I'm friends with in college seem to fit that "assumption" less than I do....which I think is kinda ironic

[Guest Zack L]

I have a similar issue only with guys, like Sergei. And I doubt I'll actually act on those thoughts, not sure I'll ever be secure enough with my body to let others see it naked, let alone touch. XD

But I've always been like this, only it was with girls before. Kinda weird that I went from "lesbian" to gay guy. My theory is that I wanted a penis so bad that I shunned them to avoid being jealous. =P But now that I've come to terms with it I've stopped. Lol.

So...gonna get worse on T, huh? Thaaat'll be fun.

Or maybe it actually will. ~_^

Good lord I think I'm high off of sleep deprivation. *dies*

[Guest leo]

zack i was the opposite i thought i was a gay male for like 2 weeks of my life lol mainly because i was confusin really wanting and being a male to actually liking one

[Guest My_Genesis]

I have a similar issue only with guys, like Sergei. And I doubt I'll actually act on those thoughts, not sure I'll ever be secure enough with my body to let others see it naked, let alone touch. XD

That makes it even more of a problem for me to deal with....when you can't actually do anything about it

zack i was the opposite i thought i was a gay male for like 2 weeks of my life lol mainly because i was confusin really wanting and being a male to actually liking one

I think that's pretty common...I had a similar thing going on - really wanting to be male and actually liking one can be really similar in terms of your thoughts..lol. But I could never picture myself going on a date with a guy, let alone anything else...it took awhile to really figure it out

[Guest leo]

ye same here MG

i could never date a guy

[Guest Zack L]

I always found myself pulled towards guy/guy relationships, as soon as I realized that could even happen. First porn I watched? Gay guys. In fantasies? All guys. I thought I was just really weird, since until a few months ago I had no idea what being trans was, I thought it was just some weird...fetish or something.

Now that I know I have trouble seeing myself with girls.

MG, are you not able to physically transition?

[Guest CuriousT]

I have these feelings all the time! lol I check out every girl that passes by and felt that it was just normal and natural. I think about sex 24/7 and never even realized how high my libido is. Now when I start T my libido is gonna go thru the roof!

[Guest leo]

curious T yeh it will go through the roof!

good luck

[Guest My_Genesis]

curious T yeh it will go through the roof!

good luck

I can hardly manage now, I can't imagine how I'd be able to survive T

I mean the main problem is I'm not...getting physically what I...want..lol. so to be on T might make that even more of a problem

[Guest Elizabeth K]

Guys - not all men are that kind of lover. A woman can be... ahem ... pleasured... in many many ways. You will do just fine.

So

Women! Can't live with them! Can't live without them!

errrrm - so i just became one myself - hummmm

Lizzy

[Guest leo]

what kind of other ways are you talking about lizzy?

and i dunno if women will be able to keep up with me i have a high demand for sex

[Guest My_Genesis]

and i dunno if women will be able to keep up with me i have a high demand for sex

good point....

My problem is...why my "high demand" is constantly high has to do with not having the same physical ability to..keep it under control as bioguys do

And since T won't really change that, I just feel like it will get worse and I'm still going to have this problem, squared. lol.