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Let go From My Job Today


JenniferB

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However I will be working at a new account about 4 miles from home, and for a new manager. That really is a blessing because I had to drive 50 miles round trip to work. The savings on gas alone will be around $150/month. And it gives me peace of mind if my truck broke down. Add to that I was working free from home just to try and catch up. It was becoming overwhelming.

I believe the reason I was sent to that account by my higher power had nothing to do with work as much as who I ran into at AA. I found the right sponsor at the right time, even if was only briefly. I was in the depths of despair because of being overwhelmed financially and at work. I was finally able to completely surrender to my higher power and found the peace, serenity, and faith I was seeking. No longer does fear, anxiety, and depression have control over me any more. They happen when my mind becomes self-centered. God is there when I turn my mind over to him and I will always be able to find that peace and serenity when I ask for it. For that I am very grateful.

Only three weeks until my one year chip and I don't live in perpetual fear anymore. I now know I've completed step 3 and ready to move on.

Jenny

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Jenn that is fabulous news. Laid off and happy!!!!!! Oh it certainly doesn't hurt that you got a new job closer to home either. It sounds like you've done a good job on your third step. Giving up my will is something i have to remember but when i do the waters around me are suddenly calm.

I wish i could be there to see you get your 1 year chip. What changes, when i saw the title of the thread i was down just to be pulled up higher. Congrats.

Hugs,

Charlize

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I look at it as not being let go, but PROMOTED if that is the car situation!! See about putting some of that new money where you can't see it for a while and let it grow up!!

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Jennifer, I'm so glad that things will work out for the best. I wish you well on your new position. Knock the ball out of the park, hon.

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Carolyn Marie

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Best of luck to ya Jenny with your new postition !!

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Just finished my first day of work and have to say that I am very glad I stuck around. I like the place I work at, and was offered a chance to train on a state of the art/top of the line piece of equipment. I work 3 1/2 miles from home and am about 1/4 from the light rail that travels directly downtown. I will be able to park my truck in the parking lot I work at and take the light rail to watch a pro baseball or basketball game.

I feel the most settled now I've felt for some time and that everything is working out. Central and downtown Phoenix are my stomping grounds now. And I won't even have to travel more than 10 miles. This is my stomping ground now. :)

Jenny

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Ok...you and Jodyann and I really really need to get together for coffee and celebrate. So glad to hear that awful commute and overwhelming work load is over!

Everyone here at Laura's is proud of you!

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My heart sank a bit when I saw the title to your thread. Relived that it was a change for something better! I hope I am not being too picky, but I worry that stomping grounds might not be good for your nice shoes. :)

Big Huggs Jenny!

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I just found out today that my new manager had 17 years of sobriety. He told me to keep working the steps and what AA meetings he liked in my area.

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