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Guest Emily H

Do you think there would ever be any way to get some new girl stuff, like a bra or a skirt from a store or something without my parents ever noticing? I don't have my own transportation, and mostly my parents would be able to tell when I made purchases, or if money suddenly disappears and they don't see anywhere it would have went?

Just asking for some suggestions because for the longest time now its been the same panties, the same bras, same skirts, dresses blah blah blah. Not that it's really bad for me, I don't dress all too often. A new bra, or maybe something completely new like a garter belt or shapewear would be nice, if possible to get without staying secret.

BTW, two questions-

-Are pantyhose supposed to tuck into anything to keep them in place?

-Are you supposed to wear socks with pantyhose? What about panties with pantyhose?

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BTW, two questions-

-Are pantyhose supposed to tuck into anything to keep them in place?

-Are you supposed to wear socks with pantyhose? What about panties with pantyhose?

I'm not going to be able to be much help on how to get clothes without getting caught if you don't have your own transportation or money.

But as to the two questions.

1 - pantyhose are usually worn without anything to tuck them into, however some women like to wear a firm control panty so they wear it over the pantyhose and they stay in place better,

2 - The only time you would wear socks with pantyhose would be if you are wearing a pair of boots that are a bit uncomfortable without them - knee socks over pantyhose was in the late 70s.

Most women wear panties with their pantyhose and that way if you really distroy a pair on a desk or a chair, you can slip them off and still have your pnaties on. (I hope in this case that you have shaved your legs!) :D

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Ashlee

As for your main question, sorry, I just don't have a good answer for that one...

As for the other two ?'s,

Pantyhose are made to stay up on their own. As long as you follow the size charts on the back, they should stay up. If you haven't shaved your legs, the hair will cause them work down the leg. Personnally, I stick with support hose, they have a bit more spandex in them so they stay up better, and I just love how they feel.

Socks with hose, not usually. The only times would be if you want to wear hose without any chance of being seen wearing them or if you are wearing them for the warmth of having them on. (I've done both.)

Panties with hose, usually. Mainly to stay, a little more "fresh" down there... ;) However, I sometimes go without panties because it too feels wonderful and there is no panty line!

Ashlee

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Guest April63

Well, how did you get your old clothes?

Can you ride the bus or walk? Maybe you could go somewhere with a friend, and then tell him that you need to go get something. Then quickly pick up a few new things and some cover-up items and rejoin him.

Do you parents really check how much money you have? If they do, you can always say that you spent it on a smoothie or milkshake when you were out with your friends on some day. Or perhaps you needed something for school. It would be good if actually got one of these things so you could use it as a cover-up, and you also wouldn't be completely lying.

Even though I did mention lying, the best way to go is to really not lie. If you get caught you'll get in more trouble, or have more problems, than if you would have just told the truth.

April

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Guest Emily H
Well, how did you get your old clothes?

Can you ride the bus or walk? Maybe you could go somewhere with a friend, and then tell him that you need to go get something. Then quickly pick up a few new things and some cover-up items and rejoin him.

Do you parents really check how much money you have? If they do, you can always say that you spent it on a smoothie or milkshake when you were out with your friends on some day. Or perhaps you needed something for school. It would be good if actually got one of these things so you could use it as a cover-up, and you also wouldn't be completely lying.

Even though I did mention lying, the best way to go is to really not lie. If you get caught you'll get in more trouble, or have more problems, than if you would have just told the truth.

April

I got my old clothes, mostly just undergarments, from outgoing good will boxes, and I just put on my mom's clothes. I'm a little lucky and unlucky- she is kinda smaller than me, but has a little bit of extra body mass, so her clothes fit me relatively okay, but she only has a handful of really feminine stuff. Well, two handfuls I suppose.

Thanks for the advice everyone, and the info with the pantyhose. It will help me, thank you all.

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Guest ~Brenda~
Do you think there would ever be any way to get some new girl stuff, like a bra or a skirt from a store or something without my parents ever noticing? I don't have my own transportation, and mostly my parents would be able to tell when I made purchases, or if money suddenly disappears and they don't see anywhere it would have went?

Just asking for some suggestions because for the longest time now its been the same panties, the same bras, same skirts, dresses blah blah blah. Not that it's really bad for me, I don't dress all too often. A new bra, or maybe something completely new like a garter belt or shapewear would be nice, if possible to get without staying secret.

BTW, two questions-

-Are pantyhose supposed to tuck into anything to keep them in place?

-Are you supposed to wear socks with pantyhose? What about panties with pantyhose?

Dear Some Guy,

I don't know what your circumstances are, but I would suggest that you use whatever mechanism you used to get your current set of girls clothing. I am not in your situation, but I simply buy my own clothes online or at a department store.

As far as your questions...

1. Pantyhose do not tuck. To get them to stay up, make sure that you gently pull them up (so as to not tear them) when you are putting them on working your way from the toes, up the leg, and finally around your waist. You want to hold each leg of your hose scrunched all the way to the toe part of the hose. Gently, place your foot into the hose leg and hold the hose so that it stays tight as you pull them up over your foot and leg. Do the same for the other leg.

2. I do not recommend wearing socks with panty hose (kind of defeats the purpose of hosery). I strongly reccommend wearing panties with pantyhose (gets really uncomfortable otherwise. At least for me anyway).

I hope this helps,

bernie

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Guest CDJenn

Goodwill, Salvation Army, or any other thrift store is a good place to get clothing for cheap. They usually have a pretty good selection of ladies garments and shoe, as well as other accessories. That was how I got most of my clothes and such when I was younger. Also, most of the people who work at these places won't look at you all weird because you are a boy buying girls clothes.

Hope this helps,

Jenn

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