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Wow!! What an amazing piece of mail to receive on today of all days.

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I came home from a wonderful day of relaxing, massage, and a movie, and found the mailer in my mailbox. I knew what it was immediately and I'm sure the neighbors were wondering what was up with the lady down the street screaming and running from her mailbox to the house. I came inside, ripped open the package and there she was looking back at me. I once again had a moment where I was laughing and crying all at the same time.

It seems these days, most of my tears are tears of joy and happiness. I could get used to this life. Now to get SS and my DL updated. W00t!!!

Exuberantly happy

Ashley

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Congratulations :score::score:

Having our True Gender listed on our documentations is very helpful and Validating.

All of my Federal and State documents have also been changed to Female :)

When and where is your first trip going to be? :)

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Congratulations Ashley,

Wow, that is totally far out, and groovy! I am truly envious, and at the same time absolutely happy for you. :thumbsup:

hugs,

Stephanie

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Big congrats, Ashley!! Another milestone. I know exactly how you feel.

HUGS

Carolyn Marie

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Congratulations Ashley,

Wow, that is totally far out, and groovy! I am truly envious, and at the same time absolutely happy for you. :thumbsup:

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Stephanie

^^ what she said :)

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:score::thumbsup: :thumbsup: :thumbsup::score:

W00T Congratulations Ashley. :friends:

A wonderful piece of ID to receive, especially on TDOV.

It amazes me that it is easier for you to get a correct passport, than it is to get a correct DL.

Complete opposite for me. :doh1:

Huggs, :wub:

Joann

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It is such a big moment, congratulations. I remember floating on a cloud and still can't wait to get close to some border or another. The only letdown i had was when i said, speaking to my wife, "i'm legally female". That went OK but when i also said "your legally a lesbian now" it didn't fly. My happiness didn't translate. Those ID's make a huge difference!

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Charlize

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Thanks so much for all the congrats! I'm very excited about next steps and what this means.

Congratulations :score::score:

Having our True Gender listed on our documentations is very helpful and Validating.

All of my Federal and State documents have also been changed to Female :)

When and where is your first trip going to be? :)

Well if I'm lucky, my first trip will be Japan and Thailand in about 6 months. I've still got to confirm that I can make that happen but trying to make it happen before the end of the year if possible.

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W00T Congratulations Ashley. :friends:

A wonderful piece of ID to receive, especially on TDOV.

It amazes me that it is easier for you to get a correct passport, than it is to get a correct DL.

Complete opposite for me. :doh1:

Huggs, :wub:

Joann

Having this piece of ID should make it easier for me to get my driver's license and SSA account updated to female as well. People used to say that TN required SRS for a marker change on your license, but I found the rules and laws governing that and it doesn't say anything about surgery, just need a note from a doctor stating that you have completed treatment. At least this way I'm sure to get the proper documentation. Going to find out tomorrow for sure.

It is such a big moment, congratulations. I remember floating on a cloud and still can't wait to get close to some border or another. The only letdown i had was when i said, speaking to my wife, "i'm legally female". That went OK but when i also said "your legally a lesbian now" it didn't fly. My happiness didn't translate. Those ID's make a huge difference!

Hugs,

Charlize

Bwahahahaa!!!! :lol::Crylol::P

What I want to know is if I can switch out providing my birth certificate or passport to get married, based on which state I'm getting married in. I have a feeling it won't matter by the time I get to that decision. Oh well, I suppose I'm legally a lesbian too...lol.

God bless

Ashley

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