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Guest mia 1

Well I sat down today and emailed my best friend..best friend from 4th grade on and told him who and what I am.

Well let me start in the beginning he is a film maker and a few months ago I asked him in the email if he had a part for me n his movie as an old grandma...He posted back that the part of Mrs. Doubtfire was filled.

I left it like that

Today as I said I emailed him and told him I've been cross dressing since I was 15 and just laid it all out and I told him to tell h is wife and let her know all the details that I told him, and left it like that.

Well about 7:00 I got a phone call from them both and they were so supportive and had a few questions and wanted to know if I was Gay and I said this is a gender issue not a sex issue....and they understood that..which was cool....etc etc..and of course they wanted to know if my lovely wife knew and I said yes of course and blah blah blah..the essence was they were happy for me and they both said We are with you all the way......which was really cool because when I outed myself to my gay buddy he said the same thing "I'm with you all the way."So great now you guys, my wife my former girlfriends(2) and my two friends...next my brother but I'll wait till the summer and tell him in person. Can't wait feel so empowered...... Love to you all Mia.

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Guest Jackson

I'm glad to hear that your friends are so supportive. Gives you a warm and fuzzy feeling sometimes, doesn't it?

Now this is a good thing in life.

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hey Mia,

That is so great that you have been coming out to the ones you love!!! It is also wonderful to hear that they truely love you and accept you for who you are (absolutely wonderful!!). Coming out is really an important step because you no longer have to hide from everyone!!

Keep on going babe!!!

LOL

bernie

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Guest doodle

hey Mia good for you. I don't even have any friends to come out to. I have to get out of this soclal avoidant hole I've been in for so long.

doodle

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Congrats Mia, it is a wonderful feeling after you come out to people, as you know i told my neighbors this week and they are supportive. I really think how and when you tell people along with how well they know you is important, seems if they like the person inside what the outside looks like doesn't matter much.

HUGS

Paula.

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Guest Donna Jean

Oh, Mia!

I'm so happy for you! Doesn't that feel empowering?? And adding to the love they already have for you! And now they have a whole new person to love and all the while being familiar with you...

How wonderful!

****BIGG HUGGS****

Donna Jean

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Guest mia 1

Thank you all so much now those tears of happiness are rolling down my cheeks...love to all of you .......................Mwaaaaaaaaaaaaa Mia

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Congratulations, Mia!

You already know from our telephone conversation earlier how happy I am for you.

Now, I would like to negotiate a 'friend swap'. :lol:

Love ya,

Sally

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