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I MY GET SOME PEAC AT THE END.

I HAVE NEVER SAID THIS TO ANYONE BEFOR,I HAVE A MANS BODY BUT I AM A WOMAM!

GODS THAT FRAKIN FEELS GOOD TO SAY.

I HOPE TO FIND OUT JUST WHAT KIND.

MY LIFE HAS BEEN HELL UP TILL THIS POINT AND I HAVE THOUGHT OF PULLING THE PLUG TO SEE WHAT COMES NEXT.

BUT WITH A LITTLE HELP FROM MY FRIENS WE WILL SEE.

MONICA2

P.S. I AM NOT GOOD WITH COMPUTERS SO YOU MUST BEAR WITH ME.

I DO NOT KNOW WERE TO GET AN AVATAR OR HOW TO PUT IT ON.

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Guest Donna Jean

Monica....Good morning, Sweetheart!

Welcome to the Playground!

Please allow me to get you some nice hot coco and maybe some hot banana nut bread with reall butter....OK?

Now....Please sit with me here by the fire and we can talk a bit.

Realizing that you are transgendered is something many of us come to terms with..and it can be very hard to accept...But we do...

So, Hon...please don't talk about pulling the plug...we are all here to help and support you...we are all in this together!

Please talk to us and we'll help work things out!

Don't worry we'll help you get an avatar. That's not a problem right now...

And remember honey...please don't type in all capitals...that is considered shouting....

You said that you weren't too computer literate...we can help there, too.....OK?

Thanks for joing, Hon...some others will stop by soon to say HI ....

Relax...it's going to be wonderful!

XXOO

Donna Jean

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Good Morning Monica,

So glad to have you here.

I see that you have met Donna Jean, one of the many friendly people here, she's great.

We are all here to support each other, to learn and to have a good time.

It is an amazing place and I will tell you that a lot of the people here came very close to pulling the plug, but somehow this place has helped them to find that they are not alone and that people do care.

Believe that because we do.

as to the full caps that Donna Jean mentioned, it is haed to express very strong emotions on the computer - that's one way the pthers involve using colors and size to emphasize a point.

Use this link to take you to a basic guide to use of the forums, it was written by a young man who wanted to make things a little easier for those of us with a bit more limited computer skills.

http://www.lauras-playground.com/forums/in...?showtopic=6440

Welcome to the forums.

Love ya,

Sally

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Hi Monica and welcome, I am also MtF, 57 and have been where you are. For starters you have already met some wonderful people. I am a moderator in the chat room which is also a suicide prevention site, so any time you feel down and thinking of pulling the plug or just want someone to talk too feel free to join, we have many moderators trained in suicide prevention including myself and we have saved thousands of lives. Please read all that you can, this site has allot to offer and start posting questions, i bet you have a zillion, well maybe not that many but you know what i mean.

HUGS!

Paula.

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Guest kirsty

Hi Monica welcome. I have just joined too. I was lost and confused too, but now I have found this forum I am sure things will start to get better. Welcome and nice to meet you

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Guest Elizabeth K

Monica honey

You are okay - you have probably come home - we will be here for you. First let me do the classic

WELCOME WELCOME WELCOME

And please if you are a member of the Craft please post on that Forum too.

I am just like you - and I have come into my resolution very late in life. So please feel free to chat with us a little. I am MTF and in transition - if that means anything to you. We here can tell you our stories and how your story is almost identical.

So look around - relax - glad to meet you!

Lizzy

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Guest ~Brenda~

Hi Monica,

Welcome to Laura's Playground!! Please come in and be yourself. Everyone here will help you find your way. Finding your way to Laura's means you are walking out of "hell". You are now safe!!

Hey, Zabrak (he's a computer genius) can you help Monica?

Welcome dear!!

bernii

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Guest Frank67

Hi Monica,

welcome to the forums. As Lizzy wrote relax, look around and make friends.

And for the avatars click me these side has tons of it in different categories, I am sure u will find one there.

1. Right click (save graphic - I am not sure what it is in English maybe "save image as") on the pic to save it on your hard disc.

2. Click on "My Controls" in the upper right corner here

3. On the left in the new window chose "Edit Avatar Settings" and there "Upload a new image from your computer". Click on the right button (could be "search") and chose the pic u like to upload as your avatar.

4 Click on "Update Avatar" and that's it.

I hope I've missed nothing :D

Frank

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Guest CharlieRose

Monica, I don't normally welcome people, I can never think of what to say, but I just have to tell you that was the most adorable reaction to this place I've ever seen. *gives hug* I sincerely hope you will find happiness through a transition, and we can help. Very informative and encouraging place, this. Welcome.

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Guest MONICA  2
Monica....Good morning, Sweetheart!

Welcome to the Playground!

Please allow me to get you some nice hot coco and maybe some hot banana nut bread with reall butter....OK?

Now....Please sit with me here by the fire and we can talk a bit.

Realizing that you are transgendered is something many of us come to terms with..and it can be very hard to accept...But we do...

So, Hon...please don't talk about pulling the plug...we are all here to help and support you...we are all in this together!

Please talk to us and we'll help work things out!

Don't worry we'll help you get an avatar. That's not a problem right now...

And remember honey...please don't type in all capitals...that is considered shouting....

You said that you weren't too computer literate...we can help there, too.....OK?

Thanks for joing, Hon...some others will stop by soon to say HI ....

Relax...it's going to be wonderful!

XXOO

Donna Jean

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Guest MONICA  2
Monica....Good morning, Sweetheart!

Welcome to the Playground!

Please allow me to get you some nice hot coco and maybe some hot banana nut bread with reall butter....OK?

Now....Please sit with me here by the fire and we can talk a bit.

Realizing that you are transgendered is something many of us come to terms with..and it can be very hard to accept...But we do...

So, Hon...please don't talk about pulling the plug...we are all here to help and support you...we are all in this together!

Please talk to us and we'll help work things out!

Don't worry we'll help you get an avatar. That's not a problem right now...

And remember honey...please don't type in all capitals...that is considered shouting....

You said that you weren't too computer literate...we can help there, too.....OK?

Thanks for joing, Hon...some others will stop by soon to say HI ....

Relax...it's going to be wonderful!

XXOO

Donna Jean

thank you for your welcome

you have no idea how it makes me feel to hear my name from someone other than my self for the

first time thanks.

oh nuts my wife just walk in seen what i was doing,she thinks i am cheating on her.

i do not know what will hapin to me now it is like 1 step forwerd and all the back.

goodby all and thanks

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Guest mia 1

Oh yeah that cheating part..that is the guilt ...you have to come to terms with your wife and that is so hard at first but in a short time you will see how worth while it is...believe me just tell her.the stuff will hit the fan but she'll love you more for the truth.....Don't leave us just come back ASAP...We need you as much as you need us......Mia

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Hi Monica,

Welcome to Lauras, My name is Dan. I have been here a few days and have found the people here to be very helpful and caring. So please forget about pulling the plug, most all of here have thought about it or even attempted to, but it isnt worth it. And now that you found this site you will find there are so many more people just like you.

HUGGS

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