I dont have any motivation

[Guest miss andros]

Since three years, I search to obtain my driver licence without success. Because my need for autonomy and to see good doctors.

Sincerely, I feel tired!

[Guest]

I'm sure the procedure to have a driver's licence is different in France but where do you fail? Practice? written exam?

[Charlize]

So many of the changes we seek seem to be impossible. It sounds as if you need to find a good doctor and or therapist to help you. Are there any local support groups near you. I'm sure like here other trans* folks get together and help each other.

It will work out but at times we all get tired. I know i let thing go for long periods and still have a few things that i aught to take care of.

Hugs,

Charlize

[Guest miss andros]

I know local support But they are very far and not very supportive. I am stuck at the theory test

[Charlize]

I'm sorry to hear that you feel so isolated. I found that i had to move slowly and accomplish one small goal at a time. It seemed the process would never end but very slowly things started to come together. It was mostly a matter of trying step one and if i failed taking what i learned to do step two. i'm sure it would have been easier if i had had a local trans* friend but unfortunately like you i didn't know many others and those i knew were busy with their lives. Don't loose heart. Time will deliver your dreams if you just keep trying. At the same time we all need to simply rest at times. It does get exhausting.

Hugs,

Charlize

[Guest miss andros]

I am lonely by nature, and my only company is my parents.Because I am also asperger, i have difficults to socialize and lack of confidence.

[StephanieVikingGirl]

I hope that you find someone supportive. I try very hard to be supportive to others, but I also owe a lot to the support I have at home. My S.O. Alex is totally supportive of me, and I support him as best I can. We are both trans and going through transition together, and we are both full time as ourselves.

However, I wasn't always in this situation, I remember very well being isolated to a large degree, with little money or food. That was very tiring indeed. I remained optimistic as best that I could, and I persisted in surviving. Eventually things turned around for me. My life has been saved twice: once surviving to begin transition, and the second came about when I moved in with Alex.

I hope and pray that your conditions improve, and that you soon have the things you need and desire.

hugs,

Stephanie

[Guest miss andros]

Thanks, it very nice! Sometime I am afraid to be selfish to other people