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Guest NeverSayNever

Thanks Sally ^^ *hugs*

"There will always be better times ahead and each new day is an opportunity to get things right, the past is gone fading into memories, now is becoming the past as we speak only the future is there for us to improve upon - so let's do just that."

That is great advice :D I'm definitely going to remember that :)

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Guest Elizabeth K

NeverSayNever

Is it getting better, maybe - just a bit? You seem much more positive! I hope your exams and all come out good... whew - so hard in school, I remember - everything has to halt - all the putting off til the last minute? IT's suddenly THE LAST MINUTE!

Hee hee

And keep on keeping on - we are here for ya!

Lizzy

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You really are a lot more positive today!

I can't keep up with your posts welcoming new people and offering good wishes for proms and condolences for ones that went bad.

You are getting the idea - the world is what we make of it and you have grabbed your tool kit and started to work!

Let me get my work gloves - I don't want to break a nail and I'll help.

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Elizabeth K

Oh Phoebe

That's not you really - Phoebe, that is. Inquiring minds wanna know - what is your real name, I mean as a male?

Sooping Lizzy

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Guest NeverSayNever
Is it getting better, maybe - just a bit? You seem much more positive! I hope your exams and all come out good... whew - so hard in school, I remember - everything has to halt - all the putting off til the last minute? IT's suddenly THE LAST MINUTE!

Hee hee

And keep on keeping on - we are here for ya!

Lizzy

Thanks ^^ I got 5 exams next week :o Not good lol

I can't wait till June when it's all over

You really are a lot more positive today!

I can't keep up with your posts welcoming new people and offering good wishes for proms and condolences for ones that went bad.

You are getting the idea - the world is what we make of it and you have grabbed your tool kit and started to work!

Let me get my work gloves - I don't want to break a nail and I'll help.

Love ya,

Sally

Lol. I am feeling more positive today. ^^

I had a conversation with my friend earlier, the one I came out to, and he called me a guy and it made me really happy.

Talking to you on Laura's always makes me happy as well, you're all so supportive and friendly ^^ :D

Love Phoebe (I still need to find a male name)x

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Guest NeverSayNever
Oh Phoebe

That's not you really - Phoebe, that is. Inquiring minds wanna know - what is your real name, I mean as a male?

Sooping Lizzy

I have no idea. :(

I can't find one that seems to fit. If you see what I mean.

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Guest Nikk

Huh.... I thought I replied to this..... Strannnnggeeee....

I know we've met already through a couple other threads.....

Anyway, welcome from a fellow new-person!

I saw the stuff about your name (multiple times), and maybe you ought to consider something like Philip or close. You seem kind of like a Phil to me at least... Just a random thought.

~Nikk

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Guest NeverSayNever
I saw the stuff about your name (multiple times), and maybe you ought to consider something like Philip or close. You seem kind of like a Phil to me at least... Just a random thought.

Thanks, but not Philip lol. I know someone called Philip and he's not a nice guy, it kind of puts me off :P

Thanks for the suggestion anyways ^^

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Guest NeverSayNever

I've been thinking about names, and I really like Marluxia but it doesn't seem like a REAL name. If you know what I mean. But I could always shorten it to Marly.

I like the character Marluxia from this game, and he's really cool. But I like his name as well, not just because of the character. His other name was Lumaria which I also like but not as much as the first.

:S So...yeah. I don't know.

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Guest NeverSayNever
If you like the "Mar" sound....

Marlon

Martin

Martino

Marcel

Marreno or Merreno

Marvin

Marquis

Marcus

Thanks :D

I like that Marquis one, it sounds cool :)

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Guest Marissa Anastasia

Hello Never,

Your moniker is very true and it seems that your options are open...that being the case, I know we can help you and support you...best wishes on your journey, Laura's being a part of it. We're here for you!

Love,

Marissa

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