Jump to content
  • Welcome to the TransPulse Forums!

    We offer a safe, inclusive community for transgender and gender non-conforming folks, as well as their loved ones, to find support and information.  Join today!

-______- Fear My Uglyness!


Guest Selkia

How do I look?  

102 members have voted

  1. 1. .__.

    • Ugly
      0
    • Super ugly
      5
    • Freaky
      2
    • Okay looking
      9
    • Cute
      19
    • very cute
      59
    • Hot...
      3
    • Smoking Hot
      5


Recommended Posts

Guest Selkia
post some pictures that You think are pretty!! :D

:( the time I thought I looked amazing I never took any pics because I was scared someone would find them..

-__-; but now I wish I took hundreds of pics

But I will try to take some good pics of me :D

Link to comment
  • Replies 50
  • Created
  • Last Reply

Top Posters In This Topic

  • Sally

    2

  • MaryEllen

    1

  • Flint

    1

  • CharlotteW

    1

Back in the 70s in the days of film and manual focus cameras, I took a few black and white images of myself in dresssses and heels and I was quite thin at the time - I really looked female if only I had a wig - I processed the necatives myself and then printed an image or two in my own darkroom.

I really wish that in one of my many purges that I had kept just one of those.

As my therapist sasy, "Get fixed up really nice and pretty - take a picture and hold on to it so you can always say, I was pretty once, I have a picture!"

Love ya,

Sally

Link to comment
Guest Selkia
Back in the 70s in the days of film and manual focus cameras, I took a few black and white images of myself in dresssses and heels and I was quite thin at the time - I really looked female if only I had a wig - I processed the necatives myself and then printed an image or two in my own darkroom.

I really wish that in one of my many purges that I had kept just one of those.

As my therapist sasy, "Get fixed up really nice and pretty - take a picture and hold on to it so you can always say, I was pretty once, I have a picture!"

Love ya,

Sally

^^ hehe Sally :P you don't need those old pics...nor do you need a pic to say your pretty :3 they just have to take a look at ya and they will know your pretty <3

Link to comment
Guest julia_d

hey hey .. a smile .. the last one is great.. I just love the wild eyed look.. I guess you were just about to laugh at how silly it is looking at yourself in the screen and pulling faces trying to get a good pic XD

no worries girl.. keep on enjoying those crazy moments.

Link to comment
Guest RainBird

WT?? Fear your uglyness??? :huh: You've got to be kidding me!!

I would love to look as pretty as you!

You're a very attractive young woman dear :)

xxoo

Link to comment
  • 10 months later...
Guest Selkia
Walking by you on the street, I'd never guess you were born male. Don't be so hard on yourself, your gorgeous!

o_o umm ya alot of guys have been whistling at me while I walk by...

awwwwwww you look soooooo adorable :3

*hug*

*BIG SUPER DUPER HUG!* RWAR!

WT?? Fear your uglyness??? :huh: You've got to be kidding me!!

I would love to look as pretty as you!

You're a very attractive young woman dear :)

xxoo

Well I sorta look pretty sometimes but alot of the time I look horrible.

Link to comment

Good morning Selkia ,,,,,you are miles ahead already . If you throw

in 6/12 months Estrogen you will be just another cute girl . best of

luck to you hun , viv :)

Link to comment

Do you watch friends? Well i like to think of myself as a little bit like Joey, although i'm more respectful to people and actually call them back ;) but anyway here is what i wanted to say:

B) How you doing?

Link to comment
Guest KellyKat

Hi Sel!!

You look adorable!! With large doe eyes (eye), and a charming little smile!!

I find it hard to believe your not on HRT even!! You look like a natal girl already!!

Luv Kat :)

Link to comment
Guest Selkia
Good morning Selkia ,,,,,you are miles ahead already . If you throw

in 6/12 months Estrogen you will be just another cute girl . best of

luck to you hun , viv :)

Morning,

I reallly wanna start HRT but im extremely scared of even trying.

Do you watch friends? Well i like to think of myself as a little bit like Joey, although i'm more respectful to people and actually call them back ;) but anyway here is what i wanted to say:

B) How you doing?

xD Sorry that made me laugh..*hugs* :)

Hi Sel!!

You look adorable!! With large doe eyes (eye), and a charming little smile!!

I find it hard to believe your not on HRT even!! You look like a natal girl already!!

Luv Kat :)

thanks..<3 and both are my eyes are like that o_o and i believe this is the first time anyone has refered to my eyes as Doe eyes :P

and ya Im not on HRT though If i do start I hope I look alot better.

Link to comment
Guest Sotha
^^;..lol why does everyone like my eyes..I hate them..and don't you mean eye you only saw one

Pshh! My eyes are the only things I still like about myself. I used to be as cute as you, but now I'm almost all the way through puberty and I'm scrambling to try to get on hormones (or at least T-blockers) before it finishes having its way with me.

Please start HRT soon. Don't let testosterone make you actually look like you felt.

Link to comment
Guest Selkia
Pshh! My eyes are the only things I still like about myself. I used to be as cute as you, but now I'm almost all the way through puberty and I'm scrambling to try to get on hormones (or at least T-blockers) before it finishes having its way with me.

Please start HRT soon. Don't let testosterone make you actually look like you felt.

Well I still look like that..and im already through puberty.

and even though I would love to start HRT its really hard seeing how no one arund me is supporting me,

in fact i have gotten threats from people living with me, that if i started HRT they would do horrible things to me.

So I even though I really wish to start Hormones I doubt I will be able too

Link to comment
Guest Selkia
OMG, I accidently voted for super ugly, but this was only a mistake!!! You look very cute indeed! I am very sorry!!!

Akila

Thats alright

and thank you ^^

Link to comment
Guest Chandra

Dearest Selkia,

You are blessed to have mother nature working for you not against you. You have the potential to look truly stunning.

Dont worry about a thing in the looks dept, you have already got it baby.

LOVE and hugs, Chandra

Link to comment
Guest emma'sdilemma
Dearest Selkia,

You are blessed to have mother nature working for you not against you. You have the potential to look truly stunning.

Dont worry about a thing in the looks dept, you have already got it baby.

LOVE and hugs, Chandra

Thats the truth

Link to comment
Guest Kayde

LOOKIN GORGEOUS! How tall are you hun? Because you could seriously be a model. You look 100% chica ! :)

I'm not joking... Because have you seen agyness deyn? She looks like a androgyne, and she's a complete supermodel!

But you... you look total female.

And if you're tall, you could be a supermodel

I wish I was tall :(

But I'm a short dude :(

WAAAAH :angry:

Link to comment
Guest childofwinter

There is no way that anyone could call you ugly. You're at the very least very cute, and you look a little like a Deschanel sister.

Link to comment
Guest Angelgrlsue

Ok I hope this counts but I am blind too, not totally blind, have some vision left in one eye. Enough to see that you are a very beautiful girl and you would have no problem passing.

Hugs,

Suzie

Link to comment
  • 5 months later...
  • 3 weeks later...
Guest Erin Girl to Be

wow!!!!

i like your pics....

u r VERY CUTE !!!!

Erin

<__<; I don't know why but when ever I think I look great...I take a pic..and then I see how ugly I am..

-___-;.......I miss the good old days when I accually looked good :x and got mistaken for a girl everyday...now the only way of me passing is if I master my girl voice and i'm in a dark room where no one can accually see me :/

sadly my face is getting worse every year..from scars..burns..beatings...and the worst thing .__. Male hormones....

as you can notice from the pics at the bottom I have nasty hair, bushy eyebrows...big forehead...well the point is i'm ugly...

though my "blind" (she must be <.<;) friend...she says I look great..and i'd make a really cute girl...-___-; and since I kept telling her I wouldn't she told me to go ask other people if I am passable...so thats what i'm doing...just fill in what ya think on da poll..you can comment too I guess..

Sel..

Ps. The pics were takin about 3 hours ago...nothing special done..no make up no camera tricks...soo there not old pics..unlike most of the ones of me.. -__- having trouble posting all pics...guess i'll just post one then...*sigh*

<__<; wow...I have had to make the image so small so it will even post..gonna load them on Photo bucket .__. pic 1..

pic2

pic3

Link to comment

Selka,

Ok so I looked at those pics you posted but I think something went wrong with your post. I mean that pretty girl in those pics couldn't be you after what you said in your message. You must have cross linked the pics with someone else or something.

Girl, you are beautiful!

Link to comment

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now
  • Who's Online   5 Members, 0 Anonymous, 99 Guests (See full list)

    • MaybeRob
    • AllieJ
    • April Marie
    • Heather Shay
    • Petra Jane
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.

  • Forum Statistics

    • Total Topics
      80.7k
    • Total Posts
      769k
  • Member Statistics

    • Total Members
      12,049
    • Most Online
      8,356

    MAN8791
    Newest Member
    MAN8791
    Joined
  • Today's Birthdays

    1. Adamtoeve
      Adamtoeve
      (38 years old)
    2. Andy C.
      Andy C.
      (22 years old)
    3. Asher the Enby Goddex
      Asher the Enby Goddex
      (23 years old)
    4. camerashy
      camerashy
      (52 years old)
    5. Stacy S.
      Stacy S.
      (55 years old)
  • Posts

    • Heather Shay
      Do you plan to be active during Pride Month? If so, what type of activities?
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
    • Heather Shay
      @Ladypcnj So nice to meet a fellow musician and moderator/facilitator. Glad you are an active and caring member of the LBGTQ+ community. 
    • April Marie
      Absolutely. Being able to encourage, to help, others is so empowering. I've been helped by so many people over the years, I love being able to pay it forward.
    • April Marie
      Feeling more and more confident daily.
    • April Marie
      Good morning, everyone!!   A busy day ahead for me - need to cut the grass and then pick up the clippings. The grass grows so quickly this time of year. I cut almost 7 acres so that will take up most of my day. At least I can get some sun on my legs and arms!!   Time for another cup of coffee as I catch up here.   Enjoy this beautiful day we've been given.
    • April Marie
      I started shaving my legs years ago - I started getting an occasional mild contact rash on my shins. That became my excuse to shave them for both me and my wife. Over time, the rash didn't expand...but my shaving did. Full legs....groin......chest......and finally my arms. Keeping the rash at bay was my excuse until I came out to my wife. Now I typically do a full shave on Sunday mornings. The hair is lighter but I just feel better with it gone - it helps with the dysphoria and dysmorphia. I will also typically do a chest touch-up mid week since I notice the growth more there.   I wish someone would invent a pill that would stop hair growth everywhere except on your head. 
    • Willow
      Good morning.   im not sure where the time went.  I had a decent nights sleep,  didn’t  tell Alexa to let me sleep another 5 minutes,  I didn’t do anything extra but it’s almost time to leave and I just got here.  Definitely only a one cup morning.    I have the overhead console out of the Ford. It needed some repairs with toothpicks and glue.  Been sitting all night t for the glue to harden. I’m always to impatient with glue but not this time.  I want it to hold. Ok the next owner won’t be able to change the lightbulbs however in my defense, the are led so they will likely still work when the car goes to the salvage yard.   gotta go. Not as much on my plate at work today but it’s always busy.   Willow
    • Lydia_R
      Yes, my programmer friends and I think that antivirus software is a virus.  It's constantly searching your system and slowing it down.  If you install your own OS and software on your machine, and you make backups of your personal files, then you can recover from viruses in an hour or two.  My computer is 10+ years old and is working as good as the first day I had it.   As long as my computer is doing what I want it to do, I don't care if someone is spying on my system.
    • awkward-yet-sweet
      If you get a ticket, always say not guilty and go to court. Much of the time, the officer will not show up, and often the district attorney or the judge will not want to take the time. They ticket harvest because most people just agree to the fine and send them a check by mail.   If you are not a commercial driver, Most states also have a ticket forgiveness program. You take a little easy Driver's Ed Course, and it doesn't go on your record or increase your insurance prices. Explore your options!
    • KayC
      Shaving my legs (very early on) was the first BIG STEP in my self-affirmation.  It also felt Real and Natural ... Finally (after all my years with fairly hairy legs). My wife was shocked but I think she thought it was 'OK' as long as didn't go any farther ... well that wasn't going to happen.  It was actually Step 1 of many to follow.  I did feel the need to hide it from others but eventually didn't care.  And, men shaving their legs is much more common these days. Home IPL (laser) made the hair removal permanent over the course of a year or so.  Whatever was leftover has been reduced to peach-fuzz by HRT. I don't deny or reject all my years living in the realm of cis-males ... it was part of my Journey to get to where I am today.  But since committing to HRT and living in an environment and community that supports my transition, I find it difficult to go back into Boy-mode.  The times that I do have to do that ... I can feel the dysphoria rising up again.  No going back ... at this point. 
    • KayC
      Congratulations @EasyE on your continued progress! I think it was about 6 - 8 weeks for me that I truly started to notice (and feel!) the changes.  They were not enormous (no pun intended) but I could notice my breasts were starting to plump up and my hips also.    fyi - I talked to my Provider a couple of days ago and based on recent labs agreed that I could start progesterone.  I did a LOT of research and after expressing any concerns with my Provider we both felt confident in starting.  I have been almost a full year of estradiol and I think my breast and other body changes have started to settle down.  Hoping the 'P' will give them another jump start. Thank you for sharing your progress.  I think you're going to be Happy with with the next couple of months brings  
    • Ladypcnj
      I have this one particular antivirus with the VPN, I thought I paid for everything to be activated, but it turns out to be I have basic protection and they want more money from me to turn it on. I wished the store salesperson told me this soon, I would have brought something else that has everything in it, not half protection missing lol
    • KayC
      Hi @Mealaini - nice to meet you and Welcome! You have an important story and experience to share so I am happy you are open and willing to do that.  Also, I want you to know that this Forum was a very important part of my own Self-Acceptance and helped me navigate both my Progress and the Coming Out process to my wife, kids, and other family/friends.   It's not an easy Journey - sometimes it can seem slow and painful - but for most of us here, it's one that is essential to our Well Being.  I hope you have a similar experience as myself as you connect with others on this Forum and gain the benefit our each individual Experience and our Shared Humanity. Deep breaths ... One step at a time
  • Upcoming Events

Contact TransPulse

TransPulse can be contacted in the following ways:

Email: Click Here.

To report an error on this page.

Legal

Your use of this site is subject to the following rules and policies, whether you have read them or not.

Terms of Use
Privacy Policy
DMCA Policy
Community Rules

Hosting

Upstream hosting for TransPulse provided by QnEZ.

Sponsorship

Special consideration for TransPulse is kindly provided by The Breast Form Store.
×
×
  • Create New...