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decided to inform work place of my transition and current situation and was completely shocked how easy it was and how accepting most people are.... management had meeting with staff and informed workers of my situation and i was completely relieved that most people was really genuine accepting... one happy girl ? so need to hide anymore ?

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decided to inform work place of my transition and current situation and was completely shocked how easy it was and how accepting most people are.... management had meeting with staff and informed workers of my situation and i was completely relieved that most people was really genuine accepting... one happy girl ? so need to hide anymore ?

 

Hugs so happy for you, great news, when are you going full time at work.

 

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That's wonderful. 

 

I am the luckiest girl ever! Coming out was probably the easiest "Hard to do thing" to happen in my entire life.

 

Here's what it took to knock that barrier down.

 

I asked his permission to sleep in my nude. You see I can't sleep with anyone. Period.

 

PTSD - Violent, late night outbursts.

 

After US Navy discharge I could barely sleep with myself.

 

NEXT MORNING...

 

I haven't put mens clothing on since. I gave Shawn a $1000 worth of Hawaiin Shirts. All Authenic. Tommy Bahama, etc.

 

No fear... That was two months ago.

 

I go where I want, when i want!

Wearing the clothing I want and I am having a blast. There is No Person on this planet that gives enough crap about me to even care if I'm alive.

 

My life partner and I are Asexual. So that is not an issue. No one has ever penetrated me and no one EVER will. 

 

MY proclivity is of the first letter in LGBT.

 

Why else would one have such life

changing urgency to have a plumbing fixture remodel...

 

And at this point it is purely mechanical. However dysphoric it may be...

...

 

c'est la vie

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That’s awesome Jojo!! You should be proud of that! It’s a very big step. And a very difficult one for many. 

That’s the one thing I’m worried about. I work with a lot of “tough guys”. They really aren’t but they sure think they are. Lol. Always fighting and yelling at each other. It’s like a 3rd grade classroom full of grown men. Actually out of about 100 people, there is one female that works in the field. I’ll be #2. So I’m not expecting a very warm welcome when I finally do come out at work. 

Thankfully my company is like 1 of 8 big companies in the US that’s 100% trans friendly. So no issues with keeping my job. I’m just worried about dealing with the apes. ?

It seems like this is a lot of people’s final step before full time so I’m in no rush. That’s a ways away for me still. 

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Very nice news Jojo!  Onward!!!!

 

Jani

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thanks girls im quite relieved still dressing inbetween looks lol because its a warehouse come factory job so a dress or skirt wouldnt be really fitting with work boots lol but wearing earrings and nail varnish lol and no one bats an eyelid now lol

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a lot of people said to me in work there proud of me and how brave i am because its a tough decision and i told them its a decision i should of made years ago

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