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Beatrice Crawford

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Hello everyone, I've joined you all to try out a new identitysafely to see if this identity fots me.  I've had a lot of issues in my life I tried doing the whole "if I'm manly enough the confusion will stop" as well as the whole "transgender people are an abomination thing" one made me feel worse and the other made me hate myself for being so mean to humans.  Blah blah blee blah.  In short I fit on the gender spectrum somewhere other than cisgender and wanted to test where.  I chose the name of the bat I played when I was in elementary school because I really liked being called Bibi even if only for an hour or two.

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Hi Beatrice (Bibi).  Welcome to the forum.  Many of us did the man-up thing and it doesn't work.  You don't have to be mean.  Being nice is so much more enjoyable way to live.  I see in your profile that you write.  Have you published?   

 

Look around and ask questions.  You'll find your place, wherever it is on the spectrum.  

Cheers, Jani

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Technically that's not entirely true I've written an article that made it to a game website only one though and the website no longer exists, so lots of success there

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Hi Beatrice,

Welcome to Transpulse. I'm glad you're here!

 

I became sort of a woodsman, going into the forest and cutting firewood, hauling it home and splitting it up with a wood maul. Doing the "manly thing". Even though I loved doing those woodsy things, it didn't work. So here we are!

 

Lots of love and a big welcome hug,

Timber Wolf ??

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Welcome Beatrice,  nice to meet you and hear a little bit about you.  I'd love to hear more about you and your journey.  Thank you for sharing today.

 

Susan R?

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Welcome to Trans Pulse, Beatrice.  Please look around the forums and post in any of the threads you find interesting.  The more you participate, the faster you will learn.  Thanks for sharing your story.

 

HUGS

 

Carolyn Marie

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