situation: gym i need to shower women shower yea or nea and would you wear a bathing suit

[Lexi C]

So I been using the women locker room and bathroom at L.A fitness for the best 6months..I don't wear my wig when I workout, have very little make-up but I am dress as women in my gym attire.  Lately I have been taking bird shower( grab a small wet towel wipe my  face, armpits, breasts and private area and dry) when I am running late from a workout to work. However, the other day I want to shower because I had a big meeting with a potential client and want to look good...But I was  afraid to shower. I have done it many of times as man but I was afraid because I didn't know the proper etiquette. Do I wear two piece, one piece, do I hide inside a stall when I changing ?,,just felt weird and it piss me off that I am still afraid...Anyone else had this problem ? and what did u do?

[Maid In Bedlam]

Personally. I would never put myself in that situation. I would reschudule or not go gym that day.

 

Thats solves the problem and dilemma.

 

If its that important a meeting then is it worth even asking this question? Prep for the meeting. The gym will still be there tommrow.

 

Not sure about wearing a one piece or two piece. Its a shower and your in the nip normally.

 

 

[tracy_j]

I agree!

 

The nearest I have ever been was mixed showering and changing when at some swimming pools. It's a bit worrying at first, stood close to someone in the shower. Obviously everyone showers in costume and then changes in stalls. A good insight into the way the different genders behave though.

 

Separate things so that you approach the showering issue when you are under less stress. The answer will hopefully become easier to reach.

 

Tracy

[Lexi C]

thanks for your advice