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First Surgery Letter...


Guest Donna Jean

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Guest Donna Jean

Hey, all.....

I'm walking on air.....

Why, you ask?

Well, Thursday my therapist said that he felt it was time to present me with my first of two letters needed for surgery! OMG!

So he is preparing that for me now!

I'll still need to do RLT and get the other letter.... but, I've hit a milestone in my journey...

So the surgery is still 18 months at a very minimum, but there is light at the end!

(and, of course, there's still that pesky money thing)

Happy Donna Jean

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Congratulations Dee Jay,

You are really moving along!

I can't believe how everything is just falling into place for you - what's next - winning the lotery?

Seriously, I'd bya ticket if I were you - just one should do it! :D

Love ya,

Sally

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Guest Evan_J

Yes! You go honey. I know its amazing and exilarating at the same time. And like you said "now there's just that pesky little money thing" ;)

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Guest joe0117

Congratulatiions Donna Jean!

that is so great! now the money thing - maybe we could convince your boss a few more times that he still owes you your bonus - unless he actually keeps records and documents stuff like that <_<

we could have a giant bake sale and give you all the proceedes I probably shouldn't bake or we'll lose all the money in refunds :(

we could have a car wash and put all the money we make into your surgery fund - this just won't work in areas where there is a water ban - again we would lose money in fines we would have to pay :blink:

Sorry Donna Jean I guess I'm not all that helpful after all ...but

Congrats on the letter!!!

Joe

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Guest Elizabeth K

So see - everyone knows you are such a weepy woman - and you have a paper to prove it! hee hee

CONGRADULATIONS!

Lizzy

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Guest Donna Jean

You know.....

I feel incredible...I love you all so much....my life has never in half a century had SO much meaning...

And now, Lizzy, I'll have a paper that says that I can cry legally and I won't have to do it on the sly anymore...

And I still refuse to regret not having transitioned years ago....there is nothing to gain by that!

I'm happy now in the present and for the future!

Sally ...If I got a winning ticket...you suggested it so it's 50-50!

Happy as a Ladybug in a rug!

Donna Jean

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Just in case you don't win the lotery start putting back $1 a week and with the cost of surgery going up and based on it's current rate you should have it all together in arouund 577 years! :)

So who loves ya,

Sally

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Guest mia 1

Good for you honey I can't think of anyone who I know who was born a woman and just that dang wrong body part...but now baby the real you is coming and sooner than you can say Jack Robinson BAM!!!! you'll be 100% L.E.G.A.L. bona fides...Congrats....Mia :D

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Guest Lizzie McTrucker

Congrats and perhaps with these tough economic times maybe SRS Dr's will start printing coupons?

You know like buy on SRS get the other for 50% off, or get a free traech shave or forehead countouring with any SRS ($500 value!).

(Good while supplies last, offer not available at all locations, some restrictions apply, consumer must pay all applicable sales taxes. limit one coupon per household)

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Guest Donna Jean

Lizzie.....

I need to snip (OMG :blink: ) that coupon out so I can use it later....

I did read that Dr. Bower's waiting list is shorter than before......

HUGGS........LOL

Donna Jean

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Lizzie.....

I need to snip (OMG :blink: ) that coupon out so I can use it later....

I did read that Dr. Bower's waiting list is shorter than before......

HUGGS........LOL

Donna Jean

That's what happens when you are forced into a large price jump during a depression - money is tight and this 'so called elective' surgery can wait.

Love ya,

Sally

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