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3 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

 

Hey now, there's hope for everybody. Stop that. ☝️

 

Secondly, on what planet is Idaho "the South?"

 

Thirdly, I know some lovely people in New York. There is humanity everywhere. Sometimes people forget for a minute when they get overwhelmed by their own lives. Also, the language filter strikes!

 

If you want to be banned from the site, you'll have to try harder than that. Not to say it's impossible, we do ban people once in a while, but not for anything in your post. Sorry.

 

So back to the original thrust of @SheenaT's post: It's OK to be scared. Normal even. Change is scary. However the definition of courage continues to be doing what you need to do despite being scared. Fear serves a purpose, you just can't let it control your life.

 

Hugs!

Idaho is in the northwest.

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There are good people in NY and ID.  While you may have to seek them out, they are there.  

3 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

It's OK to be scared. Normal even. Change is scary. However the definition of courage continues to be doing what you need to do despite being scared. Fear serves a purpose, you just can't let it control your life.

@SheenaT this is so true.  Fear (hopefully) keeps us from doing the stupid.  And at time is makes us pause to consider our actions.  But it is not a reason to not move forward.  

 

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18 hours ago, Jani said:

There are good people in NY and ID.  While you may have to seek them out, they are there.  

@SheenaT this is so true.  Fear (hopefully) keeps us from doing the stupid.  And at time is makes us pause to consider our actions.  But it is not a reason to not move forward.  

 

Jani

I will be deciding my path after seeing my therapist.  I can't go on like this anymore!

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2 hours ago, SheenaT said:

I will be deciding my path after seeing my therapist.  I can't go on like this anymore!

 

Excellent plan! I wish you nothing but good fortune and (if the weather in Idaho is anything like here right now) flash-frozen butterflies. The poor dears just don't flutter about quite the same way in the cold.

 

Hugs!

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2 hours ago, Jackie C. said:

 

Excellent plan! I wish you nothing but good fortune and (if the weather in Idaho is anything like here right now) flash-frozen butterflies. The poor dears just don't flutter about quite the same way in the cold.

 

Hugs!

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