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Hi everyone! This is not a coming out story unfortunately but I'm sure in the future there will be some...! But I'm happy to announce that after battling with confusion and negativity towards my identity I have come to the conclusion that I'm Transgender and not questioning..! Well... sorta. ? You see, I've figured out I'm trans! But trans what? I'm not so sure.. I think I may be FtM but the thing is I don't like He/Him pronouns I prefer They/Them pronouns so I'm sorta sure of what I am yet not? Idk, it's a bit confusing but I think it's definitely progress or at least getting past negativity for me is. ? Also I was wondering could I still be FtM yet use they/them instead of he/him? ?I'm just a bit confused whether that'd be okay. If I could use those pronouns and be FtM then I think I may have figured it out. ?I'm still not sure if it's right for me but I just don't feel like a girl at all. I act like a girl ?? sometimes to please my family to avoid conflict or to make them feel happy.? I've mentioned LGBTQIA+ stuff before and it was pure chaos my mom was crying?, my grandma was mad?, and my aunt was sort of supportive ?suggesting I need guidance from a counselor. I can't get one due to child support problems between my mom and dad though.??‍♀️??‍♂️ Yeah so if I could be male and identify with the pronouns I prefer that'd be amazing! Since I'd finally probably be sure of myself..!

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Cool! I guess I finally got it figured out then! ??

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I am more on the female side, But I will use the female pronouns with the neutral pronouns. Partial for being a former him, and partial since being trans is not fully pink or blue, I guess shades of purple(?).

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Oh I see! Well that's much better..! I thought you could only be pink or blue when it came to being trans silly me! But it's good to know I can be trans and use neutral pronouns! I'm just not comfortable with binary ones. ?

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