I came out to one of my best friends just now.

[Davie]

 

Well . . . my world became a little wider today—I came out to one of my best friends just now. I’ve come out to: nine people so far. Whew. It feels monumental even though I knew he’d be supportive no matter what. He said, “Well, one thing I know is that you’re a good housekeeper.” I’m not sure how that applies, but I am.
 But still it makes a “very sensitive me” more real in the world. I do feel a great relief in it though--he means a lot to me (and his wife). Boy, I’d better check my list of folks I’m out to-- up to nine now? Not sure. No family members yet--that’s on the horizon, of course. I’m still not in love with change but she’s less of a stranger now. Thanks for being part of my real family today.
Hugs.

 

 

[Sally Stone]

Davie, it's a nice feeling when you can express your true self to those close to you.  Congratulations.

[KayC]

Congratulations, Davie!  I am at Four now.  So, I know how each new step of acceptance is SPECIAL❣️

[Confused1]

Congratulations Davie!  I'm up to 8. Five are close family. No one has walked away, but it has changed the relationship a little with a couple of them. My sister and stepmom blew me away. Immediate acceptance by both. My wife had the most trouble up front, but now totally accepting.

 

Hugs,

Mike

[Davie]

Congrats, Mike

 

It's scary so I think I feel myself pushing back against coming out—but then an opportunity comes and I find my story flowing from my lips—again. And I find the truth of my story expanding, even as I tell it. (Like: "I said that?") Yes, and I meant it. Our stories, they've got a power of their own. I didn't plan this one and it was easier that way. What's in a number? Not much really . . . except a sign of progress.

 

Cheers,

Davie

 

[Davie]

Good morning, all!

The tea is steeping and my mind is peeping like a bird today. Good to be awake for that.

After a mostly depressed week, I'm doing much better today. Had a good friend who I'm out to visit yesterday and we just told stories and shared friendship. He came back from a trek to Maine and I talked about my trek through the cis world into the trans world. Seems the more I open up, the more he opens up. Born into a shoe box in Harlem he's conquered his world with wit and humor and a lot of grit. One long strange trip for both of us.

But today, I'm energized: already cleaned up my kitchen and did my morning OA meeting.

All ready to enjoy the day.

I hope you all do so too.

Hugs,

Davie

 

[Charlize]

I'm glad you were able to share openly with a friend Davie.  Simply being able to breathe openly honest can raise my mood and when i have found acceptance i positively float!

Enjoy your tea.

 

Hugs,

 

Charlize

[Davie]

 "Simply being able to breathe openly, i positively float!" 

 

Here, here! Yes, yes!

 

Thanks, Charlize