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Charlize

This piece now hangs in my barn with a smaller version. It is made up of 3 band saw blades, sharp and dangerous but also lovely in baby blue, white and pink.  I’ve been lucky to find good receptions.  Our local county library allowed me to hang the large6’x3’ piece prominently and the smaller hung at a juried show at a local college.   Since the blades are suspended with a swivel snap a breeze our bit of a push send them spinning.  
 

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Charlize

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Willow Farmer

Thank you Charlize,

 

   I had a long, hard, male-ish weekend and this reminds me of the wonderful inner beauty of being a trans woman that I should embrace and radiate outward.

 

 Much Love,

 

 Willow McKenzie

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Here is the smaller version of the piece.  The curator of the show decided to play with shadows but I also noticed it got it’s own corner so it wouldn’t cut anyone.  Those trans hoops can be painful!

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Delcina B

Charlize,

Beautiful! Are these the hoops one must jump through to transition?

 

Hugs!

Delcina

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11 hours ago, Delcina B said:

Are these the hoops one must jump through to transition?

That was the case for me.  Perhaps we all get a bit bloodied by the experience as lovely as it might be.  As i pondered transitioning i wasn't sure i could get through but it also lured me in with beauty.

 

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Charlize

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👍😊

 

Lots of love,

Timber Wolf🐾

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